Will you be happy without me? Leave me. Are you okay?

Duckweed has spent half her life, studying in the first half, being an official in the second half, walking and walking, gentleness has passed away, but the secular has approached;

In the four seasons, the first half is winter and the second half is autumn. I am busy and my youth is gone, but I owe him a farewell.

At the age of 30, I was confused all the way, shouting slogans, carrying chicken soup around my waist and running with my head down. But when the city fell asleep in the middle of the night, I realized that I was losing my youth all the way, and I had no time to say goodbye. I really want to say to it: lost youth, are you okay after leaving me?

People who knowingly talk about their present lives are a bit old-fashioned and melodramatic, but they still can't help but want to use such words. Some teenagers don't know the taste of sadness, ... giving new words a strong meaning of sadness.

Up to now, there have been ups and downs in life, including pride and loss. I will be happy for a long time because I have acquired new skills, and I will be complacent because of the new progress of the project. I will be puzzled by the intrigue at work, and I will be confused because of the soaring housing prices. Therefore, I am used to wandering back and forth between fantasy and reality.

Time has not changed, or spent in the busy, no waves, but gradually found that reading has become their best investment in themselves. After several attempts, I realized that I really don't have the willpower to chase a set of numbers for ten years. Since there is no hope of windfall, let me study realistically, at least the real income will give me a long-lost sense of sureness. After all, no one will let me inherit billions of assets and spend billions of RMB a month.

The impetuousness of life forced me to accept the friendship between a face-saving friend and a plastic girl. In contrast, I find that reading some good books can still be rewarding. After all, books usually tell you what I'm doing. Although it was born for history or sales, it is still cheap for myself who is still confused in impetuousness. I have read the series of financial books "Rich Dad and Poor Dad" and gained some experience in trying to imitate them. No matter what book can make some substantial changes, it is not a so-called saliva book.

When it doesn't involve houses and cars (except motorboats), I feel that my iron salary is more than enough to cope with my present life. It's just the difference between eggs and cakes with or without sausages. But speaking of which, I realize that I want to cry without tears, so I have to make some changes. Since I don't have the guts to enjoy the ups and downs of the stock market, I still have to force myself to learn financial management by reading the book Rich Dad and Poor Dad.

Rich dad and poor dad mentioned a passage to the effect that God gave people two incomparable gifts, time and thought. You and only you can decide the use of every penny in your hand. If you squander money, you may choose poverty; Spend money on debt and you will become a middle class; Put money in your head, learn how to buy assets, and go with you when you have money. Every penny of yours is up to you to choose, and every day you choose, every little makes a mickle. When qualitative change occupies the limelight of quantitative change, it is also the time when you are rich, poor and cheap.

When I first read this passage, I sneered: Hum, I only said the result, not the process. Sorry, I can't make this bowl of poisoned chicken soup. However, when life has undergone some substantial changes because of this book, it makes sense to look back at this passage. Personally, I think the most difficult thing is self-discipline.

1, real estate

In recent years, under the blockade of the policy, real estate has no longer shown vigorous growth, but personally, if there is no house under the name, you can start with the first house within your ability. After all, currency depreciation is still faster than real estate, and real estate may reverse.

Even if the real estate market collapses, you still have a rigid house to live in. If it is a foreign property, you can rent it out and support the loan.

Optimistic, maybe when you sell a house, its value-added percentage is much higher than 2% of the bank's conventional wealth management ... The principle of this method is that you can leverage more assets with a certain down payment. Personally, I think McDonald's is one of the founders of this method. If you are interested, you can watch the movie The Great Entrepreneur.

Every day when I open my eyes, I am heavily in debt, and remind myself that I need to work hard. Although very tired, it is better than poverty in the present materialistic situation.

2. Financial products

3. Intellectual property rights

Intellectual property is a high-quality asset and also a virtual asset. If you do it at once, you can make a permanent profit. For example, books, music, film and television royalties, patent fees, mobile App software and so on. All belong to the category of intellectual property rights. When the author of the Harry Potter series cooks at home, there may be money in his account. It is also a way to profit from intellectual property rights to attach high professional titles to enterprises and get certain remuneration.

Step 4 invest in yourself

If you can't afford a house, you don't have much savings, and you don't have intellectual property rights, it doesn't mean you can't buy assets. Don't forget, the brain is the most precious resource of human beings. Time and thoughts are given to everyone by God. It depends on how you use them.

Will you be happy without me? If I no longer exist, will you be sad?

Death is always a taboo topic that we don't want to talk about and face, but the last day of life will always come, either calmly or unexpectedly. Have you ever imagined that day? If, as Kotaro Isaka wrote in his book,

There really is a god of death in this world, and he is here to pick you up. What would you do?

