Sad to say: why do you feel sorry for others when you are unhappy?

1. Don't come near me, be familiar with me, feel sorry for me, and leave me.

Why do you feel sorry for others when you are unhappy?

Don't hide your thoughts. Let the other party know.

4. You pushed my hand away with a persistent face, and I smiled and deleted my dream of owning you.

Suddenly losing your temper is probably a long-standing grievance.

6. No matter how arrogant you are, love has a chance to turn you into a dog willingly.

I treat you as a permanent guest when you come, and I treat you as a person asking for directions when you leave.

8. A city, a person and a paragraph are all like this, just like it.

9. Time will not make people forget the pain, but will only make people get used to it. Sometimes I feel sad not because of what I have done, but because I find that I know nothing.

Tired sadness. Tell me, why are you tired?

Tiredness in life is the subjective perception of life pressure in the heart. Many times, we all face the challenges of life and work with a trembling and forced psychology. How can I not be tired? Many times, the pressure of work and life is not so heavy, but your thoughts and emotions exceed your pressure and you will inevitably be tired.

Sometimes I feel so tired, I don't want to do anything, my life is so boring, and sometimes I am confused about the future. So what makes people physically and mentally exhausted?

I wonder if you often feel overwhelmed?

Do you feel tired sitting in the office every day, even if you just browse the web?

I set a goal for myself and don't want to do it right away.

Think you can't do anything?

You feel tired,

This is actually a signal that the brain protects itself.

When what you think in your head and what you do in your hand can't be unified,

You will start ideological struggle and naturally feel tired.

There are two situations when you combine what you think with what you do.

1. You don't want to do what you are doing.

You didn't do what you wanted.

You can't do what you really want.

According to these two situations, talking about my four points should help you eliminate most of your fatigue.

I will write the first two points this time, because a friend told me that my article is too long to read.

1, set me free

About what you are doing, you don't want to do (you can't do what you want to do),

Realize that you can decide your present.

When we were young, our parents would choose what clothes to wear and what hairstyle to cut for us.

Many friends may be forced by their parents to study unwilling majors. I have no choice but to work now. I feel very painful.

How to go after that, as a sober adult, is not limited. Although inviolable persecution still exists, it will not be discussed here for the time being. )

Any choice has advantages and disadvantages. You can choose to jump out of the status quo, or you can choose to accept it and stop complaining.

Take the lesser of the two evils. Think about it, yes.

Giving up the right to choose is tantamount to escaping the freedom that should be there.

The choices that have taken place, tell yourself,

At the cognitive level at that time, you have made the best choice for yourself. There is no need to regret it.

If you don't escape from freedom, you won't be far from real freedom.

2. Self-evaluation

In the ten years of studying on campus, we have been arranged from top to bottom according to scores.

This way of grading makes us inadvertently form some misunderstandings in our thinking.

We have experienced numerous big exams and quizzes, and the overall score ranking tends to be stable.

So it is natural to think that scores and rankings are equal to abilities, and abilities will gradually be regarded as a fixed thing.

Obviously, I have done a lot of work, but I still can't get any appreciation from the leaders.

I have been reviewing very carefully. Why can't I get on?

If we don't get something in return, we won't pay again.

Think about whether you can't listen to the inspirational sentences that you will succeed as long as you work hard.

In addition, the school's grading system has gradually cultivated us into a performance-oriented person.

I believe the following conversation happened between you and me.

Parent: Can't you do this problem?

Child: Neither can other students.

The child didn't say: I can't answer because I'm not good enough.

Because, he has felt:

Getting good grades does not depend on learning progress.

Mainly depends on the comparison with others.

The motivation for hard work has also become to get praise or avoid being criticized.

We care too much about the external evaluation and ignore the more important self-effect.

The standard of success does not depend entirely on your ability to do it.

More importantly, how do you evaluate your success?

Do more self-reflection and improve your evaluation of yourself.

Sadly, why are you afraid to love more and more?

1 A while ago, I met Guo Zi, and Guo Zi was still an unruly person. Guo Zi is my childhood, and I like drum music since I was a child. With my passion, I changed from a transitional singer to the owner of today's pub.

Ironically, however, he has also fallen from being a red brother to being lonely now.

