Speaking skills with high emotional intelligence

1. Modest attitude. Try to be modest when asking questions. Proud people will not be popular, and people who like to brag will be more annoying, which will greatly reduce the effect of your speech.

2. Make good use of vague language. When encountering difficulties, we should make good use of specious vague language and leave enough room for advance and retreat, instead of pushing ourselves into a desperate situation.

3. Make up for language mistakes in time. A horse stumbles and a man stumbles. It is not terrible to make mistakes in words, but we should make up for them in time and resolve the embarrassment with clever language.

4. Less explanations and excuses. When you want to quit the conversation, don't explain too much, let alone make excuses. Explanation is a cover-up, and excuses are often self-defeating.

5. Say more compliments. No matter who you talk to, you might as well say more compliments. Praise is the most beautiful language in the world, and it is also the least error-prone language.

6. Say only three words to everyone. You can be honest, but you can't leave room for what you say. The more you talk, the more mistakes you often make. As the saying goes, disaster comes from your mouth. Therefore, really smart people know that "everyone can only say three words, but they can't all be my heart".

7. Know black. Proper self-mockery, that is, self-immorality on the Internet, also helps to establish good interpersonal relationships, because self-mockery often means that you regard each other as people of the same status or level.

8. Don't be a "lever". Don't always think about denying others. Denial will only lead to the other party's dissatisfaction and counterattack, and may even cause more serious verbal and even physical conflicts.

9. Look at people and talk. Similarly, for different people, the effect is often different. So it depends on the occasion and the object. If you meet an inhuman person, it is better to put it in your stomach.

10. Pay attention to each other's taboos. In doing things in society, of course, the fewer enemies the better, and if you don't pay attention to taboos, it's easy to make enemies for yourself, which is really uneconomical.

1 1. Learning to say "no" is easier said than written. Because of personality, feelings and other factors, many people often can't say "no", and as a result, they have suffered a lot.