You hurt me, but I still love you. My heart aches, but I still miss you Li Jian... These words can only be said here.

I am not Li Jian, but I want to tell you

Love cannot be quenched by looking at plum blossoms. The amount of time a man is willing to give a woman is how much he loves you. If you love me , you can squeeze out some time, but if you can't squeeze out time, you have already made your choice. Since there is no time, I will release you. When I release you, I will also release myself

In this life, How many times have you heard "I don't mind"?

At that time, you said to him: "I already have a boyfriend."

He said: "I don't mind."

You said: "I can't give you all my love."

He said: "I don't mind."

You asked: "Don't you mind my past?"

He said with absolute certainty, "I don't mind."

Then, one day, he started to mind all the things he had said he didn't mind.

Didn’t he once say so affectionately that he didn’t mind? At that moment, you were so moved that you cried while holding him. Who knows, as time passed, he forgot everything he said.

Next time, when you hear the words "don't mind", you will know that when people don't get it, they don't mind anything. After I got it, I didn't care about anything.

This is love, I hope you don’t mind too much.

1. There is a sentence that we hope we never have to say in our lifetime, that is: What did I do wrong?

When the other party proposes to break up, we ask with tears: What did I do? Tell me what you did wrong and I will change it

Have you ever said something like this in the past or today?

When you abandon your dignity, you usually get nothing In return

This sentence is just a glorious farewell to the other party

He waved his sleeves and said sadly: You didn't do anything wrong, it's my fault

You did not do anything wrong. I don’t love you. It’s my fault. What does it have to do with you?

If you insist on saying that you did something wrong, then your only fault is You don’t love me first

2. Men are sometimes very stupid, they often don’t understand women’s thoughts

When we broke up, you cried and said: I will never see you again. When it comes to you, get out of here

In the end, he really got out

He hugged you, but you pushed him away and said: Don’t touch me again

In the end, he really let go

Actually, when you said you were breaking up, it seemed decisive, but in fact it was not so decisive. As long as he begged you, you might be soft-hearted. However, when he went back dejectedly and stopped looking for you, he thought you really wanted to break up.

Because he refused to find you and you refused to find him, you really broke up.

If he hadn't been so stupid, the outcome might have been different. Facing the woman he loves, can't he see that there is still room for redemption?

Of course they are not too stupid. When you say: Go to hell! They will not die

At this time, they are very smart and know that you are not telling the truth

3. We all once thought that we loved someone very much

Many years later, we ask ourselves: Do I love him?

Not in love at all, not even in love

We just like such an affectionate self. When we break up, we are sad, not because of a relationship, but because we pity ourselves

It’s good to be alive. Only if you live, you will find that you do not love someone as much as you thought

4. When a person desperately wants to break up with you, just agree to it

He is so eager, so why isn’t it an insult to you?

Some people are not sober enough to see the other person being so eager, but they still want to keep him and want the other person to think clearly.

If you don’t think clearly enough and are not decisive enough, you won’t be so urgent.

Some people just want revenge. They want to break up with me so urgently. I just won’t agree. I just To delay and torment him.

Just wait, when I want to give up, I will give up, the timetable is in my hands!

This is not torturing the other party, this is insulting yourself

He forces you to move. You need to find a truck immediately and move all your belongings overnight. Quickly. It was beyond his imagination

You can't keep someone who is desperate. He has never loved you at all, so he would trample on your dignity like that

5. Someone asked, when we separate, is it more painful for the person who leaves, or for the person who stays? It should be said that the person who loves the most is more painful.

For a couple, one of them has to go out alone. This short separation is naturally more painful for the one who stays.

The person outside is busy playing or working, colorful, but the person staying behind has to face loneliness alone. At that moment, he realized that he missed each other so much.

It is better to abandon others than to be abandoned. The so-called parting always means that one leaves and the other stays. Of course, the one who leaves will not be as painful as the one who stays.

As time goes by, the one who stays remains. The person who left found that he could forget the person he left, and it would no longer be painful. However, the person who left found that he still loved the person before. At that moment, he realized that he was the one left behind

6. Don’t say you will love someone unconditionally, love is always conditional

You can You don’t want anything, but you want him to love you. Isn’t this a condition?

Every one of us is loved conditionally, and we also love others conditionally. There is no need to feel discouraged. Since you know that there is no unconditional love in this world, you should work hard to make yourself more qualified to be loved, and at the same time, you should also learn to forget some conditions to love someone

7. Do you believe that two people who love each other can It is possible to overcome all difficulties

Having never had such a belief proves that you have never been young

But if you always believe it, it proves that you are too naive and you have not grown up yet

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If two people who love each other never grow up, never make progress, never meet a better person, and their thoughts are always the same, then there will be no difficulties at all between them. Unfortunately, this is not easy

You who believe that love can overcome all difficulties, who believe that love is omnipotent, can only recall that beautiful and distant belief in your memory

8. After breaking up with your boyfriend, you know that he still loves you very much and wants you to change his mind, so when you are lonely, you will look for him. You no longer love him, and you don't want to get back together, but you are just too bored. And he just comes as he is told. Isn't this very selfish?

