Sense of loss after retirement

That's what people do. I always want to close when I am busy, but when I am really free, think about how busy I am! Busy day passes quickly, otherwise how can it be like when I first joined the work? After working for others for many years, it's time to retire after forty years, but retirement is really hard and there is a sense of loss.

? You used to be busy at work, and sometimes you didn't care about the lock in your life. For example, if you don't fry well and do it well, you can expand the pond on the grounds that the workload is too great. Now, you are lazy in this respect. If you don't do or do less, you are mentally retarded. I think it's good to go to work, busy and happy.

? Also talk about the relationship between two people! I used to be busy for work and children every day. I almost go out early and come back late. The two spend less time together and stumble less. Now, after retirement, apart from seeing off grandchildren, they spend more time together and their unexposed weaknesses are exposed. Recently, I feel that the pressure of life is getting bigger and bigger, as if there is a heavy burden. Yes, what is lost is who to talk to, who to talk to or who will listen.

Talk about classmates, colleagues and friends! In the past, most of them worked and lived in the same place. After the busy work, they invited some classmates, friends and colleagues to have a drink and chat. Day by day passed quickly. Now because children have different jobs, they want to get together, just as we looked forward to the New Year when we were young. There is only one person drinking there now.

There are also different places of residence, different educational levels, different living customs and so on. And each has its own things. Even if you have used the elevator in a building for several years, you are Zhang San, I am Li Si and he is Wang. I don't know, sometimes I nod, sometimes I don't seem to see it.