What is the most likely situation for you to miss love? Do you have a trick? Can you elaborate on it?

No matter how much you like someone, no matter how much you care about someone, no matter how much you love someone, you should remember not to put your posture too low in your relationship. They say that if you care too much about someone, that person will be indifferent to you. This sentence is correct. In this relationship, the more careful you are, the more you look at each other's faces and value each other, then you will lose yourself sooner or later. Not only is life unsatisfactory, but it will inadvertently become a person who suffers from loss all day. So no matter how much you love someone in your relationship, remember not to put your posture too low. Love should be a long-term equal relationship.

2. Too passive

In our communication, we often hear such a sentence: "Whoever starts first will lose." But is this really the case? Teacher Zhi Nan thinks that there are not many passive people in life. For people with negative personality, in fact, we should pay attention to the following two points in love: First, if you are a person who is not good at expressing and taking the initiative, you can't refuse all expressions of love. Passivity is by no means unprincipled. It is irresponsible to accept all active people without any screening. This is not only a waste of other people's feelings, but also a waste of your own feelings. In the face of love, you can be a little passive, but you must not give up your expression and stick to a positive and optimistic attitude, which is the most important thing for a passive person. Love needs to be actively managed, otherwise the perfect other half will run away because there is no response. Don't let people who like you wait too long, don't lose the most important person because of hesitation, and don't let your love lose to speculation.

I don't know how to release the proper sense of need.

There is no way to hide things like this. If you like him, you can't help chatting with him, commenting and praising him, sharing everything with him, and replying to his information seriously and carefully. If you two are already in love, your state will make boys feel very excited, just like a simple and lovely little white rabbit. If boys don't call you often at this stage, you will let yourself be dominated by emotions and send messages one after another for a long time. As long as I have time, I want to invite boys out. Once a boy has a little fever, you should greet him three times a day and take care of him closely within 24 hours. This "demanding" state will only scare away boys, because your behavior is too aggressive. Of course, the premise is that he is not scum and has no ulterior motives for you.