After forgiving my husband, I still can't face his cheating (I forgave my cheating husband)

My friend komori's husband cheated on me.

Last weekend, Komori took his children to the Asian Games Town Plaza for shopping.

Who knows, I ran into the intimate behavior of my husband and another woman who should have been in the company.

Komori trembled with anger. Because the child was still there, she didn't have a seizure, just led the child to leave quickly.

The husband admitted to cheating for more than three months.

Because after having a child, Komori's attention is not on her husband, and she feels left out.

In the end, I failed to defeat the gentle hometown of other women.

The arrogant Komori wants a divorce, but her husband says he still loves Komori deeply.

He will end his destiny takes a hand's love and be willing to be a cow and a horse, just asking Komori to give him another chance.

Thinking of his two-year-old son, Komori finally chose to forgive.

Although Komori wants to return to a normal life, the affair of cheating is like a thorn in his heart.

Komori doesn't know what to do next.

Husband's infidelity also means that he has failed in marriage management.

What can we do to save this crumbling home?

Cheating is hateful, but as the old saying goes, the prodigal son turns back, and his mistakes can greatly improve him.

If this man can really go back to his family and be twice as good to his wife and children,

Forgiveness is ok. After all, everyone is not a saint and makes mistakes.

But also consider what to do after forgiveness.

Only in this way can we completely keep her husband's heart and bring this marriage back to life.

First, conduct self-reflection. First of all, you should understand that since you have chosen to forgive, you should put this passage down completely and don't mention it repeatedly, nag or even get hysterical.

This won't make him remember for a long time, it will only be counterproductive.

Reflect on your mistakes in marriage,

Did the child become nagging and irritable because he ignored her husband's thoughts and was polished by daily necessities?

Finding your own problems and correcting them is the most important step to save your marriage.

Second, improve yourself. No man likes untidy women. So even if you are busy, take some time to improve yourself.

Learn to wear makeup, exercise and keep fit.

Reading books with pictures and illustrations can improve your self-cultivation and temperament.

As long as your freshness blinds him, he won't watch Yingying Yanyan outside.

Third, the first element of grasping the derailment of financial power is money. No woman will flatter a married man, so the financial power of the family must be in her hands.

At the same time, it is also a shock to men.

He must weigh it before he wants to cheat. You own all his property.

If he is not careful, he may have nothing.

Fourth, many women think that when they get married, they should not engage in some unrealistic romance, and everything is life-oriented. He bought you flowers for your birthday, and you scolded him for spending money indiscriminately; He took you to a big meal on Valentine's Day, and you said he wasted it.

Even if two people watch a movie, you have to watch it at home for free later.

After a long time, he thinks that you don't understand amorous feelings and are very dull, so he will naturally look at those women with various amorous feelings.

A sense of ritual in life is very important.

It is a bridge to build a beautiful and harmonious life and a lubricant to maintain a happy marriage.

So know the sense of ceremony, surprise each other occasionally,

Can better keep a man's heart.

Finally, although the second time is difficult, imperfection is also a kind of beauty.

It doesn't matter if you have regrets in your last marriage.

If you manage well and get your marriage back on track, you can still spend the rest of your life happily and stably.

Today's topic: Under what circumstances do you think cheating men deserve forgiveness?

Tell me your opinion.