Nothing is permanent - there is love in the world

The sky is unpredictable, and people are prone to misfortune and fortune.

Yesterday I went to visit the mother of my high school classmate Xiaojie. Her aunt is seriously ill and is about the same age as my mother. She had a cerebral hemorrhage and was still in the intensive care unit until yesterday. Seeing her condition, I felt sad. It was full of emotions and a feeling of dull pain.

They are very similar to our family, maybe families in rural areas are very similar. We both have three children in our family, including Xiaojie and I. He is the eldest son and I am the eldest daughter, both of whom are the eldest. We all know how difficult it is for parents in rural areas to provide education for their children.

Which family didn’t rely on farming, working, and struggling to get through those difficult years. Talking about money is very tacky, and not talking about money is stupid. To put it bluntly, they are still short of money.

It is not easy to send students to school in rural areas, especially for families with several children. I still feel deeply about the experience I had when I was a child, the helplessness of being short of money, and the sadness of borrowing money. Economic strength determines status, even in family relationships, let alone in society.

When I saw Xiaojie at this time, I hadn’t seen him for many years. When I saw him, I still felt the same as before. The feeling of being a classmate has not changed. I like the word classmate very much because it carries so much. Beautiful, youthful, struggling years.

There are five of us. We have talked about my aunt's condition, which is quite serious. However, seeing that Xiaojie was on duty all night last night as her mother, she is still in good spirits, in good condition, and quite stable.

The rest of us can feel relieved. In emergencies, being able to stay calm and calm even if you are anxious is a kind of accumulation of experience and what boys should do. A quality.

The tribulations of life will always catch people off guard. Being able to protect yourself from the water and cover it with the help of soldiers, being busy and orderly, and knowing what you are aware of is a kind of quality. It is also a sense of practicality and maturity. a direct manifestation.

I couldn’t help but say: I noticed that you have grown taller. You seem to be much taller than before.

He also smiled and said, while doing the movements, he squatted down a little and said: No, no, you see I am lower than little Lulu.

When classmates are together, it’s like this. Casual words and styles of doing things will instantly take you back to high school, the youthful, enterprising and hard-working past, the joking, humorous, and interesting past. The fun-filled past is always unforgettable.

The relationship between my classmate Xiaojie and I can be counted in detail from 2007 to now for twelve years. Time flies by and the years are stolen away, but a deep affection is left behind.

Of course, there is Xiaoyuan. We all have a good relationship, but Xiaoyuan and him are better. Although they have each found a partner, the friendship between classmates cannot be lost, right.

As for me, I am just a lonely ghost, wandering around at will, but I feel free and unrestrained, which is also a kind of fun.

We chatted together for a while in the hospital and talked about each other’s changes. I couldn’t help but praise me: It’s still the same as before, and I haven’t gained weight. It seems that both of her have gained a lot of weight (Xiaoyuan, and Xiaojie’s wife Xiao Cui), everyone couldn’t help laughing.

Actually, we are all just talking about it for fun.

I quickly took over the words: Isn’t this a good husband? He can make money and support people. Xiaoyuan always eats snacks at night, haha, right? Then who?

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Just like that, we started chatting happily. Although life is difficult, it cannot be without fun, interest and affection.

We talked until noon, and it was time to eat. I said to Xiaoyuan and his husband (Xiaoxin): Let’s go have dinner together. Let’s go out to eat together. We haven’t seen each other for many years.

Xiaojie said: Just eat something casually on the roadside.

We all know that after all, now is the time to spend money. It is very difficult to save money when you can.

After saying a few words, we went into the restaurant and had a meal together. Dumplings, dumplings are good, it means reunion, it is rare to see each other.

At that time, Xiaojie’s wife Xiaocui was next to me. She was a gentle girl, she spoke very softly, and felt as comfortable as drizzle or warm wind.

Watching her eat, she was quite reserved. I also served her with fish and vegetables. After all, she came from other places. It was not easy for her. Not long after her wedding, her mother-in-law was hospitalized. It was true that her heart was heavy for a while. of.

While eating, we couldn’t help but talk about our respective jobs. I always look like that in front of my classmates, a bit funny, and when I talk, it’s a bit interesting. In fact, it makes everyone relax. Well.

After talking and eating, I think the food is delicious and my mood is very beautiful. After all, classmates are classmates.

I remember when I was in school and eating in the cafeteria, everyone was carrying heavy schoolbags. We always met in the cafeteria and sat together to eat. That kind of beauty and atmosphere would reappear many years later. Still beautiful.

As we talked, it was time to leave. I felt a little embarrassed for wasting their time, so I joked on the way: I talked too much again. I won’t talk so much nonsense next time. Really, I feel embarrassed, hahahahahaha.

Xiaojie smiled and said: You are like that, haha, your style...

I also remember when I was in the class, if there was no voice from me in class, someone must be sleeping. Now, what I remember particularly vividly is: One time the math teacher said, Who is that? Why don't you speak, you idiot? Are you sleeping? This teacher is from Northeast China. Hahaha

Yes, my personality, outspokenness, and boldness are all left in the memories of my classmates, and I can only be like this to them.

After getting a job, entering society, meeting more people, and caring more about them, my feelings towards them have not changed.

When I finally paid, I asked Xiaoxin to pay again. It was him every time. Sorry, I agreed to do it this time. It was him and his wife from the Xiaoyuan family who got there first.

In fact, they are also very rare. They have to pay off the mortgage and renovate the house. Although they have been married for nearly a year, they are still separated in two places, one in Beijing and the other in their hometown. Life is really not easy, but family love always brings happiness along with it.

I thought no, I have to do something this time. So, I went shopping with them again. I originally bought a facial mask to give to Xiaoyuan, but they didn't want my stuff. I have a really good relationship with her, and it has never stopped since high school. I just felt that it was not easy for her, so I wanted to give it to her, but the two of them said to me: You can use it, you sleep so late every night.

Hey, I don’t want to say anything. I found that it’s great to have everyone together. We can complain together, talk about the past together, and talk about the future together. Experiences like this become more and more difficult as you grow older.

Life is not easy, but you can do it and be happy.

Friends are not easy, and classmates are not easy, but you can do it and cherish it.