Is the great poet Xu Zhimo a lover or a scum?

Xu Zhimo's talent and literary attainments are obvious to all. God created this genius. He is brilliant in literary talent, handsome and handsome, and a rich boy. In the popular words, Gao Fushuai is typical. However, heaven rewards diligence. At the age of 34, he died in the west and on the way to pursue his soul mate.

The love he pursues is to achieve the perfect combination of spirit and flesh. Mr. Hu Shi commented: "He has simple beliefs: love, freedom and beauty." He can pursue love regardless of worldly pressure. He divorced his first wife and turned against his teacher Liang Qichao and his parents. He once wrote: "In my life, there will at least one time that I forget myself for someone, asking for no result, no company, no ownership or even love, just meeting you in my most beautiful years. I also wrote: I will look for my only soul mate in the vast sea of people. I am lucky to get it; No, my life. "

I feel that he treats love as naive as a child and as brave as a soldier. For love, he can put aside all worldly thoughts and pursue a soul-compatible partner.

In his life journey, there have been three women:

First, his first wife, Zhang Youyi. At that time, Xu zhimo 16 years old and Zhang Youyi 13 years old. Because of Xu Zhimo's extraordinary intelligence, he is famous in Jiangsu and Zhejiang provinces. Zhang's parents married Xu's family privately. This marriage was arranged by parents without Xu Zhimo's consent, so it planted seeds for the later tragedy. An emotional poet like Xu Zhimo can't accept old-fashioned marriage.

However, from the analysis of existing data, Zhang Youyi has always loved (cherished) Xu Zhimo. Zhang Youyi raised the only son of the Xu family to graduate from Columbia University with a master's degree (author's note: the same school as Xu Zhimo), which is a monument after Xu Zhimo's death. The Complete Works of Xu Zhimo was also published with the help of Zhang Youyi.

The second is Lin, a talented woman in the Department of Architecture. After marriage, Xu Zhimo fell in love with Lin when he traveled to Europe. Lin said to him: I am not a woman with casual feelings. You must choose between me and Zhang Youyi (Xu Zhimo's wife). Xu Zhimo went home and told Zhang Youyi that he was getting a divorce. Xu Zhimo's father: Xu Shenru was furious when he heard that his son had treated his wife like this. He announced that he would sever the relationship between father and son, stop providing food and hand over his banking business and property to Zhang Youyi. Lin and Xu didn't last long. Shortly after Lin Changmin's trip to Europe, she had to go back to China with her father. When Xu Zhimo returned to China, Lin was engaged to Liang Sicheng. So we didn't get together in the end, but later Lin returned to China, and Xu Zhimo, who had disappeared for several weeks, went to Zhang Youyi for only one purpose-divorce. He refused his wife's request that the divorce should be decided by his parents and kept saying: no, no, you know, I don't have time to wait. You must sign now. Lin is going back to China, and I want a divorce now. After the divorce, Xu Zhimo immediately returned to China to try to get Lin back. He invited Lin to come to Xiangshan to talk to her in the evening, and even came to see Lin in front of Liang Sicheng. Later, even Liang Qichao couldn't sit still, so he wrote him a long letter to the effect that you should not base your happiness on the suffering of others. What you did, whether you can stay with Yin Hui or not, has brought people pain.

For the last time, Xu Zhimo went to listen to Lin's speech by free plane. After getting the news of Xu Zhimo's plane crash, Lin's eyes were completely black and grief came to mind. She wanted to visit Xu Zhimo at the scene of his accident, but her family stopped her. However, Lin's husband Liang Sicheng and Jin and others went to the scene and salvaged a plane wreck from there and gave it to Lin. Because he knew how painful Lin was.

But no one expected that Lin would hang the wreckage on his bedside. You know, that's where she and Liang Sicheng sleep. Can her husband Liang Sicheng accept it? Will you be wronged in your heart?

In fact, Liang Sicheng, a gentleman, has no intention of blaming Lin on this matter, so he loves her more. At that time, someone asked Liang Sicheng, "Do you mind if Lin hangs the wreckage of Xu Zhimo's plane on the bed?" His answer is very simple, only 14 words: "If the emblem is not sentimental, it is not worthy of my love."