In Kotaro Isaka's novel The Accuracy of Death, Chiba, who always wears white gloves, falls in love with a man who is addicted to music in the audition corner of a CD shop in his spare time.

His real identity is death.

He always appears in stormy days and spends the last seven days with dying people. Chiba's job is to judge people who are about to die unexpectedly. He will observe them for seven days before they die and finally decide whether to execute the death penalty or release them.

Chiba has never seen a real sunny day, nor is it the kind of death who will fulfill his wish for the dying. He is only responsible for reporting to his superiors whether his observation object should die.

If death is in front of you, will it be your most desperate time?

If you look back on your life now, can you face death calmly?

Li Li is a girl who cherishes her life. She cherishes everyone around her and enjoys every day of her life. She told me that she couldn't imagine the day when her grandparents left her, although she knew that day would come, maybe not far away.

She said:

I've only lived for twenty years, and he can't take me away. There are many things I want to do. If I or people around me want to leave, I will be very sad. But if there is such a day, I actually hope that he can let the precious people around him stay in this beautiful world for a long time and continue to have their happiness.

She likes that song, if there is an afterlife.

This song describes the life she wants.

She said that when she heard this song, she was very moved and happy, and she felt that her favorite person was around. It seems that she will always be the smiling girl who takes selfies every day in her circle of friends and lives with her dreams.

Although she is afraid of death, her happy and free life gives her magical self-healing ability.

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Even if the world after death is dark as an abyss, I can rest in peace and calm.

Unlike Lili, Nana is a girl who has suffered from depression. She was close to death. In my opinion, she is not afraid of death. She thinks it may be fate. Once she wanted to end herself, but maybe death negotiated with her and sent her back. For her, death is the relief of everything.

Nana said:

Being depressed all the time is no big deal. Suicide has nothing to say. In fact, my existence means nothing to many people. In fact, I feel that even if I don't exist, there will be others to play my role in life. Maybe one day I will still choose to find death by myself. But if death is in front of me, I will say, I have to bother to take me away. Thank you. But please take good care of the people around me and let those who will be sad forget me if possible.

Nana doesn't cherish everyone around her.

But because I have experienced the sadness and happiness of life, the more I look at it, the more pessimistic and kind I am.

How can there be such a problem? You must consider everything.

Qi is the most active person I have ever met. One of his most commonly used words is,

Think about everything, and life can be high.

He seems to be everyone's pistachio, as if he will never be unhappy.

But seriously, who is not afraid of death? what can I do? I can only accept it. I don't know what the world will be like after death, but I live happily every day. Maybe I don't know when the accident will really happen, and it's useless to make more preparations, but at the last moment, I hope all the memories that emerge in front of me are happy memories of my life.

If you can get rid of your troubles, maybe you can smile at that time, maybe that is the accumulated happiness.

Leave,

You can be calm and not look back,

It can also be the sadness of regretting tears.

But more importantly, feel every day of life with your heart.

Maybe it can make something that sounds sad a little comforting.

Love said, would you be happy without me? I haven't been happy since I left you.

I'm not afraid of hardship, I just want a happy family together.

I choke on every word. People who have hurt me. I also see through everything.

In fact, it is really difficult for couples to fall in love easily and stay together until they are old. There are many feelings that make time become a stranger, lack of language communication, and finally become a familiar stranger.

I met him on WeChat. I don't know if this is luck or what. I wonder what he is doing every day. I can't stop thinking about him. I know I'm stupid, but I can't make myself miss him. Seeing him again and again now seems to be a childhood fantasy. I don't know when I will wake up.

Life is not easy, you don't need to be eager for others' understanding and recognition, and live your life quietly. If the heart doesn't move, what does wind energy do? If you don't get hurt, the years will be fine.

I suddenly want to go herding cattle. I sleep on the back of a cow. If the cow is lost, I lose it, so I'm not worried.

A person's life is neither as good as imagined nor as bad as imagined. There will be sadness behind everyone and unspeakable difficulties. Everyone has their own tears to wipe and their own way to go. Just remember to add a coat to yourself when you are cold, buy yourself a bread when you are hungry, and give yourself a strong one when you are injured.

In front of the person who loves you, you will always be a child, but in front of the person who doesn't love you, you will always be a man.

In the adult world, there are old people and young people. We can't go beyond the world, we can't love if we want, and we can go on bravely for responsibility.

Honey, if you are tired, stop and have a rest. Cry, it doesn't matter if you are weak. Leaning on someone else's shoulder, or tears falling from the corner of your eyes, is not cowardice.

