How does it feel when an aunt loves her nephew?

I miss my little niece when she is not at home.

I can’t explain what it feels like. Maybe it’s because my aunt feels pain from the bottom of her heart for her little niece, maybe she sees my brother when he was a child in her eyes, or maybe it’s because she sees my dad and my mom. Laughing and seeing the future of our family. Although I am married and have my own family, I am always concerned about my parents' family. Every time I go back to my parents' home, it creates trouble and I quarrel with my parents. But that's where I was born and raised for more than 20 years. The blood of the people who raised me is thicker than water.

My sister-in-law has been married to my family for 7 years. Although she does not have much education or skills, she is kind, simple and has a good heart. My sister and I regarded her as our own sister from the beginning. We bought her We will definitely buy three portions of the things a girl needs and give them to her. We don’t want her to be wronged when someone marries into our family. My sister-in-law got sick in the first year of her marriage. She needed to take medicine, check-ups, and go to the hospital all the time. It was very troublesome. My mother treated her as if she were her own daughter. She had to run around to buy medicine, register and queue up for delicious food. It was very sad. Only she knows. My sister and I are not jealous, but we want to be nicer to my sister-in-law, because after we get married, my sister-in-law will be my mother's daughter. My sister-in-law later recovered from her illness. She underwent in vitro fertilization because her chances of conceiving were low, and she suffered a lot. I felt extremely sorry for her and my mother, because the process of seeking medical treatment was extremely painful and exhausting. Not to mention the expense, the key was the hard work. He went back and forth to the hospital and tortured people to death, but fortunately he succeeded in the first attempt, which can be regarded as a happy ending. My sister-in-law said that in the past four years, my mother gave her a chance to be a mother and gave her a second life. It's easy to write these few sentences, but only our family knows how many tears, heartache and pain they endured during these more than 1,000 days and nights.

Ruoruo is very sensible most of the time. She is tall and fat, very cute, lively and cheerful, a bit precocious and can speak a lot of adult words. She has no problem communicating with us. She is not like someone who is over 2 years old at all. Child. My brother, my sister, and we are the kind of people who can’t see anyone in the family being unhappy, nor can we see anyone in trouble. No matter how far away we are, as long as anyone has the slightest trouble, even if they say something about being unhappy, They will care about it to the end, and it will not end until this person has reached Consummation and is fine. For my parents, I couldn’t bear to see them feel aggrieved. Whenever my father or mother feels a little unwell, we will be very worried. Every day we will ask if we have taken any medicine, if we have any plaster on, if we are feeling better, and if we are feeling better, we will go to the hospital for a check-up. My brother is out of town most of the year, and my sister and I are considered married people. Whenever we think about the fact that we have fewer and fewer opportunities to spend time with our parents, I feel very sad. I saw an article last night that said that a girl who marries far away can only see her parents about 30 times even if she returns home once a year. Although I have not married far away, when I saw this sentence, I instantly felt I burst into tears~ It’s still a bit regretful. I got married early after graduation. I planned to make money and take them on a trip. I took them on a plane to Sanya, ate food I had never tasted before, and saw new things about the world. I hadn’t saved enough money yet. , and got married in a hurry. After having a child, my thoughts are all on my own little family, which makes me feel so sad. While they can still run, take them out for a walk.

Compared to my sister, I am considered worthless. My sister has been buying this and that for her family since she earned her first money. As long as she hears that other people’s parents in our village have something that my family doesn’t, she I will definitely let my parents have it too. Fully automatic washing machine, massage chair, foot-washing massage basin, new furniture, my mother’s jewelry, my father’s furs... The three of us have grown up fighting each other since childhood. It is also because of this that my sister and we study very hard, and we My goal is very clear, which is to let our family live a good life, to make our parents healthier and happier than other parents, and to provide them with good food and fun... Until now, my sister still worries about our family’s shortage every day. If you don't have anything, send it to my mother if you have any delicious food. Buy skin care products and health products with my mother. She said she doesn't feel bad about spending money on her parents.

My sister feels pain to Ruoruo to the core of her bones.

My sister has saved Ruoruo’s photos and various photos from the time she was born to the present to the network disk and made a video. She is more considerate than my brother and sister-in-law. All Ruoruo’s urine from childhood to now Wet-free, milk powder, facial oil, health care products and all the tissues in our house. It’s no exaggeration to say that they were all bought by my sister. When I was an intern a few years ago, I only had 2,000 yuan, so I have to buy them for Ruoruo, so that other people’s children can eat them. I have passed it and played with it. My sister said that we, the children of the Wang family, cannot suffer losses. My mother said that you should not buy it for her. My sister said that she just wants to be good to her and love her. Ruoruo lived in Nanjing for a month last year. My sister was so busy at work that even if she worked overtime until 11 o'clock, she would have to go to Ruoruo's room to see her before going to bed. There are so many things going on, and I am as close to my sister-in-law as a sister. My sister found the clothes she liked and would buy them for her. The cosmetics she bought will also be distributed to my sister-in-law. She said that someone in our Wang family’s daughter-in-law loves her.

Relatively speaking, I still owe Ruoruo a little, but even if I have my own child, I will still want to buy the girl’s beautiful clothes when I see them. This is probably what I feel in my heart. I don’t want my children to fall behind others and feel wronged. I can't describe how my aunt feels about her nephew. It's like a continuation of the family affection for her brother, a continuation of her parents, and a continuation of part of her own family affection. Many nephews will look a little like their aunt at certain times. It’s also possible that my personality is a little bit like my aunt’s in some aspects, or my hair is a little bit like my aunt’s. This alone shows that we are related by blood on this earth. This alone is probably enough. This alone is enough to tie us together for the rest of our lives. .