I am used to being with him. Although he has many shortcomings, he is very lonely alone. Knowing that his heart might be bleeding.

You know, he still has a glimmer of hope in his heart. When you are willing to see him, he will think that he still has a chance.

He will think that as long as he puts you on the bed, you will come back to him, at least, you will not leave him for the time being.

He uses this idea to become your transition

If you had given this person the deepest love, how could you bear to use his dignity to kill your loneliness? One day, when he wakes up, he will hate you.

If you have a choice, don't end a love with hate.

9. If the food you bought doesn’t taste good, don’t throw it away, just put it aside. One day, when you are very hungry and there is only that bag of food at home, you will think it is delicious.

When it is your only choice, you will find that although it is not as delicious as the world, it is not as unpalatable as before.

Sometimes, being hungry and not choosing food is worthy of sympathy. It's really lonely. That person is not very nice. I didn't like him at all before. However, when I was hungry, he suddenly became more beautiful and cute.

That is not a helpless choice, but it is finally a chance for you to explore his advantages.

How do we know that we are not the choice of others?

10. Who says time is not a problem

No matter how good a man is, he has no time to accompany him. You are also redundant. Love cannot be quenched by looking at the plum blossoms. Can you spend every day with his photos and memories?

How much time a man is willing to give a woman is how much he loves her

If you love me, you can squeeze out some time. If you can't squeeze out time, you have already made your choice

Since there is no time, let me release you. When I release you, I also release me. Yourself

11. Don’t be angry when you are hated by someone for no reason. Maybe you have done something good.

The person he hates is usually someone who is around them. , those people have what they can’t have

Those who are hated have no pain. Those who hate are left scarred

Hate is a pitiful escape. When you are hated by someone, you are happier than the person who hates you

12. Time will make you sober or ruthless. You ask bitterly: How can you forget someone

I said: How can we not forget someone?

13. There are many things that we thought we would love for a lifetime, and a lifelong covenant was always made when we wanted to have the other person the most. At that time, I really thought like this...

When we met that person, we thought we would love him forever. He was already so good, how could I fall in love with someone else

However, time will let you know that a lifetime wish is really just a wish

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We often ask the people we love: Will you change

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We are afraid that he will change his heart, and we are afraid that love will change

The first thing that changes is often not a person’s heart, but his view of things

I miss my lover forever When you change your heart, you have to constantly re-recognize and appreciate the changed person again

15. The most romantic way to kill a woman is to hug her hard until she suffocates. Let go

16. It is a woman’s love that makes a woman loyal, but it is not a man’s love that makes a man sincere

What makes a man sincere is not love, but righteousness

Therefore, if you want to keep a man, you must not only love him, but also make him feel that he has failed you

17. If a man says to you: I will never fall in love with another woman again

You should understand that he means temporarily, at present, at this moment, he will not fall in love with another woman

If a man says to you: I have only loved one woman in my life

That refers to her mother

The man said: I will take care of you for the rest of my life

The result is that you will take care of his daily life, food, family and children

A man’s love words are inseparable from the eternal oath of love, but men are best at forgetting their promises

Only women who are dazzled by love believe love words, but there are also women who have never been dazzled by love. Are you a fainting woman?

So, a man’s love words are always effective

18. Many people say: The world is as close as a neighbor. Is the end of the world really so close?

Distance is still distance. You went to a very far away place. Although we can chat on the phone and write emails, we are still far apart.

When I need a hug, where are you?

When I need comfort, where are you?

When you are helpless, how can I be there for you? What to do

When a couple decides to part ways, it's a gamble. At first, I will miss you, but all thoughts need to be soothed at the right time. Endless thoughts are a kind of torture.

I can wait for you, but you'd better not ask me if I will fall in love with someone else during this time.

All waiting has a price. If you want me to wait, you can't take over my freedom. If I ask you to wait for me, I will do the same

I know you will come back to me, and that is enough.

You can love anyone until the day we agree to meet again. If you still think I am the best in the end, just come back to me

I have never believed that we are as close to each other as far as the end of the world. I have only seen men and women who are as close to each other as the end of the world

19. The most tolerant Acceptance is to accept the person who betrayed you, forget the past with tears, just beg him to come back, but beg him to stay

Women always try to forget the past

But men don’t. It is not easy for a woman who betrayed him to come back to him. Even if he has no choice but to accept her again because he loves her so much, there will always be a thorn in a man's heart

Men hold grudges better than women, especially the grudges between men and women. They would rather accept a partner who is unfaithful than a woman who is unfaithful.

