What does it mean to be willing to win a heart and never give up?

What do you mean, I hope to have a heart and a head? I hope to have a heart, a head and a head. From "White-headed Song" and Yuefu "Songs of the South". This legend originated from the story of Sima Xiangru and Zhuo Wenjun. Later generations often use this tone to describe abandoning women. Poets like Li Bai have ancient poems on this subject. I hope to win a person's heart and never give up. Next sentence: Why do bamboo poles curl and fish tails migrate? \x0d\ I wish to have a happy heart: I thought that if I married a caring man, I could love him forever and be happy \x0d\ Title \x0d\ Time Han \x0d\ Author Zhuo Wenjun (in doubt) \x0d\ Genre Yuefu \ x0d \ x0d \ Wen Jun has two opinions. \x0d\ Today's bucket, tomorrow's ditch head. \x0d\ On the Yugou, the ditch water flows from east to west. \x0d\ sad to sad, don't cry when you get married. \x0d\ is willing to unite as one and never give up. (Or: I wish to be United as one, and never leave each other) \x0d\ What a bamboo pole and a fishtail! \x0d\ Men value spirit, why use money and knives \x0d\ to win people's hearts, never leave each other, bamboo sticks curl up and fish tails migrate. The love between husband and wife should be as pure as the snow on the mountain and the bright moon in the cloud. I heard that you are going to move on, so I can only say goodbye to you. After drinking the farewell wine, the two of us parted ways like ditch water, and the old feelings are gone forever. I wandered in this ditch for a long time, recalling the loving scene when I first got married, and I was extremely sad. Life is a rare confidant! My wife wants to grow old with you, but I didn't expect you to change your mind. A man should be upright. How can you associate love with money? How can love between husband and wife be bought and sold as a commodity? You know, money may buy "hue", but it can never buy pure love! \ x0d \ x0d \ Translation: Love should be as pure as snow on the mountain and as bright as the moon in the clouds. I heard that you have second thoughts, so I came to break up with you. It seems to be the last party recently, and we will break up tomorrow. I walked slowly along the ditch, and my past life was like a ditch flowing eastward, which never came back. At the beginning, I resolutely left home and ran away with you, unlike ordinary girls who cry sadly. I thought that if I married a loyal man, I could fall in love and be happy forever. Love between men and women is like a fishing rod. The fish is so cute. Men should put affection first, and lose their sincere love, which money and wealth can't make up for. \x0d\\x0d\ Brief analysis This is a folk song of Han Yuefu, which skillfully shapes a female image with distinct personality and strong feelings through the words and deeds of the lyric hero. It not only truly depicts the heroine's troubled and thoughtful expression, but also shows her calmness and thoroughness. \ x0d \ x0d \ May a man's heart be white and his head not leave \ x0d \ x0d \ In the original poem, "Snow is as white as a mountain and the moon is as bright as a cloud": these two sentences are Zhuo Wenjun's self-metaphor: Zhuo Wenjun \ x0d \ x0d \ has a pure personality as white as jade. White is usually used to describe the whiteness of snow. Kyaukphyu: Kyaukphyu is usually used to describe moonlight, which means white and bright, but not specifically moonlight. For example, in The Book of Songs, Xiaoya, there is a saying that it is as white as a pony. "Wen Jun has two meanings": two meanings refer to two hearts. It is said that Sima Xiangru has another love-he wants to marry Maoling as his concubine. "When the bamboo pole is curled up, the fish tail is a disciple": The poet described the instability of will and love with the shaking of the bamboo pole tail and the shaking of the fish tail. Money knife: the copper coins used in ancient times are shaped like knives, so they are called money knives. Love here is not something money can buy. \ x0d \ x0d \ Wen Jun's ballad "Ballad of Whitehead" is light and bright, like a bright dagger, inserted between her and Sima Xiangru. She accused him of being ungrateful and empathetic, and punctured his mask of hypocrisy and embarrassment-"Zhu's string is broken, the mirror is invisible, the morning dew _, and the fragrance is broken." She used four parallelism to trace the kindness that was about to be cut off between each other. \ x0d \ x0d \ she doesn't cry; Even the accusations are clear-headed; And say "eat as much as possible, don't miss concubines", which not only shows your attitude, but also leaves room for each other. She knew that she still loved him, but she didn't want to lose him, so she didn't forget to express her affection. This is a clever way for a clever woman. \ x0d \ x0d \ I still care about you from the bottom of my heart. I hope you can have enough food and clothing after you leave me. Don't miss it. Just "Wen Jun has two opinions, so I came to say goodbye." If you want to break up, I won't pester you Broken strings are by no means without them. You can even marry a man and a woman. \ x0d \ x0d \ She is not a woman who only knows how to cry. The desire to grow old with someone is simple and simple, and it is not an excessive expectation. So if you can't do it, please leave. \ x0d \ x0d \ The beauty of rejection, which is rare for women, comes from the body without restraint. This beauty is rare in the world. Since having her, a woman's refusal has become a magnificent beauty. \ x0d \ x0d \ Jinshui Tang Tang, a tactic with Chang Jun! \ x0d \ x0d \ This is the last attempt. If he doesn't look back, she will let