In the past, shines really wanted to be romantic. All kinds of girls could be called at any time with a phone call. But now, he would rather drink alone in the corner than join in the fun with those girls, and he didn't see a sister around him.

I make fun of Guo Zi, how can it be rich, but there is no love.

Guo Zi said with a wry smile, because I want to get married.

I was stunned. If you want to get married, shouldn't you cultivate more feelings with little girls? Why is it thousands of miles away now?

He pointed to the cheering girls in the audience and said that these girls are also beautiful and young. Unfortunately, I can't give them what they want, and they don't understand what I want. They just like the songs I sing, and their minds are full of romantic and vigorous love stories. As long as I love you, I can satisfy that.

Guo Zi bowed their heads and drank a mouthful of wine. I used to feel good, but now it's different. I want to settle down. I want to get married. I want to live a life of daily necessities. I can't afford to delay such girls, and I have no extra ideas to deal with them.

I used to love you and tell them everything, but now, I just want to find someone who can understand me and listen to me. I just want to leave these three words to the person I really like.

I patted Guo Zi. You finally look like a man.

Guo Zi said that he just wants to wait for someone who can cook him hot meals every day and listen to his nonsense, no matter how long.

I smiled. Maybe Guo Zi will wait for this person for a long time, but I am sincerely happy for him, because he already knows what true love is.

There is a saying in "Gentleman's Character":

I'm past my frivolous age. Although I am not very gentle, I also have my own way. Stopping at that level is my solemnity and concern for everyone.

I think Guo Zi is really responsible for his own life.

2. Many people say that when they grow up, they are less and less afraid of love.

In fact, it is not that we dare not love, but that we are more and more aware of what love is and what we want.

After knowing that it is inappropriate, even if I miss you again, I will stop, because I know that fruitless feelings are wasting each other's lives.

Maybe you will say that love is desperate to love vigorously to be worthy of life.

I'm sorry, if I were 18 years old, I would run away with him just for my love, just like Zhuo Wenjun, regardless of family face, gossip, his family and even his hidden ambition and romantic life.

But now, I'm not 18, so I can't afford to play. I focus on my family's face first, and then give myself enough time to recognize him. Being surrounded by my family will make me depressed, and romantic feelings will make me worry, leaving everything behind and eloping with my temporary happiness as the priority. This is absolutely impossible.

If Zhuo Wenjun thought twice before love, I don't think there would be a song "Grow Old Together" written by Wen Jun, because he has two opinions.

Know enough is enough, know how to stop loss in time, and know how not to touch the love that should not be there.

Therefore, we become less casual, less accommodating and less brave.

In the past, we all fell in love by heart. As long as the hormones work, we are the right person. It is very happy to watch the stars and the moon with you and eat steamed bread in the rain with you.

As long as I can see you every day, it is the greatest happiness. It's different now. We should not only have love, but also consider family, three views, goals, distance and so on. We are more responsible for love and more cautious about life.

We know our responsibilities, and we will make every decision carefully. It is no longer children who listen to love. What moved us was no longer your rustic love words, but the quilt you tucked me in after getting up in the morning. It is no longer the only oath in my life, but a steaming table of food you prepared for me after a hard day's work.

We understand that three views are more important than mind, mind is more important than appearance, and propriety is more important than liking.

We won't fall in love so casually. This stubborn love is more valuable, and we don't want it to be easily shown to people. We would rather wait for the right person to appear, rather than be single than make do with consuming each other's impossible feelings.

We are determined not to touch things that are doomed to have no result. Of course, we know that apples are sweet, but we are also timid.

We are no longer eager for anything vigorous, just want to find someone who is willing to listen to your nonsense and watch the sunrise and sunset quietly with you.

Love is still love, but it is more important than love.

I remember reading such a sentence:

An elder said that your generation just lived too well, so they got nothing. At that time, we were confused about everything. We should get married and work. Now we have everything.

Perhaps our generation really live too clearly, because we clearly know what we want and what we don't want, and we are indomitable in compromise, living with the attitude that we would rather die in vain than bow our heads, so we are doomed to live a hard and lonely life.

But ah, this is our love and the last stubbornness and dignity of our group.