Is it that men are more affectionate than women and cannot accept this kind of betrayal, or are women that are more affectionate than men and are willing to forget betrayal?

If you want to betray, it is better to betray a woman

20. In fact, crying, making trouble and hanging, especially hanging, are effective for men. It does not make men feel sad, but makes them sad. The surging machismo

They thought to themselves, he must love me so much that without me, she would die

I just imagined that if I were a doctor on duty , I saw a woman with bleeding wrists and moaning in pain pushed in front of me. When I asked her who she committed suicide for, she raised her delicate fingers and pointed outward with satisfaction.

Then I saw an unattractive and good-for-nothing man, leaning against the door with his hands folded, looking haggard but unable to conceal his pride, depressed yet unable to help but feel smug, I would squirt!

If you want a woman to commit suicide for you, it depends on whether you are worthy or not!

21. Before going to bed with him, they were 100% sure that the man liked her, but once they had sex, she immediately doubted him. Does he love her? Or does he still love her? body?

A man never doubts whether a woman loves him or his body. If she only loves him but not his body, he will be really sad

Whether she is loved, Everyone has different feelings, but a man who disappears after having a relationship must not love you. He only loves your body

22. Good love makes your world broader. , like walking on an endless grassland. Bad love makes your world narrower and narrower, and in the end there is only a small space under the roof to shelter from the rain.

Good love means you see the world through one person, bad love means you see the world through one person. A person abandons the world

Good love makes you always reflect on whether you have given enough, so that you are not afraid of growing old, because you will not lose the other person even if you grow old. You won’t worry that ten years later, your steps will be inconsistent because you are walking hand in hand on the grassland instead of sheltering from the rain under the eaves

When the rain stops, there is no need to cuddle up

23. Uncertain love is also a kind of torture

When will he become more certain? Why does he always let you down when you want him? Breaking your heart when you're expecting it? When you are so full of ambition, it makes you feel frustrated for no reason? Is this love?

24. Perhaps, each person has a role in another person's life. After the effect is over and the merits are complete, it is time to break up. He was just a passer-by in her life, a springboard, but he influenced her for the rest of her life. Was this something she had once or would it last forever?

Don’t ask again whether it lasts forever or what you once had. All good things always last forever in different forms. When we broke up that day, you were very sad. Looking back today, you realize that he left because its function has ended

Where can there be no parting in life? What matters is what role each of you has played in the other's life

25. Painful memories will eventually become strength. You once paid a heavy price and were blind-sighted. Whenever you recall the insult at that time, you will become stronger, love smarter, and love yourself more.

26. It turns out that there are only three gifts that men like most

A tall hat. From time to time, give him a tall hat, praise him and admire him.

The eyes of admiration.

Even if he does something very stupid, you still have to give him such a look to give him the comfort of life. Let him know that you will share the joys and sorrows with him, and that you are the comfort of his life

When he receives these three gifts, he will give you many gifts.

If one party cannot keep the promise between two people, there is nothing they can do.

It’s because he can’t do it, it’s not because he forgot. There’s no need for you to remind him at the top of your lungs. When a person decides to leave you, there is no point in reminding him: You said you would never leave me!

So what if he said that?

You refused to believe what he said, but when he was about to leave, you were pursuing him.

Think of commitment as part of love.

We have sincerely promised to do something for a person, but the world of tomorrow is beyond my control. If I can do it, I will be happy; if I can't, I will be sad. I will also learn and not pursue it.

Love with a promise is ultimately more beautiful than love without a promise. Once you want to pursue it, the promise has become too far away.

27. True love enables you to stay with someone for a long time. No matter what the outside world becomes, no matter how many temptations there are around you, you have the courage to take responsibility and commitment, even if there are weaknesses and doubts. moment, you will become more determined.

You will do your best in your life to protect her and make her happy. You will not be willing to touch a hair of hers, nor will you let others touch a hair of hers.

You are so vigorous that you have defeated time.

28. Why don’t you believe in yourself and believe that you have been loved? It is better than believing that you are being played with your feelings.

Whichever is happier, just believe it.

This love is yours, and you have the right to hold on to sweet memories and insist that he once loved you, but his love was too short

Today, just believe it. When you get older, maybe you will start to wonder if he has ever truly loved you

But what does it matter? You no longer loved him then.

Love is always more beautiful in imagination than reality. This is true when we meet, and so is farewell.