There are seven stages of lovelorn love, and four stages after breaking up.

How to deal with problems when breaking up reflects whether you are mature and have the ability to maintain a long-term relationship.

So how to deal with the typical breakup problem will leave a deep impression on the other party and lay a good foundation for future recovery?

Which of the four stages of breaking up have you experienced?

In the first stage, many people did not accept the breakup at all, or even paid no attention to it at all. They still quarrel with each other, trying to make each other compromise with their own strength or reason.

Desperate denial is the most obvious feature of the first stage of breaking up.

At this stage, the other party can barely say something like wishing you happiness as a friend, and the situation is not bad.

In the second stage, this time is basically crying for peace and pestering each other, with the aim of changing the other party's current decision.

At this stage, many people will try their best to apologize to each other and promise that they will turn over a new leaf. Girls at this stage are the most sad. In order not to let the other party leave, she begged, blaming herself for all the mistakes and constantly denying herself.

Many people make things worse in this link. Your indiscriminate bombing has seriously disturbed the normal life of the other party. As long as the other party is not stupid, you will know that the purpose of doing so is to change him.

From this, a series of similar behavior styles are obtained. At this time, the other party will not only think that you will never change, but also say contemptuously in their hearts, "No, this person can't live without me."

At this time, you will usually hear some irrelevant malicious words, or be blacked out and deleted.

Therefore, the teacher wants to say to the girls at this stage: Don't "sell" yourself, because you may not be able to sell it if you are cheap!

The denial of the other party in the third stage is the most obvious feature of this stage.

I often hear many lovelorn patients complain about how rude their predecessors are here, and soon find new lovers, never understand romance and never take the initiative to care about me. ....

At this time, my answer is: since this person is so unbearable, you should throw away the bag quickly!

Girls at this stage can't accept each other's rude feelings.

A girl once asked me: How can he become so fast?

Please ask yourself, have you suddenly changed since you got here?

Every time the other party can't keep the appointment on time, you feel strange; Every time I don't reply to your message in time and report my whereabouts, you don't talk or even call names. ........

So Rome was not built in a day. Breaking up is just a flashpoint, and things will not change like this all at once.

Because of some mistakes, it is better to kill each other's life. Why don't you ask yourself, is this an embarrassment that you can't get, or is the other person really so unbearable?

In the fourth stage, many people will choose to give up, because they feel that although it is difficult to let go, it is much more difficult to save it than to let go. Whether to embarrass yourself or not is your personal choice.

The girl who chose to save at this stage has already started to ask for help from her predecessor, hoping that an idea and an idea from others will make her predecessor change her mind.

You know, from the moment you decide to save it, you must know that breaking up is a mess, and all you have to do is clean up the mess.

Many people can make up their brains from the mess of breaking up to the destruction of the world, which is unnecessary.

Two girls who have something to say and choose to save must be strong inside, if you are still living in the malicious words of the other party, if you are still making up the scene that the other party has a new love. ....

If you are still in this state, you'd better take your time.

I will ask this kind of girl: Are you made of glass?

Does the other party want to say to you: Baby, I am waiting for you to save me, and I am not cruel to you! If it is, there is no need to break up.

So girls in blx should know that this is the reality. Saving a person is not 100%. Some people try to get back together successfully after a long ordeal, and some people give up halfway because they can't stand the pain!

When you have time to cry, it's best to assess whether you can bear the risk and pressure of recovery, do what you can, and don't give up too early!

Most people will go through these four stages. In the first and second stages, teachers saw that a few people stopped to correct their emotions in time. Such people often know self-observation, can clearly see their emotions, and are not controlled by emotions.

But many people tend to make things very bad in the second stage.

Salvation is like fighting. The premise for you to compete with your opponent is that he has a gun and you have to have a gun.

So please look at your soft power before you save it. Don't go to the battlefield with an empty heart. You don't even have the strength to rush up, you can only wait for death.

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