What sentences describe "one's own destiny"?

The sentence "I am miserable" is as follows:

When you walk, you will be scattered and your memories will fade; Watch, you are tired and the stars are dim; Listen, I woke up and started complaining; Looking back, I found that you were gone, and suddenly I was confused.

When I am close to you, I am close to pain, and when I leave you, I leave happiness.

People who can't get together don't love. They can't love anymore.

I used to think that loneliness was deeper than loneliness, but when I fell into loneliness, I realized that loneliness was more difficult and exhausting than loneliness. A person, no, is a soul, a melancholy soul, wandering in the street where the body has long been abandoned. The wind blows through my soul, but it can't take away my loneliness and melancholy. Perhaps the wind contains too much melancholy and loneliness! Or maybe the wind is pitying me! I don't want to take away my only loneliness and melancholy!

No matter how beautiful it is, it can't stand forgetting, and no matter how sad it is, it can't stand time.

Walking with love is always accompanied by weakness and helplessness. Sometimes it is like a rainbow, colorful and fleeting, sometimes it is like a meteor crossing the sky, and a turn has disappeared in the vast night.

Some things we know are wrong, but we have to keep them because we can't bear to part with them; Some people, we know they are loved, but they should be abandoned because there is no end; Sometimes, we know there is no road, but we are still moving forward because we are used to it.

I think that if I am blindfolded, I can't see the world; I think if I cover my ears, I won't hear all my troubles; Thought that once the footsteps stopped, the heart would never walk again; All I want is a hug.

The helpless reality gives us a helpless back, and we can only go on helplessly. The helpless society has actually created many souls who are as helpless as me. This is a helpless society, and sometimes there is nothing we can do except continue.

I suddenly feel that I have missed a lot before. I don't know if I am young and ignorant or if life should be like this. People really become mature and vicissitudes day by day. I believe I have changed compared with yesterday, that is, 24 hours ago. Compared with the past, that is, the years in my life, I am sure I have changed. Now I have changed beyond recognition.

Living in a city, or loving someone, or doing something for a long time, you will feel bored and have an escape excitement. Maybe I'm not tired of this city, the people I love and the things I insist on, but I just can't give myself the courage to persist.

You don't know that I miss you because you don't love me. I love you, even though I know you don't want me because I'm stupid. Maybe sometimes, escape is not because of fear of facing something, but because of waiting for something.

Some of the mistakes I made were because I came, some were because I deliberately avoided them, and more often I stood on the side blankly. We make mistakes again and again, but we never know how to learn from them and do some tests.

I've read a lot, but it doesn't seem to be a very good thing now. Because of my work, I wander around. I really saw the scenery overlooking the highest mountain in my hometown, but my yearning was deeply suppressed in a secret corner of my heart. When I came home for the New Year, I met some young classmates, and my wife and children were intoxicated with happiness. The newly-built Xiaoyanglou at home is particularly bright, but there is no hiding place for the remnants in the corner of my heart.

When a person is cornered, he may become extreme or peaceful from now on. I don't know what kind of person I belong to, but I'm sure I have a deeper understanding of the world.

Unconsciously, I am used to the temperature in my arms and the tenderness of holding my right hand with my left hand. I am used to wearing headphones when I am lonely. I don't know when I will stop smoking and when I will enjoy that special ignorance.