Riding an electric car home from work, it's a little cold and I want to cry.

Time never perfunctory the existence of every life, it is kind to the beginning of every sunrise, will continue countless stories. What you pay now will be a kind of precipitation. The road of life depends on your own progress step by step. What can really protect you is your own choice. Happiness and misfortune in life are not consistent as expected, so we don't have to regret it. If it is beautiful, it is called wonderful; If it is bad, it is called experience.

There are always regrets in life, but the future is still beautiful.

At the age of thirty, I learned to hide my tears and grow up in the wind and rain. Even if you like someone, you dare not express it easily, for fear that there will be no result. I used to be a naive child, but the reality made me invulnerable. I want nothing for the rest of my life. I like the person I like now, healthy and safe, even if I can't be together.

No matter how stormy it is, you should take an umbrella alone. Even if there are more obstacles, you should try your best to solve them.

Life is not easy, you don't need to be eager for others' understanding and recognition, and live your life quietly. If the heart doesn't move, what does wind energy do? If you don't get hurt, the years will be fine.

Suddenly I feel like a lost child! I can't find my way! I really want to cry! I feel like I'm not myself anymore.

Whether you admit it or not, the world is always hard, so is life, workplace and life.

I don't know when it started! I dare not shed tears! I dare not tell others easily from my heart! It doesn't matter what you do! But my heart is full of Wang Yang! It's good to be young. Dare to say, dare to think and dare to do! The older you get, the more careful you are! Really tired!

Life is short, and the rest of my life is long. Love yourself, cry more and laugh more, and everything will pass.

Behind the smile, it is not as easy to bear the unknown life as imagined.

I didn't know my parents' sufferings when I was a child, but now I am an adult, and I also realize the hardships of my parents when I was a child. Parents have worked hard! I wish my parents good health, happiness every day and love you forever, my parents.

Will you be happy without me? The man who made you hate stupidity left you ... Are you happy?

Thank you for growing up with time for a year. Slow age is no longer a problem, but a symbol. Because I walk steadily every step and live freely every day, I am no longer afraid of getting old. This is the wealth and happiness given by time.

It is not easy to live alone. Everything is carried forward by ourselves. Without support, I just look forward and live a good and comfortable life every day. Thank yourself in this life.

If you learn to let go, you will walk easily and go further. Thank yourself for knowing it's not too late. May all your sufferings blossom and bear fruit, and may all your tiredness be turned into feedback.

Maybe you didn't think of it yourself, but you left. There is no need to care about others. Remind yourself to be brave.

Dear self: relentless changes and unbearable reality make me feel that commitment will not last forever! There is no afterlife in life! However, my sensible son, my relatives, friends and classmates all gave me endless love! Let me get up the courage, face the reality bravely, and live every day with strong pride!

Dear yourself, there is only one you in the world. Even if no one knows how to appreciate it, you should love yourself and be yourself. Dear yourself, treat the people with you well, because love may be temporary, but friendship is lifelong.

I'm sorry, I was unreasonable, but I also loved willfully.

Never be moved, never love those who don't love you, and never wait for those who can't wait.

Some people come into your life and give you hope, but in the end they teach you to grow by leaving. No matter how painful it is, there is nothing I can do. The fate here is only blessing.

For the rest of my life, I will accompany you here. It's not that I don't love, but that I don't have the courage to be with you. I really hope to meet you in the future and spend the rest of my life with you.

People who smoke will never smell their own smoke, just as relatives never know how difficult it is to love someone who loves you.

Sorry, I still like you so much. I haven't forgotten you. I miss you so much!

Sorry, I really like it. I can only miss you now, and I can't bother you.

Thank you for accompanying me through spring, summer, autumn and winter. I will always remember everything. I am very lucky that you came to my world, and inadvertently lived in my heart, adding a touch of color to my world. The road of life is stormy, you accompany me, I miss you all my life!

I paid a lot, wronged a lot, endured a lot and cheated myself a lot. Finally, I put it down, because I really can't bear it. I'm sorry! It's not that I don't love, it's that I dare not love anymore.

I'm sorry, but later time gave us a sentence that it doesn't matter.

I'm sorry to bother you earlier, but I won't bother you again.

We all have a special person, some relatives, some lovers and some friends, but in any case, we have to get to know each other through life and time. Maybe this process will be very hard, and we are still willing to try. Maybe this is love. Any kind of love needs tolerance and patience. Some people grow up in love, while others learn to love and be loved in love. This is the special significance of special people to our lives.

I'm sorry, I still love you.

I'm sorry, we have hurt each other, but we still can't bear to let go.

I haven't seen each other for more than ten years, and I really owe you an apology.