A word of wisdom and memory

1. No matter how hard you try, someone will leave you because of your shortcomings. You don't have to blame others for being too utilitarian, you can only blame yourself for not being good enough for people to ignore these shortcomings. Companionship is priceless, leaving is reasonable.

2. Life is only a few decades, don’t leave any regrets for yourself, laugh when you want, cry when you want, love when you should love, there is no need to suppress yourself.

3. Compromise without principles will make people think that you have no opinion; forgiveness without a bottom line will make people think that you are indifferent to right from wrong. How others treat you is often the result of your own training.

4. Don’t let your kindness become a flaw in your dealings with others. The prerequisite for living a good life is not to wrong yourself first.

5. In this world, no matter how much you change, you can't make everyone like you, so you don't have to care about other people's opinions and become the person you want to be.

6. When others compliment you, just feel happy secretly, but don’t take it seriously, as they are probably trying to trick you; when others criticize you, just feel a little unhappy, but don’t get angry. That's nine times out of ten true.

7. From today on, I hope you will live up to your time and work hard to be a lovely person. Don’t envy anyone or complain about anyone. On your own road, enjoy your own scenery and meet your own love. happiness.

8. Don’t always think about marrying for love or marrying for money. The reality is: most girls cannot marry for love or money. It’s the same as when you were a child and thought about whether you should go to Tsinghua University or Peking University.

9. Those who are capable are writing stories, while those who are incompetent are reading stories; those who are capable are busy for their own success, while those who are incompetent are busy for the success of others; there are A capable person turns himself into someone else's cost, and an incompetent person turns himself into someone else's profit.

10. There are many things in life that you don’t want to do but have to do. This is responsibility; there are many things in life that you want to do but can’t do. This is destiny.

11. Don’t be unscrupulous because of tolerance. Some people may seem to forgive you, but in fact it’s because you are no longer that important.

12. In this world, everyone advises you to be strong and hopes that you will be a sensible and mature adult. And those who love you will only choose to pamper you like a child. No matter what, as long as you are happy.

13. Everything will get better slowly. Isn’t this what everyone has experienced? From nothing to something; from darkness to beauty. You will have new encounters to make up for the loss.

14. When you are anxious to explain yourself, remind yourself: Slow down for ten seconds. Maybe after ten seconds, you will realize whether the thing is worth it and whether the other person is worth it.

15. Cherish the happiness around you, appreciate what you have, let go of what you can’t carry, look down on what you can’t afford to hurt, let go of what you can’t figure out, heal what you can’t hate, life is what it is. It's not easy, life is not long in the first place, why bother yourself with unnecessary worries and hurt the years.

16. When it comes to rejection, the simpler the better. Going round and round to explain for a long time will only make you feel that you owe others, or make the other person feel that you owe him, which will only add to the confusion. A lot of distress.

17. Everything in the world is flowing, and everything that belongs to you will only stay for a moment. You have to learn to take it up and let it go, so that you can better embrace life.

18. Kindness is an advantage, but it cannot become your weakness. Being soft-hearted is compassion, but it cannot make you humble. You cannot take care of everyone's feelings, and it will only make you feel uncomfortable. Giving sincerity to someone who is hypocritical is using you; giving a helping hand to someone who is ungrateful is a bottomless pit; giving tolerance to someone with evil intentions is a calculation; giving kindness to someone who doesn't like you is a waste.

19. The saddest thing about a person is that he blindly changes himself for the sake of other people's opinions. In the end, he can't be the same as others, and he can't find himself again.

20. Don’t confuse desire with ideal. The end of desire is material possession, and the end of ideal is spiritual enrichment. No matter how much you occupy, it will all leave you. No matter how tight you hold it, you will be empty-handed in the end.

21. People must be kind, but they must also be measured and able to distinguish right from wrong. Not all people can be friends, and not all people are worthy of your sincerity or kindness. Don't be fussy about everything, but be principled. If others have their faults, they will not be held accountable; if they are kind to others, they will not be remembered.

22. Never trade the stability and indulgence of your youth for a lifetime of humility and low status. Your current anxiety and efforts hide what you will be like ten years from now

23. In this life, whether rich or poor, it is only a short life. Wealth and splendor are like frost on grass; money and wealth are just a dream. After a hundred years, when people leave, they can take nothing with them or use them.

24. There is no word "easy" in life. Maybe you are lazy for a moment and feel comfortable, but over time you will find that being lazy will only make you more and more tired; maybe you are afraid of trouble at the moment and are unwilling to step out of your comfort zone. When trouble comes, you will be in a hurry. If you pay more now, you will have fewer unnecessary troubles in the future...