The sadness of complete disappointment. Tell me about the man who hurt you again and again. Why do you still love?

1, love and marriage are actually not the same thing, not all love needs to get married, and not all marriages have love.

2, we are all fine, you are still you, I am still me, just experienced too much, and finally disappointed and chilling, and separated from now on!

When we say goodbye, we will never owe each other, and we will never miss you. I wish I lost time and forgot your eyebrows.

4, always have to experience some betrayal, some sadness, in order to finally understand people's hearts.

5, you put a hundred hearts, I will not entangle, will not forget, will not be hysterical, will not be depressed, in the future, you are you, I am me.

6. Some stories don't have to be told to everyone, and some sorrows don't have to be understood by everyone. I'd rather bury it in my heart than say the pain.

7. There was nothing to say before, but in the end, there was nothing to say. A person rehearses the scene of our reunion after a long separation, and a person performs this one-man show with tears in his eyes.

I want you to know that no matter when and where, there are always people waiting for you in this world. Anyway, you know, there is always such a person.

9. Emotionally, we are not good actors. I can't hide my love, and you can't show enthusiasm.

10, how afraid I am of supporting each other. After stumbling away so much, there is no one with you in the end.

1 1. Waiting for a lover who has no interest in you is like waiting for a boat at the airport, a car at sea and a snow in June.

12, I took the initiative for a long time to find that my heart has gradually cooled with the lukewarm words; Only when you care more, do you feel that love has slowly disintegrated with that anodyne attitude.

13. You won't go to the barber shop where your hair is cut, and you won't go to the fast food restaurant where you eat your stomach. Why do you still love people who hurt you again and again?

14, the most regrettable thing in life is to give up what you shouldn't give up easily and stick to what you shouldn't stick to.

15, feelings are sometimes just a person's business. It has nothing to do with anyone. Love, or not love, can only end by itself.

Sad talk _ Why do I choose to trust you every time?

0 1 You are an out-of-touch teenager, but I have experienced too many miserable lives. He doesn't love me, but he still won my heart.

Some people say that there are three things in the world that can't be hidden: sneezing, poverty and love.

Love for you, water under the bridge. And you, on the other hand, gave her all my love.

Love is when one heart meets another, not one face meets another.

When I leaned over to touch the shadow, I found him scarred.

Slave: Sorry, I didn't mean to. Director: That's all right. Be careful in the next life.

There is also a feeling of lovelessness and lovelorn, and it is very strong.

The most boring feeling is not becoming strange, but the process of becoming strange gradually.

10 Why is your figure lingering in front of me? Tell me if you poisoned me.

1 1 My sky is clear, but I feel less when you are here.

12 You're gone. Who should I tell about my innocence so that I can ignore me alone?

13 why do you let me down every time I choose to trust you?

14 We probably can't love as hard as before until we all cry.

15 it's ridiculous that you drive away everyone around you and complain that others say you are lonely.

16 be a simple self without disguise, and sooner or later someone will see through you.

17 from now on, I only collect the moments with you.

18 Some things will become ridiculous once the roles are changed.

19 dead fish died in the deep sea, and I sank into your arms.

Without your good night, when can I sleep well?

2 1 I have nothing to covet, but I really love you very hard.

We skipped the happy process and jumped directly to the ending of the breakup.

Where were you when I cried my eyes red and screamed for you?

It's a three-person movie, but I still can't name it.

I've been waiting here and I'm beginning to regret not giving you everything.

If I can, I hope he will stop at the age of seven and help me keep that little boy with long eyelashes forever.

If you love each other, join hands until you are old. If you miss it, keep him safe.

Do you blame me for being young and not knowing how to love you and hurting you when you are strong?

Sometimes I really feel like a spiritual watch and get teased and sucked by you for love.

How many people have fed a hypocritical beast with a sincere heart.

3 1 I am not gentle, but I am brave.

Hold me tight when arguing, and I won't have the courage to leave you now.

There are many things in the world that we can't do, such as he doesn't love me.

How painful it is to gouge out the heart and erode the bone. I hope you will never be so miserable.

Can you give me visible care when I need it?

Just yesterday, love quietly went offline, waiting for only a cool news.