Will expectant mothers who do not work during pregnancy lose their sense of security and feel inferior?

It varies from person to person.

I am pregnant with my eldest child. I have not been at work since I found out I was pregnant. Because the early pregnancy reaction was too great. I vomited everything I ate, even when I drank water, and also vomited out gastric juice and bile. . I also vomited when I smelled the smell of oil smoke and car oil. Moreover, I have to run to the toilet every half an hour, and I feel sleepy and tired all the time. I really feel like I am sick. I feel sick, have no energy at all, and feel weak all over. So I didn’t go to work. Because my husband and I were in the same company, so even though I didn’t go to work, I would still go to the company when there were activities and do business. The orders made are in my husband's name, and my husband helps to maintain the customers. It's like a part-time job for me. Then when I have nothing to do, I read books on pregnancy and child care at home, and listen to prenatal education music. Sometimes I feel a little bored, but I don’t feel inferior or insecure.

When I was pregnant with my second child, I didn’t even go to work. Dabao went to kindergarten. I took Dabao to and from school every day, washed clothes, cooked, and did hygiene. I worked part-time on my mobile phone during the day, and picked up Dabao to play nursery in the afternoon. night market. So even though I didn't go to work, I still had a fulfilling life, so I didn't feel inferior or insecure.

Therefore, if you do not go to work during pregnancy, if you have something to do, and live a fulfilling life, you will not feel inferior or insecure. If you are at home alone and have nothing to do, you will feel bored. Once people feel bored and have nothing to do, they will easily think about things and have many random thoughts, including low self-esteem and insecurity. Therefore, if you don’t go to work during pregnancy, don’t let yourself be idle. Find something for yourself to do, such as reading a book, listening to music, writing a pregnancy diary, and learning some knowledge or skills that you have always wanted to learn but don’t have time to learn. Or do some part-time work to enrich yourself, improve yourself, and maintain a happy mood and a positive attitude every day, so that you won't feel inferior and insecure.

I had pregnancy symptoms when I was pregnant, but I waited until 38 weeks to take maternity leave. As a result, the baby was not born until 40 weeks. I still regret that I took maternity leave too early. I think if my physical condition permits, it is better to go to work while pregnant.

My life at home is irregular, I don’t sleep or eat on time, and I always like to play with my mobile phone. This kind of computer life is not good for my baby. Going to work makes my life more regular, which is good for my physical and mental health.

Working can enrich my life and give me no time to think about it. I don’t have to wonder whether my husband is good to me or whether my mother-in-law is good to me. Because I don’t have time to think about these issues, and I still have a certain income every month. Income, financial independence, money use are all justified, and the heart is safe and secure.

While at work, I can discuss pregnancy problems with expectant mothers in the office, and I can also ask mothers for advice and answer questions very quickly. I walk for half an hour on my way to and from get off work, and I also get some exercise, killing two birds with one stone.

While working, I read a lot of books. Although they are not prenatal education books, they are better than watching TV series and reading online novels at home! Reading keeps your brain in a learning state!

However, if I had not gone to work at that time, I should not have felt inferior or insecure.

Pregnancy is giving birth to a new life and a hope. This process is a very happy process and a process to be proud of. There is nothing to feel inferior to!

No, after all, we have two lives, so we should pay attention. When I was pregnant, I told my husband that I wanted to work in the early stages of pregnancy to avoid being bored at home. My husband disagreed. He said I didn’t want me to work so hard, and my parents-in-law wouldn’t let me go out to work. Moreover, I started to have morning sickness after two months and it didn’t heal until seven and a half months later. During this period, I also had a severe reaction. My father-in-law, mother-in-law, and husband were very considerate of me. , my husband and the others stayed with me throughout the entire pregnancy. They would buy whatever I wanted to eat. When I was bored, I would go shopping with my mother-in-law. When my husband had a rest, he would take me with him when he went to parties with his friends. Therefore, the wives of my husband’s friends all took me with them. We have become good best friends, and I have no sense of security or inferiority during the entire pregnancy. I feel quite happy, and the main thing is to have a more relaxed attitude

This question will vary from person to person, and it needs to be specific. analyze.

I read an interview about a stay-at-home mother. It said that if you want to become a stay-at-home mother, you must meet three conditions at the same time. One is to have money, the other is to have no ambition, and the third is to be a full-time mother. I like children and am willing to play with them.

Have money in hand. Your sense of security will naturally increase. Without career ambition, your family is your world. Being a housewife is a joy, so why should you feel inferior? It is every woman's nature to love her children, and children are the most proud work of a mother.

The inferiority complex of stay-at-home mothers usually comes from being out of touch with society after breaking away from work, and the insecurity usually comes from the fear of having no financial resources. In this era that is very unfriendly to female friends, it is easy to develop a sense of inferiority.

Whether you have a sense of security and inferiority depends largely on your own thinking level and psychological level. It doesn't matter if others look down on you, you must first think highly of yourself. If you don’t appreciate yourself and love yourself, how can others think highly of you?

If you accept the full-time job from the bottom of your heart, the two concepts of inferiority and insecurity will not exist. If full-time work is an unwilling choice, it will be a big challenge for yourself and mentally.