The third is his wife Lu Xiaoman. Before Lu Xiaoman met Xu Zhimo, he married General Wang Geng. This Wang Geng is a military expert studying in the United States. He and later American President Eisenhower were classmates (alumni). Wang Geng had the rank of Major General before he was 30 years old, and his official position was not small. If it weren't for Xu Zhimo's intervention, Lu Xiaoman could have a more complete life.

Liang Qichao made a toast at Xu Zhimo's wedding in Lu Xiaoman, saying, "Lu Xiaoman, since you have partnered with Zhimo, how can you actively encourage him to do what he should do?"? We have great expectations and blame for you, you know? …… "

Judging from Lu Xiaoman's acceptance of adult Liang Qichao's news, she is a very broad-minded woman, or she is thick-skinned and doesn't care. Some people say that Xu died by plane for a living, which shows that Lu Xiaoman spent too much money, and Xu Zhimo struggled to earn money to support her and lost his life. But before Xu Zhimo flew, Lu Xiaoman called and told him not to fly to Beijing. Xu Zhimo didn't listen and insisted on flying to catch the speech of his old lover.

After Xu Zhimo's death, Lu Xiaoman lived in seclusion all the year round, sorting out Xu Zhimo's legacy and relics. 1933 Tomb-Sweeping Day and Lu Xiaoman went to Shi Xia to pay homage to Xu zhimo and wrote a poem:

The feeling of heartbroken piano burning has not disappeared, and this heart has been in the clouds for a long time.

Over the years, I have realized the taste of cold more and more. I wrote that lakes and mountains are always lonely.

At the same time, I also wrote a long mourning article for Xu Zhimo, which is the most tearful love letter: "Mo! If you say it's you, even heaven can't know how painful and sad my heart is now! I used to laugh at people's hypocrisy when I talked about "heartache". I want to know how people feel pain in their hearts. It was just a pleasant conversation. Who knows that I really tasted these heart cramps today. Guess what? I remember when I was a little sick, your voice was next to me to express my condolences. Well, now I don't have your humble condolences, even if I am in pain. Mo, do you really have the heart to abandon me forever? Didn't you say before that your last breath and mine should be connected to be worthy of our love? Why didn't you tell me you were flying earlier? Until now, I still don't believe you can really fly. I'm still here looking forward to your coming back with me every day. Please take the time to do your unfinished business and travel with me outside the cloud. You don't want to be alone, forget I'm waiting in the boudoir!

Isn't this a dream? You are alive and kicking, but you left me, leaving me alone to struggle in this thorny future. Shima, isn't this too bad? What did I miss? But looking back at my white-haired old lady, I can't help but feel sad, but I dare not envy your leisure and love your leisure. How can I have the courage to watch her dying man fly into the sky with you and jump around the bright starry sky, like an unattached plum blossom bird, forgetting the sadness and pain in the world. I'm afraid I haven't enjoyed this kind of happiness yet! I know that my sins in the world are not full, and there are still many pains and sins waiting for me to endure. My only hope now is that if you can come to my pillow quietly and sadly in the middle of the night, give me some silent whispers and let me know you in my dream! I went home to visit you, and my unforgettable love came. I never worried at that time! Don't panic, no one will bother us. If you let me see your lovely face again, I will have the courage to live this lonely life. Come on, Mo! I am waiting for you.

I don't complain at all now. Who should I complain about? Who do you hate? The five-year reunion between you and me is just an illusion. I don't blame you for going, but I'm not blessed. I'm so unlucky. In the past ten years, I have suffered thousands of mental pains, destroying my mind, and my heart has been broken into pieces. Today has really changed, and I will never shine again. Fortunately, I have tasted the excitement and gentleness of life, and I have endured it. Now I have experienced the most terrible death in my life. Immortality is inevitably a gaunt petal. Goodbye, sun and dew. From then on, I can never know that there is still my laughter in the world.

