Many times, I feel that others are whispering about themselves, but they are not. What is this in my heart and how to change it?

It may be a misnomer or a blunt tone, which may easily lead to misunderstanding by others. Before talking to people, choose your words carefully, pay attention to your tone, and be as kind as possible to avoid being misunderstood. First of all, I want to correct your mentality. Inferiority is something in everyone's heart. Your strength is based on your inferiority, so you are strong to cover up your inferiority. Your heart is not relaxed enough.