go. \ x0d \ x0d \ he's back. He is old and can't live without it. \ x0d \ x0d \ Wen Jun, he used up his last voice to call him, as if he had entered her heart. \ x0d \ x0d \ that year, the spring grass was reborn. \ x0d \ x0d \ evergreen, she saw him close his eyes. Know him and never come back. \ x0d \ x0d \ Yes, I can see through life and death from you, and get the peace of rebirth because of your death, but I'm sure I can't be separated from you. \ x0d \ x0d \ Changqing, please wait for me. \ x0d \ x0d \ The love story between Zhuo Wenjun and Sima Xiangru in Han Dynasty is very touching. It is said that when Sima Xiangru was poor, he went to the home of Zhuo Wangsun, a rich man in Lin Qiong. During the dinner, he happened to meet Wen Jun, the newly widowed daughter of Zhuo Wangsun, who was very beautiful, so he played Phoenix to express his love, teased Wen Jun, and Wen was moved. That night, he eloped with Xiangru to Chengdu. Xiang Ru is a poor scholar. After a while, he had to go back to Lin Qiong with Wen Jun to open a small hotel. It's just opposite Zhuo Fu. When Zhuo Wenjun was selling wine, Zhuo Wangsun was so angry that he couldn't bear to make fun of his daughter in public, so he had to give her part of his property. Later, Sima Xiangru went to Beijing to pay tribute to Emperor Wu of Han Dynasty, who appreciated it and gave the tribute to his officials. Sima Xiangru wants to marry a Maoling woman as a concubine in Beijing. When Zhuo Wenjun heard the news, he wrote this song "A Ballad of Whitehead" to show his kindness. \x0d\\x0d\ Explain that this poem may not have been written by Zhuo Wenjun, a talented woman in the Han Dynasty, but may have been invented by later generations. According to legend, after Sima Xiangru made his fortune, he gradually indulged in pleasure and lived in powder piles day after day until he wanted to marry a Maoling woman. Zhuo Wenjun couldn't bear it any longer, so he wrote this poem "White Stone Ballad" and presented it in the same way. A book is attached to the poem, saying, "Chunhua Fang Jing, five-color Su Ling, the sound of the piano is still imperial, and the new sound replaces the old! Jinshui has a honeymoon period, and the Han Palace has water. This is new, and the embarrassing people in the world don't know! Zhu's string is broken, the mirror is out of sight, the morning dew _, the fragrance is broken, the bald head sings, and the injury leaves. Try to add rice without thinking about concubines, Jinshui, you grow up! \ x0d \ x0d \ It is said that Sima Xiangru read this poem and recalled his love in those days, so he never wanted to take a concubine again, and the couple made up again. \ x0d \ x0d \ Sima Xiangru sent his wife a letter of 13 words: 1,234,567,891 million. Clever Zhuo Wenjun burst into tears after reading it. There is only one "100 million" difference in a row of figures. Doesn't that mean that the "unintentional" implied by the husband has no memory? With a very sad heart, I wrote a poem about Lang. \ x0d \ x0d \ "After a farewell, the two places hung together. Let's say March or April, who knows five or six years. The lyre has no intention to play, and the eight-part essay can't be passed down. The nine-ring chain is never interrupted, and the ten-mile pavilion wants to wear it. I miss you a hundred times and a thousand times, but I can't help but blame Lang (I can't help but blame Jun). A thousand words can't be finished, and you are bored. Nine times to see the lonely geese, the Mid-Autumn Festival in August is not round. In July and a half, incense is burned to ask the sky, and everyone shakes their hearts in the dog days of June. Pomegranate is as red as May, but it is watered by cold rain. April loquat is not yellow, and I want to be confused in the mirror. In a hurry, the peach blossoms followed Shui Piao in March, and the kite string was broken in February. "Come on, Lang Lang, I really hope to be a man for a woman in my next life." \ x0d \ x0d \ Sima Xiangru couldn't help marveling at her talent after reading his wife's letter. Looking back on the love between husband and wife in the past, I was ashamed and never mentioned the matter of leaving my wife and concubinage again. But it is worth noting that all the property of Sima Xiangru comes from Zhuo Wenjun. If Wen Jun wants to divorce him, I'm afraid he will lead a poor life again. At the beginning, he was selected by Qin, and his motivation was also very suspicious. Maybe this was planned by Sima Xiangru and his friends. \x0d\\x0d\ But there is another saying, thirteen-character letters and letters of complaint against Lang are not real things with Zhuo Wenjun, but a folk "Sima Xiangru phenomenon" (Lecture Room-Emperor Wu of the Han Dynasty by Wang Liqun, a professor in Harbin). \ x0d \ x0d \ Baishi poem was written by Wen Jun, but there is no exact record. About his life experience, it is only recorded in Ge Hong's Miscellanies of Xijing, which is similar to the current novels. At that time, Yuefu poems did not write the author of "Bai tou Yin" as Zhuo Wenjun, and it was not recorded and sorted out later. \x0d\ Appreciation II \x0d\ Jin Gehong's Miscellaneous Notes on Xijing contains: "Sima Xiangru hired Maoling women as concubines, and Zhuo Wenjun committed suicide by writing" Whitehead Song "to stop each other." However, Song Zhi said that "folk songs" such as "Bai Tou Yin" are all folk songs. The title of the poem "New Ode to Yutai" is "Snow on the Mountain", but even this title has nothing to do with Zhuo's family. Miscellanies of Xijing is a novelist's story, but the relationship between Wen Jun and Xiang Ru has never reached this point, so it is obviously dependent on Wen Jun