After many twists and turns and difficulties, we reached the day of union. You and I were very happy at that time, forgetting how high and thick the sky is, and the word "sadness" still exists in the world. Happy days pass as fast as flying. Who knows that we will enter Tiantu again soon. Illness has been bothering me. It brings all the trouble and a lot of pain. At that time, I was in unspeakable pain physically, and you fell into depression mentally for no reason. I know that when you see me groaning and turning to the bed, you have unspeakable pity in your heart and infinite sadness in your stomach. You comforted me, but I can't let you live a comfortable life again. Mo, you ruined your poem for me, lost your literary interest and were criticized by ordinary people. I just hate myself silently, and I can't make you laugh like before. Who knows that you are desperate to comfort me all day, telling me not to look at the future in darkness because I am sick, and not to be afraid of all unnecessary gossip to accompany me forever. I just listen to your calm maintenance, and I just hope that God will have pity on us for several years and give us a comfortable future. Who knows that everything is an illusion now and our dreams will never come true? If I'd known today, why bother to support me? Isn't it wonderful that I died the year before last? You always say that God never shuts one door but he opens another, so keep it. I don't know. God never shuts one door but he opens another. Where can I walk flat? Isn't this fate? What else did you say? Mo, it's not that I blame you today You love me. You shouldn't be a smart man. I quarreled with you many times by plane, but you still forgot all my instructions and flew to the sky without telling me.

It's over, it's over. I will never hear your whisper again. Do you know the sadness in my heart? I need you to mend my broken heart, you know? Alas, does your soul come back to see me sometimes? That night, I saw you running towards me in the dim light, but disappeared in an instant. When I am dancing and calling you, there are no more vague shadows. Well, how can I spend this lonely sun and moon from now on? It's really not every day, it's silence, how could God give me such a cruel punishment! From then on, I don't believe in heaven and human heart. I hate this world, I hate the sky, I hate everything. I hate why they robbed me of you, leaving us with two touching hearts and a mixed-blood heart that I can't touch. You see, my half is still bleeding bright red and covered in blood. What can I do to stop her from dropping DC except to make up for this scar with half my efforts? It hurts. Who knows? One day, after bleeding, it will wither. If sometimes the breeze blows back and you see my heart bleeding for you all day, I don't know how to pity and how to be embarrassed. I know you are watching two kittens screaming like eyes again. I hope you speak louder so that I can hear you. You know I'm confused now. Sometimes people call me loudly, and I still don't know where the sound comes from. Greatly, if I am close to my dream, don't be afraid to disturb my dream soul, and dare not disturb me as usual. You know I won't scold you again, even if you disturb me not to sleep, I won't complain again, because as long as I can get your interruption again, I can ask them why they lied to me that you won't come back, so that they won't leave me after watching my motorcycle, and I can come back to accompany me this time. Oh, God have mercy on me, let you come back again! I didn't offend you. Why should I be punished? Mo! I'll call you. My throat is screaming like blood. Didn't you hear me? I still have the heart to wait until the Cycas blooms and the dead trees sound. If one day you don't come back, I will scream all day, and I will willingly give up this only hope when I can't breathe.

Your departure not only broke my heart, but also made my friends shed many sad tears. This really makes people feel that the world is terrible, and the world is very sinister. The days when the purest and most naive person is taken away and dies forever are numbered. Now you can go to heaven, where you can still live your happy life, but you ruined me from now on. Didn't you say you wanted me to be by your side like a breeze? Well, now you are flying to the horizon with the breeze. I hope you can blow it back and help me do some unfinished things sometimes. As long as you are patient, you'd better wait for me to deal with worldly affairs and fly away with you, so that my friends can only hear about us and can't see us. We can fly freely in the dark forever. "

Xu Zhimo was an influential writer who was once active in China's literary world. His world outlook has no dominant ideology, or he is a "non-partisan poet" who transcends class. His thoughts, creative features and development trend all show that he is a bourgeois poet. The development and changes of his thoughts and the different situations before and after his creation are related to the social and historical characteristics at that time. However, due to his desperate pursuit of love, some people commented that he was a cultured hooligan and listed him as one of the four love rat in the Republic of China. ?

Although Xu Zhimo, a poet and scholar, lived only 34 years old, he was a controversial historical figure in the cultural history of China in the 20th century. For many years, there have been different opinions on Xu Zhimo's literary evaluation. But when it comes to his personality, he is consistent with his familiar friends.

However, how did his circle of friends evaluate Xu Zhimo?

Hu Shi, Xu Zhimo's good friend, once said to others, "Xu Zhimo is the inexhaustible spring of life."