Perhaps everyone’s answer is different. After all, every expectant mother grows up in a different environment, has different psychological qualities, and has different husbands and different in-laws. Therefore, every pregnant mother-to-be will feel differently if she does not go to work after pregnancy. Some expectant mothers have been sensitive since childhood and lack a sense of security. They will become more sensitive and suspicious after pregnancy. In addition, if the husband is not a considerate person and ignores the feelings of the expectant mother, it is inevitable that the expectant mother will have random thoughts when she is left alone after not going to work. , will feel insecure and prone to low self-esteem; some expectant mothers have been cheerful and optimistic since they were young, and grew up in a good environment. After pregnancy, they live a colorful life even if they do not go to work. Such mothers rarely suffer from insecurity and low self-esteem; and The expectant mother has met a good man. Even if he is not at work, his husband is very caring and takes good care of the mother. In this way, the mother is immersed in happiness and basically does not feel insecure or has low self-esteem. There are other situations where every family has its own rules, and every family is different.

If the physical condition of the expectant mother allows, she should still go to work. Going to work can enrich herself and make her life interesting. If you can't go to work for various reasons, then learn something you are interested in at home, such as musical instruments, painting, flower arrangement, etc., or take a certificate so that you can continue to make progress while you are pregnant.

It is normal not to go to work after pregnancy. Don’t feel insecure. It does not necessarily mean you have low self-esteem.

It depends on one's attachment relationship.

A pregnant woman will become more sensitive. If she is a securely attached person, she will tell her partner, and at the same time she will feel that no matter what I do, I am loved. You will also feel that giving birth to a child is something to be proud of.

If she is an avoidant attachment person, she will suppress her emotions and behave a little coldly. If the partner is more attentive, discovers his wife's attachment pattern, takes the initiative to communicate with his wife, and gives her more care, then his wife will be less likely to feel inferior.

On the contrary, problems will arise over time.

If she is a person with ambivalent attachment, she will amplify her pregnancy reactions (physically and psychologically). If her partner can respond in time, it will be fine. If her partner cannot respond in time, pregnant women will be more likely to lose self-confidence. Create an inferiority complex.

Expectant mothers who do not go to work during pregnancy may lose their sense of security and feel low self-esteem. I think it varies from person to person.

I don’t know if you have too much pregnancy reaction. If you can go to work, try to go to work. When you have nothing to do at home, it’s easy to think too much. It's normal to feel insecure, because others have their own work, and sometimes they may neglect you, or make an unintentional joke, which can make you think. If you are a pregnant woman and feel that you need special treatment, if your husband does not meet your requirements, you will lose your sense of security. It's especially easy to feel low self-esteem when you have a belly full of stretch marks. You are particularly afraid that your husband will dislike you.

I am working while pregnant and I sit down at work. I am not at work more than 20 days before my due date. The pregnancy reaction was not big. I felt very tired in the first three months, but I could bear it. There was no vomiting. The fetus was very good in the belly. It never bothered anyone and always took care of itself. I feel very fulfilled and I never have any random thoughts. The only thing that worries me is the health of the fetus. As a pregnant woman, I have already accepted and adapted well, so I don’t feel inferior. To say I didn't feel safe was that when the fetus was in the fetal position, it felt like it was falling when I walked. I instinctively held my belly, for fear that the baby would fall.

Ten months of pregnancy is neither long nor short. Carefully consider going to work based on your own physical condition. Being responsible for your children is also responsible for yourself. The opinions of netizens are just opinions and for reference only.

Why don't you go to work? Is it because of the big reaction?

If there are no health problems, it is recommended that you go to work.

If you don’t go to work during pregnancy, you will have fewer emotional problems. Then after giving birth to a child, all kinds of emotions will begin. Because if you don’t have sex during pregnancy, you won’t have sex within a year or two after giving birth, so you really need a strong heart to bear it.

Derailment from society, depression, hard work, insecurity, need for more care and consideration, tension in the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, change in your husband’s attitude towards you, negative emotions caused by the change of their roles... ...My dear, do you think you can handle it?

Keeping up with your work can help you balance it all. Keep your personality independent.

I wish you a good pregnancy

I am happy to answer this question.

As a pregnant mother-to-be, my answer to this question is no. I don’t feel insecure or inferior. Instead, I feel very happy and looking forward to the arrival of a little life.

First of all, I think the issue of security during pregnancy comes from myself on the one hand, and my husband and family on the other.

First of all, the sense of security during pregnancy comes from oneself. First of all, pregnancy is a great thing. A life comes from scratch and then comes to this world safely. The role of mother is very great. We I have to deny that although pregnant women often quit their jobs and have no income at home during pregnancy, pregnancy and childbirth are definitely more meaningful than going out to work to earn money. This is incomparable to going out to work and making money. The sense of security during pregnancy comes from oneself, from having a healthy body that can provide sufficient nutrition to the fetus in the belly and ensure that the fetus develops normally in the mother's body.

Second, the husband plays a crucial role during pregnancy. A loving husband will put himself in his wife's shoes during pregnancy, take on the household chores of being a husband, a father-to-be, and provide psychological support to his wife. During pregnancy, the wife will become emotionally sensitive and fragile, and she will also experience many physical discomforts. If the husband shows enough tolerance and understanding, the wife will feel full of security during pregnancy.

Third, regarding family members, the family members mentioned here are only the parents of the couple.

During pregnancy, if the wife's family shows more care and love, the wife will be able to feel full of happiness around her, and her sense of security will also double. In addition, if the husband's parents can treat their daughter-in-law well, treat her as a daughter-in-law, and treat her as a daughter-in-law, the wife will not lack a sense of security.

The above is my understanding of safety during pregnancy. Thanks for watching.