to write it. This poem is a folk song, written in a woman's tone, expressing what she said decisively because she abandoned her husband who was not good at emotion. The first two sentences are essays, saying that the love between men and women should be pure and flawless, as spotless as the snow in the mountains; It should be bright and eternal, like the bright moon in the clouds. This is not only a beautiful symbol of general human physics, but also a witness of the heroine and her husband. As A Qing poet Yao Wang said, "White as snow and bright as the moon are metaphors of the past." However, there is also a solution that "snow on the mountain" and "moon between clouds" are easier to disappear and cover up, and people with two meanings are compared. "(Zhang Yugu's Appreciation of Ancient Poems) has a passable meaning. If you play with poetry carefully, it will be more interesting to suppress it first and then raise it. So this sentence in Wen Jun suddenly changed: Since your love for me has been mixed with impurities, since you are not single-minded, I will come to say goodbye to you and break up with you forever. "There are two meanings", which is not only a turning point with the first two sentences of "snow" and "moon", but also a contrast with the "single-minded person" behind, giving consideration to nature before and after, showing condemnation and revealing the main idea of the whole poem. The four sentences in "Today" are very positive: Today's farewell wine is our last party, and tomorrow morning we will wander in the imperial ditch (the canal around the palace wall) and go our separate ways, just like running water in the imperial ditch. "East-west flow" is a branch of canal water, which means it goes its own way; Or it can be interpreted as a partial compound word, describing love as a ditch flowing eastward, which is gone forever, and its meaning can also be passed on. \x0d "Sadness" four sentences suddenly collapsed, saying that women always cry sadly when they get married, which is actually unnecessary; As long as you marry a single-minded man and grow old together, you will be very happy. The implication is that being abandoned today is the most tragic and sad thing, and it is a taste that newly married women can't understand. The author talks about others and hints at himself, but the words are graceful and frustrated; I am desperate and still hope that man will change. My feelings are painful but warm. As Zhang Yugu, a person of A Qing Dynasty, commented: "Four sad words are out of line and turn around, and the cover will eventually hope that the two will become one and stay together forever. "Beauty lies in marrying a person. You are crying and pointing out a woman's wishes out of thin air. You don't have to say it yourself, you are in the room. It is most alert to use a pen to occupy your identity and leave a lingering meaning. " Appreciation of Ancient Poetry is a profound poetic theme. \x0d\ At the end of the four sentences, two metaphors are used to show that love should be based on mutual affinity, and if it depends on money, it will be difficult to last, revealing the reason why there are "two meanings" in the last article. "Bamboo pole" means fishing pole; "_ _" describes the long and gentle swing; "_ _" (shρ), that is, "_ _", describes that the fish tail is wet feather. "Money knife", that is, ancient knife-shaped coins, generally refers to money here. With the flexible and light swing of the fishing rod and the moist and tender fish tail, it is a metaphor for men and women to courtship and love each other. There are many metaphors in the Book of Songs, such as Feng Weizhu: "_ _ bamboo to catch Qi; If you don't think about it, it's far from it. " Mao Chuan: "Fishing catches a fish, just like a woman waiting for a gift to become a housewife." But the implication here seems to imply that if you don't know each other's feelings (meaning) and only lure fish with sweet bait, love is unreliable, just like pure money lure. Therefore, A Qing official Zhu Jiawei commented: "How can you get fish? You must add flavor to the bait. If you enjoy yourself wholeheartedly, why do you need bait! " (Preface to Yuefu) It is because of money that the ending broke the man's "second heart". But did he use money as bait to find another woman? Or is the "new love" too rich, and the man is greedy for money and hates dross? This is left to the reader to guess. The poem x0d portrays a divorced woman with distinct personality, which not only reflects the marriage tragedy of women in feudal society, but also pays great attention to praising the heroine's noble love attitude and beautiful sentiment. She values friendship and despises money; Require oneness and oppose "ambiguity". When she learned that her husband's feelings were not experts, she did not make any compromise, nor did she swear crazily and whine feebly, which showed the dignity of women's own personality. She buried her pain in her heart and bid farewell to her ungrateful husband calmly and gently by buying wine. How quiet and enlightened she is! Although she has memories and fantasies about old feelings, she is more of a profound reflection on life. Therefore, compared with the general image of abandoned wife in ancient poetry, she is very different and shows the personality of "this one". \x0d\ The whole poem uses metaphors and antithesis. The metaphors of snow, moon, ditch water, bamboo pole and fish tail are vivid and intriguing. The sentences 1, 2,5,6, 13 and 14 are correct and natural. In addition, when the four sentences are interpreted, every rhyme changes, and the poem is also frustrated, and the sound and emotion are perfectly unified.