Bing Xin's evaluation is: "Zhimo is dead. He was born a genius on earth. It's really hard, but it's sad that smart people are ruined. " Zhimo's poems are full of vitality, but this mood tends to have a destructive ending everywhere. "

Su's evaluation is: "Xu Zhimo, a talented poet, is like a wild horse;" This active literary world, in just ten years, has left many magnificent fruits that people will never forget. This poet with a particularly warm temperament is attracted, condensed and condensed by him everywhere. Like a poet who attracted iron and magnets, he died in an air crash at the top of the southern foot of Mount Tai in the 20th year of the Republic of China 165438+ October, at the age of 34. "

193 1 year, on the third day of Xu Zhimo's death, Fang Lingru, Zhang Xiruo and others gathered in Ling Shuhua's home, very sad. Zhang Xiruo's wife said with tears, "How can we lack him?" Shen Xingren (Mrs. Tao) said gloomily, "This is all arranged by nature!" Later, Fang Lingru wrote an article in memory of Xu Zhimo. The title of this article is "Zhimo is everyone's friend". It can be seen that Xu Zhimo is very popular among girlfriends.

However, Xu Zhimo and his cousin Jin Yong, a martial arts novelist, were rude to this cousin and wrote him into Eight Dragons, becoming four villains. One of Jin Yong's four villains is called Yun Zhonghe, and Xu Zhimo's pen name is, the fourth of the four villains, a lecherous. Yun Zhonghe is very tall, but very thin, so he looks like a bamboo pole. His face is scary. Light achievement is one of the best in the novel. Surrounded by four guards of Wangmi in the south of the town, he escaped with flying skill. Yun Zhonghe did many evils in his works, and was finally hacked to death by Situ Huahegan, a "sad and crisp breeze" in Dali.

Jin Yong later said in an interview with the media that he had little contact with Xu Zhimo.

Jin Yong said: "My mother is his aunt, and his father is much older than my mother. He is my old uncle. After the Shandong air crash, Xu Zhimo held a funeral at home. My father is older than him, but his family is rich and powerful. If I go to mourn, I will be flattered, so I will be sent. At that time, I was only a child of about ten years old, but his family treated me as a distinguished guest. After I bowed before the coffin, my uncle Xu Shenru (Xu Zhimo's father) bowed and thanked me. My uncle's grandson (son of Xu Zhimo) kowtowed and thanked him. Then a banquet was held. I have only had this experience in my life, that is, sitting on a big table and eating a banquet alone. The table is full of hot dishes, I think, maybe that's how the emperor eats it! Two footmen in white robes are pouring wine and filling rice. Naturally, I wouldn't drink at that time. I had just pretended to drink half a mouthful of wine when the footman immediately filled the glass. I'm embarrassed to eat more dishes. I'll leave when I'm done. My uncle sent me out of the gate and ordered me to take me home with my own big boat (in Jiangnan, it's like everyone has their own car and boat here), together with the boatman and his entourage (my home is 27 miles away from his home, called "Sanjiu"), and then present gifts to thank my father and mother. ..... My relationship with Xu Zhimo is over. Usually because of the age difference, I only make friends with his son. "

In his works, it is a representative of heartbreak, but in real life, Lu Xiaoman paid a lot of money to combine with Xu Zhimo, but Xu Zhimo's heart is Lin. From Lu Xiaoman's point of view, Xu Zhimo is a heartbreaker. When Jin Yong did this, many people thought that it was actually not black Xu Zhimo, because he was such a person. Some people also commented that "hooligans are not terrible, but they are afraid that hooligans have culture." However, as a true and pure poet, Xu Zhimo is indelible in the history of modern poetry, and his pursuit of love is beyond everyone's imagination.

As a famous poet in the history of modern literature in China, he is a representative of the Crescent School. Xu Zhimo has always been an excellent learner. Although he is not the first person to study western poetry, he is indeed one of the poets deeply influenced by western poetry. The creation of new metrical poems led by him is an important attempt that has a far-reaching influence on China's new poems. Contemporary with Tagore, he left three poems and a large number of translated poems in his life. The poetic words are fresh, the rhythm is harmonious, the metaphor is novel, the imagination is rich, the artistic conception is beautiful, the thinking is elegant and changeable, and the pursuit of orderly and gorgeous art forms has a distinct artistic personality. A scholar who was in his prime. His creation gives us a beautiful visual feast in Cambridge, which makes us long for the happiness and innocence of lovely fairy-like moving snowflakes, and we can also feel the soft and refreshing beauty inadvertently. As a celebrity of that era, Xu Zhimo did everything an ordinary intellectual could do. While pursuing his happy life, he also thought deeply about the fate of the country.