"Either you go back to your hometown, or I get a divorce." My mother-in-law bullied her daughter-in-law. Should a daughter-in-law be rebellious?

My mother-in-law has always hated her daughter-in-law and always dared to make things difficult for her, not only because men's hands are watching, but also because women are weak and forbearing, which makes her feel that her daughter-in-law will bully people from the bottom of her heart. After a woman marries a man, her personality weakness must be changed, otherwise it is likely that her marriage will be unhappy because of her personality problems. There is a saying that "being afraid of crossing is fatal". I think this sentence is very suitable for women to handle the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. However, I am not asking a woman to be rough with her mother-in-law, or to fight her mother-in-law hard when she points her finger at herself. It means that when a woman is bullied by her mother-in-law, she will put away her weak character and become strong, and safeguard her rights in marriage in the right way, so that her mother-in-law will no longer dare to bully herself.

Getting married should be a happy thing, but for housewife Wen Li, since she married her husband, it's like a year, living under the same roof with her mother-in-law, and not a second is relaxed and happy.

Mother-in-law dislikes her daughter-in-law very much and makes things difficult for her. Originally, Wen Li, as the hostess of the family, should enjoy the right to control and use the family economy, but with her mother-in-law, she can not only exercise her economic rights, but even be restricted in using money everywhere. Even if I spend a few cents more on food every day, I will be ridiculed by my mother-in-law: "My son is working hard outside. Are you worthy of my son? " Financial embarrassment made Li Wenlian unable to afford the cheapest skin care products and clothes. If her face value was not high, she would have become a yellow-faced woman. Wen Li told her husband that Cheng Wei was ridiculed and embarrassed by her mother-in-law, but he either casually perfunctory, or just turned around and ignored them.

At first, in order to balance her emotions, Wen Li always considered this matter from the perspective of her husband. It is really difficult for a husband to be a man between himself and his mother-in-law, and it is understandable that she will choose to avoid it. But this kind of injustice accumulates day after day, and no woman can stand it, no matter how good her character is. This has also changed Wen Li's attitude of turning a blind eye to her husband. She no longer thinks from the perspective of men. She now feels that her husband is just a man who dare not take responsibility. Watching his wife be bullied by her mother-in-law without comfort and persuasion is not what a man should do in marriage at all.

When Wen Li's younger brother got married, her sister wanted to wrap a red envelope and was stopped by her mother-in-law. Wen Li listened to her mother-in-law, saying, "Don't care too much about your mother's family. You haven't earned a dime for this family. You still have the face to spend money." At this time, the accumulated resentment against her mother-in-law gushed out and said to her mother-in-law, "You either go back to your hometown or I get a divorce."

Mother-in-law is used to Wen Li's obedience to herself. When she heard Wen Li threatening herself, she was obviously stunned, and then put on a wronged expression to her son and said, "Son, your daughter-in-law is very mean to me."

Before her husband could speak, Wen Li and others said, "If you don't go, I'll go."

With that, he got up and went back to the bedroom, simply packed his luggage, left his small home and went back to his mother's house. Seeing that Wen Li really took the bag away, Wen Li's husband tried to stop it, but after all, he failed to stop Wen Li's desire to return to his family. In the next few days, Wen Li's husband called Wen Li, but Wen Li never answered. At this time, Wen Li's husband began to worry. He went to his mother's house for three days and begged her to come back.

Looking at his wife who wanted a divorce, Wen Li's husband realized that in recent years, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law had risen to the point of incompatibility because he had done nothing. Finally, after Wen Li's husband chose to send his mother back to his hometown and assured Wen Li that he would never be bullied by her mother-in-law, Li Wencai gave him another chance. After returning to the family, Wen Li, because she let her mother-in-law know her strength, did not dare to take it to heart, and her married life was many times stronger than in the past.

Wen Li was bullied by her mother-in-law in marriage, not only because of her husband's inaction, but also because Wen Li's cowardly character always chose to endure it. If Wenli had been angry with her mother-in-law earlier, it would not have caused Wenli's mother-in-law to dare to bully her daughter-in-law from the beginning of marriage, and men would not have always turned a blind eye to the contradiction between their wives and mother-in-law. Mother-in-law doesn't like her daughter-in-law, and she targets her daughter-in-law everywhere. The mother-in-law is wrong, the man is wrong, and the daughter-in-law is also wrong. Mother-in-law's fault lies in not being kind to her daughter-in-law, and man's fault lies in watching with both hands and not coming forward to solve the problem of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law and safeguard his wife. Daughter-in-law's fault is that she has been forbearing and dare not resist giving her mother-in-law a needle. In marriage, women sometimes choose forbearance to make their marriage more and more happy. However, when a good mother-in-law is unkind to her daughter-in-law and irresponsible husband, the weaker a woman is, the more forbearing she is, and the less happy her marriage will be. Advise some daughters-in-law oppressed by unreasonable mother-in-law: mother-in-law is not good to herself, and women can't rely solely on men, nor can they choose to tolerate. I must also launch a rebellion to maintain my marriage and save the happiness lost in my marriage because of my mother-in-law.