What about husband's cold violence?

What about husband's cold violence? Try these methods.

First, we should distinguish between cold violence and cold violence.

Sometimes, your husband is suddenly cold and may be really busy, but if there are the following signs, you are probably experiencing his cold violence:

0 1. I don't know when it started. I often come home late without telling you in advance.

02. You seldom send messages voluntarily. You contact him, he always has a reason to end the conversation.

When you question him, you just wait for a perfunctory answer: "I'm fine" and "You think too much".

Second, in the face of cold violence, never do this.

0 1. Show your anxiety and keep questioning each other.

02. Keep a low profile and "lick the dog" when the other person is still indifferent.

03. Make a scene, cry, kill a serial call, or hack it and delete it.

Third, how to face cold violence

0 1. Use static braking to give each other some space.

Enrich your life, go out to play with friends, dress yourself up, go shopping and climb mountains, and make him feel that your life is still wonderful without his company.

03. If he comes to you, don't accuse the other person of cold violence and don't be too enthusiastic at this time. When two people are emotionally stable, calmly say that you don't like cold violence.

04. After the emotions are calmed down, two people can discuss ways to solve conflicts together, quantify their anger, guide the other person to pay for themselves, for example, buy himself a dress, and then give him positive feedback and positive emotional value, so that he can understand that your relationship with him will be love only if you face it.

To sum up: calm+high-value display+sense of crisis display+problem solving = the killer weapon to deal with "cold violence"