My boyfriend’s family can’t afford a house, which makes me feel uncomfortable.

First of all, poverty tortures not the body but the soul. It is the lingering feeling of being laughed at. It does not matter whether a person has money in his family. That can only be determined from a certain perspective. The angle shows whether this person’s parents are capable, but do parents have a choice? Parents gave us life and the conditions for survival, and that is enough. The most important thing for a man is to create his own life and create his own world. There will be many hardships, hardships, and sufferings on this road, but he In constant struggle. If you can’t afford a house, what if you rent it first? The important thing is your relationship. Don't fall into the cliche of abandoning him because his family has no money. Although girls have a little vanity, for you, if you have spotted him, you should support him.

Secondly, his family has no money and he has raised a child with great potential. His parents have worked hard for decades, don’t they have the right to expect him to help the family? For a person, filial piety is the foundation of being a human being! The first thing I do when making friends is to see if they are filial. Just imagine: a person who is not even filial to his parents, how could he be good to others? If you recognize him and love him, don't make it difficult for him to help the family. He loves her parents, he loves you, and of course he loves your future baby! Just trust him.

Anyone who wants to get anything must pay a corresponding price. If you identify him, you must stand firmly with him, endure hardships and endure temporary poverty together. Children from poor families are motivated and have a sense of responsibility, which are advantages that many children from relatively wealthy families do not have. It’s okay to be sad and unwilling, and you can also quietly calculate for yourself whether you can endure the temporary poverty with him. If you can’t, break up as soon as possible, because you can only hurt him if you delay like this; if you can endure it, then Just hold on, I hope you will be happy.

PS: His family hopes that he can help the family. That is the parents’ absolute right! Don't interfere, don't be embarrassed, don't make noise, that will only hurt your feelings! ! ! What a filial man hates most is a woman who is not filial to his parents! ! !