May I see my husband's mobile phone?

It is not good to check my husband's mobile phone often. You should keep personal space for each other and respect each other's privacy: 1 Mobile phones are personal privacy, and no one can invade others' privacy. What is a mobile phone? It is not only our communication tool. For us, it means more than just calling and texting. You got it? In mobile phones, there are often too many things that we don't want others to know. Whether we live or work, we all have our own privacy. For these, we have a very strong desire to protect, and we can't tolerate others' infringement. Woman, you should learn to respect other people's privacy. After marriage, never check a man's cell phone, understand? We should learn to respect each other in marriage. You know, getting along is a very complicated thing, even between husband and wife. We should also learn the right way to get along. Woman, you should know that respect is the traditional virtue of the Chinese nation. Even husband and wife, even if your relationship is so close, we should learn to respect each other in our daily life, understand? There are too many things hidden in the mobile phone. Learn to respect each other's privacy and don't look at each other's mobile phone easily. 3. People should keep a proper distance, so should couples. It is very complicated for women to get along without looking at men's mobile phones. You know, once men and women have feelings, it is often even more difficult to say. Woman, you should know that people should keep a proper distance from each other, and you should know what to do and what not to do. Therefore, you must learn to keep a certain distance from men after marriage, and don't do such a bad thing as checking men's mobile phones. Can I look at her husband's cell phone? Her husband has always been a shopkeeper and usually doesn't care about housework. She is very tired. She not only takes care of two children every day, but also washes clothes, cooks and does housework. Now her husband is lying there playing with his mobile phone every day, and he is obviously chatting with others, talking and laughing. When Xiao Wei passes, he will turn off the screen of his mobile phone, so forget it. Every two or three days, he will lose his courage, saying that the food she cooked is not delicious, and he will go on a hunger strike ... Every day, he is full of swearing at home, ordering her and Dabao to wash his fruit, but not helping him wash it, and he will be even more fierce. Threatened to move out if he could come out. Yue Wei Jr. said that she was more wronged, but the most unhappy thing was not this matter. Her husband's cell phone is never allowed to be touched by her, so she suspects that her husband is having an affair, because Yue Wei Jr. is a very sensitive woman, because she can't sleep all day. She just wanted to get divorced when the epidemic passed and the Civil Affairs Bureau went to work. I don't want to spend a minute ... Not only Xiao Wei, but also Yang Yang discovered through their recent relationship with their families that family intimacy includes not only husband and wife, but also parent-child relationship. Now Xiong Haizi is full of secrets, and her little diary is well hidden for fear of being seen by her parents. In fact, these close family relationships determine our quality of life and happiness index. Dealing with family relations is a university question, and Yang Yang is also rethinking "how to manage this intimate relationship". How to grasp the middle "degree"? In fact, there are three red lines between family members, especially between husband and wife. You must not cross the line, or you will roll over if you cross the line. First, don't try to pry into each other's "little secrets". People say that husband and wife should be honest with each other, and it is best not to have secrets. When they get married, they will become one, that is, one person. In fact, it's easier said than done by those who say this, and only fools will tell the truth and care about each other. If you don't know, you can pretend that nothing happened. Once you say it, some people will have a shadow in their hearts. If you mind, it may affect the relationship between husband and wife until divorce! Therefore, even lovers should leave some private space for each other. There is no need to cross-examine everything, even for children. Children also have their own private space, and you have no right to interfere. Second, don't always think about "controlling" each other. Each of us is an independent individual, because all kinds of predestinations make us relatives, but we can't impose what we think is "right" on our families because of this relationship. For example, Yang Yang's mother actually likes to "control" me. She wouldn't let me have a dog, saying that my pet has a lot of bacteria. She wouldn't let me wear shorts, saying that my legs hurt when I was old. She won't let me eat ice cream, saying it's harmful to my health ... Now that I'm a parent, my mother still wants to "control" like this, but I've been resisting. Slowly, my mother realized that her control was ineffective and began to respect my idea. Instead, our relationship has changed now. Third, don't judge others from your own point of view. Even in intimate relationships, we often ask others "You can't do this …" and "You have to do this …". Instead of communicating and understanding the needs of others. In fact, I just can't put myself in other people's shoes and think about the problem. We should treat others equally. Love is mutual, and it is useless to pay unilaterally. Love can't be fulfilled by humble grievances, let alone moral kidnapping. This epidemic seems to have ignited the anger of many people. In fact, the epidemic is only accidental, and ordinary life is the norm. We might as well make good use of this time to manage family intimacy and improve our happiness index! May I see my husband's mobile phone? How many secrets are there in the mobile phone? Looking at the other person's mobile phone is my curiosity, and there is also distrust in it. Another is that I don't know how couples should get along. Looking at the psychology of the other party's mobile phone is nothing more than trying to spy out whether there are any skeletons in the other party's mobile phone. I'm afraid the reason why I want to play games on the other party's mobile phone is untenable, because each of us has a mobile phone, and we can download games ourselves if we want to play. How many secrets are there in a person's mobile phone? It's hard to say, even if there is, you may not be able to see it. No one will leave a secret in your mobile phone waiting for you to find it, so don't do unnecessary work. No matter whether there are secrets in the mobile phone, it is absolutely private and untouchable. It is offensive to look at the other party's mobile phone; No matter between husband and wife, lovers, or friends and family, please don't think about going through each other's mobile phones. For an individual, a mobile phone is like a personal diary. No matter what's in them, or nothing, as long as you touch them, it will make people feel disgusted, even disgusted. No matter how intimate the relationship is, some things can be moved and some things should never be moved. That's private property. If possible, don't even have the idea of prying. If you don't want to make yourself tired and the other person is tired, then you should restrain your curiosity. Please give each other an absolute space; If you check each other's mobile phone every day, they will feel suffocated in front of you. This is not to say that the other party is afraid that you will find out any secrets, but because your behavior makes the other party feel a sense of urgency and uncomfortable. In the long run, the other party will definitely have a day you can't stand, and it will be too late for you to regret it. No matter how close the relationship is, everyone needs a certain sense of space. When you have to check the other person's mobile phone, it means that you have invaded the other person's private space without scruple. How long can anyone stand this kind of thing? At least I can't stand it. Therefore, it is necessary to find out what is private space. After realizing it, we should strictly abide by the bottom line and not violate it unscrupulously, so that there will be no contradiction. The closer the relationship, the more you should learn to respect; If so, what can't couples say? What's not to see? I can't know what? That is wrong. The closer the relationship, the more you should learn to respect each other. It is disrespectful to look at the other person's mobile phone. As mentioned in the previous section, this is an invasion of personal privacy and private space. This kind of behavior is indeed an act of disrespect, which is also a manifestation of personal quality. No matter what you think in your heart, it doesn't mean that the other person agrees with your thoughts and actions. What should I do if I feel suspicious? Many people are suspicious all day, always wondering if the other person is having an affair or something, so the first thing that comes to mind is to find and confirm what they want to know in their mobile phones. In fact, if you really find the secret, there are only two endings, quarreling all day and making the other party not want to go home. Or, since the secret was discovered, I won't hide it, just break up or divorce. If you don't pry into these things, relax yourself and live a good life, then the secret may always be a secret, and the other party will not let you know anything on its own initiative. Instead, I will feel indebted to you in my heart and try my best to maintain my original life. What do you want? Since it is a secret, it is better not to know. Knowing will be more painful, and not knowing may be a better thing.