Buddhist words that make people calm and not impetuous

1. The Buddha said: Year after year, how much have you seen through, how much have you let go day after day; how much have you gained by trying every means, and how much have you lost by calculating carefully; how much have you troubled by asking for nothing, Careful about how many grudges you have made; how much evil you have done if you are greedy; how much you have enjoyed in life; how much you have taken away when you die.

2. In life, there is compassion without arguing, and there is wisdom in life without arguing. Not hearing or asking is purity, not seeing or caring is freedom, not being greedy or holding back is giving, and abstaining from evil is equal to doing good. To correct oneself is to repent, to be humble and modest is to pay homage to the Buddha, to observe etiquette and respect is to observe the precepts, to forgive and look away is to be liberated.

3. If the heart is careless, there will be complaints everywhere; if the heart is relaxed, there will be spring all the time. Nine times out of ten things in the world are not what we want, and there are very few people who can be completely obedient to us and things that can make us get what we want. If we have to care about each other, no one or one thing can satisfy you. As long as a person lives, he only seeks peace of mind, so why bother with yourself. If your heart is an inch wider, the road will be a foot wider.

4. Whatever is supposed to come will come, whatever is supposed to go will go. Dependences arise and perish. Eventually, go with the flow. Go with the flow. Don’t force it; when encountering any situation, face it, accept it, deal with it, and let it go. Not demanding. I came with an empty skin, and left with nothing. My life was nothing more than this for decades.

5. Life is short, there is no need to care too much about life. If you don’t understand some things, don’t understand them; if you can’t guess some people, don’t guess; if you can’t figure out some principles, don’t To think. Fold and store the unpleasant past in a deserted corner. Tell yourself: It doesn’t have to be perfect, but it must be real; it doesn’t have to be rich, but it must be happy!

6. The pain in life comes from not being able to live with yourself. The eye is for aesthetics, but ends up getting entangled in ugliness, and ends up judging the ugliness; the heart is for collecting happiness, but ends up getting stuck in care, and ends up feeling pain. Always obsessed with difficulties, we crowd out the happiness that originally belongs to us. Abandon the hustle and bustle and embrace tranquility; give up luxury but enjoy warmth; lose worries but gain happiness. This is called life.

7. You help someone 100%, but one day you are only willing to help 80%, he will empty out all your kindness, and would rather choose to be friends with someone who only helps him 70%. A grain of rice nourishes a benefactor, and a stone of rice nourishes an enemy. The old man is right. Don't give everything you have at every turn, keep some pride and heartache for yourself, remember, nothing can be more cold than the heart of a person.

8. Stop regretting what you missed. The people and things you miss are because they are not destined for you, or they are destined but not destined. Everyone will miss something. Everyone has missed something. What really belongs to you will never be missed. Therefore, there is no need to regret, there is no need to be entangled, and there is no need to force it. Live the moment well and have no regrets. This is the attitude towards life.

9. Life is your own, you don’t need to use other people’s standards to define your life. If you try to please everyone and meet everyone's standards, you will only lose yourself in the end. You can't please everyone because everyone has different standards. Trying to make everyone like you is futile and irresponsible to yourself. Don't get lost in other people's evaluations, listen carefully to your inner voice, and just be yourself.

10. It is best to do three words in everything, think openly. Thinking means being able to think. Yes, there is something gained. If you open it, you will be happy. If you do these three words, many things won't be a problem.

11. No matter how well you do, there will be people pointing fingers; even if you are a mess, you can still hear praises. There is no need to be entangled in the judgment of the outside world, there is no need to fall into the eyes of others, and there is no need to distort yourself in order to please the world. The only one who can save you is yourself.

12. Sometimes we are too tired, not necessarily because we have gone too far, but because we are carrying too much. Sometimes when we are too tired, it is not necessarily because we lack too much, but because we are lacking too much. We want too much. In fact, happiness is not a proof question, but a sense of satisfaction. Therefore, you cannot use your quality of life to prove your happiness index, but your sense of satisfaction can reveal your sense of happiness. Therefore, the Buddha said: Contentment is happiness, less desire is blessing.

13. Life is like a journey, with hardships and scenery along the way. What you see is your realm of life. If you always see people who are better than you, it means you are going uphill; if you always see people who are not as good as you, it means you are going downhill. Instead of complaining, think about change.

14. When people are troubled, they only see who has provoked them. They always blame others, this and that, and never complain that they cannot see through, figure out, or understand, and they never look for the fault within themselves. The only reason I know is that troubles occur every day. When you pick them up, you get annoyed, but you forget: This is a normal thing, and it will disappear if you don’t pick it up.

15. Whatever we cling to, we will often be deceived by; whoever we cling to, we will often be hurt by. Therefore, we must learn to let go. Take everything lightly, be open-minded, see through, don't worry about it, don't care about it, it doesn't matter what is right or wrong. No matter what you lose, don't lose your good mood. Take control of your heart and make it pure, white and quiet. Letting go does not mean giving up, and persistence does not mean persisting.

16. When people are young, they have a healthy body and abundant energy, but their thoughts are not yet mature and their experience needs to be accumulated. In old age, the mind is fully mature and the experience is fully accumulated, but the body and energy gradually decline. This is the natural process of life, and regrets are inevitable.

17. Talk less when you are not in harmony, and your words will be wrong; do not do things when your heart is not in your favor, and your actions will fail. Don't answer things in vain. If you do, you will be done. If you don't do it, you will complain. Don't make promises lightly. If you make a wish, you will pay it back. If you don't pay it, you will become a debt. Everything is a Dharma, and the key is to focus; everything is a test, and only hard work can make a difference. A contented person is a rich person, a normal person is a noble person, and an unintentional person is a saint. Smile naturally if you think about it, and let it go if you see through it.

18. If you can spend a day peacefully, it is a blessing. How many people today will not be able to see the sun tomorrow, how many people are disabled today, how many people have lost their freedom today, and how many people have their families broken up today. People must be content, and those who are content will always be happy!

19. Tea has only two postures, floating and sinking; tea drinkers have only two postures, picking up and putting down. Life is like tea, calm when it sinks and indifferent when it floats. If you can hold it, you need to let it go.

20. Life is a nameless river, whether it is deep or shallow, you have to cross it; life is a cup of colorless tea, whether it is bitter or sweet, you have to drink it; life is a fearless song, whether it is high or not Even if you are low, you have to draw; life is a game of chess without regrets, whether you win or lose, you have to gamble!

21. Never blame others for not helping you, and never blame others for not caring about you. Living in this world, we are all independent individuals, and we have to bear the pain and suffering ourselves. No one can truly understand you. If the stone doesn't hit his foot, he will never realize how painful it is. On the road of life, we are all lonely travelers. Just like a person drinking water, he knows whether he is warm or cold. The only one who can really help you is yourself.

22. When you are unhappy, think about how many days you have left to make troubles and how much time you have left to practice. If you are happy, the day has passed; if you are not happy, the day has also passed. If you figure it out, you will never be angry again.

23. No one is stronger than death. Hit is yours and no one else can take it away. Even if you take it away, it will come back sooner or later. Hit is not yours. Even if you barely get it, you will lose it sooner or later.

24. When you forget your past, are satisfied with your present, and ignore your future, you will stand at the highest point of life. When success will not make you too happy, failure will not do anything to you, and mediocrity will not overwhelm you, you will stand at the highest point of life. When you think of the past with a smile, look forward with hope, look down with a generous heart, and look up with a calm heart, you are standing at the highest point of your soul.