Auntie, take a picture of the nanny and talk about it.

This question should come from a photo taken, which is a photo of Ming Xi and the nanny taking a walk outside with their children (as shown below). Because she is a supermodel, many people pay attention to her and marry into a rich family. The life of a rich family is also of interest to netizens.

When I saw this photo, I watched it for a full minute, because her daily clothes were too grounded. In the photo, she is wearing a down jacket and snow boots on her feet. The parcel was so tight that she made a phone call while walking.

The nanny pushed the child to the front and the child was wrapped up. The nanny didn't wear a down jacket, and her pants were short, revealing her calves and ankles.

Seeing this photo, some netizens said? Ming Xi is still very weak after giving birth, so she is afraid to wear cold clothes? .

Some netizens also said? Ming Xi's nanny is more fashionable than her? !

Some netizens said? Ming Xi took her son on a low-key trip, just like an ordinary mother? .

Did any netizens discuss it? Does she usually take care of the children or the nanny? Question, as asked in the question.

Ming Xi takes the children out, and the nanny never leaves. Are children usually taken care of by nannies? As a mother, I think she should take care of the children with the nanny.

After all, she has started to return to work after giving birth. If she goes out to work, the child should be taken care of by her family and nanny.

If you don't work, you should take care of your children yourself. In fact, after giving birth to a baby, women's maternal love will be stimulated, and some things will be done involuntarily. Naturally, they pay more attention to the details of their children than their fathers, so most mothers take care of their children by themselves after their children are born.

But even at home, if you take care of your children, you often have your own things to deal with, such as taking your baby out for a walk and answering the phone. At this time, you can only take care of the children completely by the nanny.

In addition, she also exposed a large box of her son's toys on her personal social platform, saying that these toys can improve her son's cognitive ability. It can also be seen from this that she often accompanies her son and may often take care of the children.

But after all, families are different. Maybe some specific work with the baby, such as bathing the child, should be done by the nanny. She plays with children more often, or when she needs to make some arrangements, she will do it herself.

Is it better for a mother to take care of the children by herself or for an experienced nanny to help? If the mother allows it in all aspects, of course, the mother will take care of the child herself, which is the best for the child.

The establishment of children's sense of security from childhood, the cultivation of personality and behavior habits have a lot to do with their mothers. Naturally, it is the mother who takes care of the child herself, which is more conducive to the healthy growth of the child's body and mind.

Even if the family conditions are good, the nanny or the sister-in-law can help with the children. It is not recommended to leave them entirely to the nanny or the sister-in-law to take care of the children.

1. Nanny/parenting aunt and mother have different mentality in raising children.

Nanny/sister-in-law comes to help with the children, which is only an employment relationship. She will only regard this as a job, and there won't be too many emotional factors, so the mentality is naturally? Do your job, okay?

But the mother's identity is different, and she has deep feelings for her children. Motherly love is selfless and the greatest, and it is much more tolerant of children, which a nanny can't do.

2. Nanny/nanny has limited ability.

Even if you find a young nanny/sister-in-law, you can be physically competent, but in the early education and ability training of children, the nanny/sister-in-law is much worse. After all, most of them are not well educated and may not know much about their children's early education. They may even have some deviations from their mother's concept of parenting because of their outdated concepts.

But the growth of children is irreversible. From this perspective, children are also inseparable from their mothers.

Therefore, from these two points of view, it is better for mothers to take care of their children themselves.

But then again, do parents with children know? With a child? It is a super tiring thing. If you have the conditions, if you can hire a nanny or a parenting sister-in-law, you'd better hire one to take care of the baby together.

This can free some time and physical strength of the mother, because some nanny can do things without the mother, and the mother can save more time to play with her children, or take a rest and do her own thing, which will help improve the quality of life and family happiness.

Just like the family in Ming Xi, the daily routine of taking care of the baby should be that she is mainly responsible for playing with the child, while some specific physical labor matters are completed by the nanny.

This is my view on this issue. Do you think children in Ming Xi are usually taken care of by nannies? Also welcome to leave a message and express your opinion.

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