How to face your ex-husband after divorce

1, keep your distance. Once a husband and wife are divorced, they are no longer husband and wife in the legal sense. The man becomes the woman's "ex-husband" and the woman becomes the man's "ex-wife". After divorce, as a woman, we must keep a proper distance from her ex-husband, not to get too close, and not to make eyes at her, which is not conducive to her forming a new family. 2. Draw a clear line. When a husband and wife divorce, the relationship between husband and wife in the legal sense is dissolved. From then on, both men and women don't need to fulfill their husband and wife obligations. The man has no right to ask the woman to wash and cook for him, and he can't kiss and touch the woman again. At this time, the woman must draw a clear line with her ex-husband and don't drag her feet, otherwise it will be easily controlled by her ex-husband. 3. Don't get along alone. After the divorce, the woman will inevitably see her ex-husband again, and sometimes even gather in the same room. At this time, the woman should find ways not to be alone with her ex-husband. She can let her friends accompany her, or she can let her children accompany her. She can also call her ex-husband's family together. Because women's physical strength is generally not as good as men's, not being lonely can prevent their ex-husbands from invading themselves. 4. Don't interfere with each other's family. After divorce, under normal circumstances, the man will remarry, the woman will remarry, and both men and women will re-form their own families. At this time, the woman should cherish her new family, be kind to her current husband and strive to live a happy life. A woman should not interfere with her ex-husband's family, keep in touch with her ex-husband, and associate with her ex-husband like a lover. This will destroy not only her ex-husband's family, but also her own. 5. Let the child contact her ex-husband. After the divorce, in order to maintain their happy life, the woman tries to keep in touch with her ex-husband as little as possible, but sometimes it is necessary. At this time, she can mobilize her children to contact her ex-husband. On the one hand, children are related to their ex-husbands, making it easier to communicate with them. On the other hand, letting children contact her reduces her chances of contacting her ex-husband. 6. Current husband. After the divorce, when a woman sets up a new family, she must cherish the hard-won new family, especially respect the current husband, don't flirt with him in front of him, don't praise his ex-husband in front of him, and don't often go out on dates behind his back, which will hurt the current husband and be detrimental to the new family. How to face your ex-husband after divorce? After divorce, there are children. What kind of relationship should the two sides maintain? Many people are divorced, but they can't be strangers because they have children. So, how to deal with the relationship between husband and wife after divorce? The suggestions are as follows: 1. If the husband and wife break up peacefully and don't have much resentment towards each other, it's best to maintain the relationship of social ordinary friends. Then, since we are ordinary friends, don't get too close together, and don't get along alone in a relatively private environment like husband and wife. When meeting in public, it is best to have friends of a third party present to avoid embarrassment. Moreover, it is suggested that the main topics of both parties after marriage should also be related to children, which is more personal. Problems should not be discussed with each other, and many private matters should not be shared. 2. If the husband and wife break up peacefully and resent each other deeply, for example, one of them is seriously derailed, or one of them has a record of domestic violence, then it is suggested to maintain a cooperative relationship. After the divorce, the two sides can make some agreements on how to take care of the children in the future, and they can act according to these agreements. In addition, other connections may be completely disconnected. When we meet again, there must be a third party present, preferably a remarried couple, in case the two people who have had deep grievances make excessive moves. The last suggestion is to answer those friends who insist on being good friends after divorce. From a psychological point of view, it is not recommended to maintain close relationship with good friends after divorce. The reason is that since two people have divorced, it means that there must be something wrong with their relationship, and it will not be a minor problem. Being a social friend is the limit. Moreover, keeping friends after divorce will affect each other to find happiness again, which is not good for each other. After the divorce, my ex-husband was nice to me again. What should I do? After divorce, some women find that their ex-husbands suddenly care more about themselves and are more gentle and considerate, but after remarriage, they are afraid to return to their former appearance. But the sudden change of ex-husband reminds them of the sweetness of the past. What should I do? The suggestions are as follows: 1. If it is an impulsive divorce, this ex-husband can divorce you impulsively, which shows that his personality is not stable enough and his thinking is not long enough. Even if I remarry with such a man, I am afraid I will encounter many problems in the future. So it is not recommended that you choose to remarry. It's best to make it clear to each other that I have made up my mind to start looking for new happiness and hope that each other will start a new life and stop bothering each other. 2. If it is not an impulsive divorce, it means that the other party divorced after careful consideration. At this time, the ex-husband suddenly treated you well. It may be that he, as a man, has unwilling psychology at work. He may think that you used to be his wife, and now you want to be someone else's woman, which makes him feel unwilling. But this reluctance is not love. Maybe he didn't realize it himself and misunderstood that he still loves you. Therefore, it is still not recommended that you accept your ex-husband's reconciliation. There is only one situation that can be considered and accepted, that is, the ex-husband really regrets divorcing you, and hopes to start from love again and see if there is any possibility of a second time. In this case, I suggest that you can seriously consider it according to the specific situation. After the divorce, the child was awarded to the other party. How should I get along with children? Children are always a big problem in divorce. Once divorced, the children can only belong to one party, and the other party has to live separately from the children. Then, if the child is awarded to the other party, how should he get along with the child? The suggestions are as follows: 1. Always keep in touch. Since children don't live with you, their feelings really change easily. Therefore, it is recommended that you keep regular communication with your children once a week and once a month. This kind of communication is best carried out face to face alone, and the time can exceed three hours. You can ask the child's life and growth in detail. Let your child feel that you care about him. 2. Spend important days with your children. On children's birthdays, college entrance examinations, graduation and other days, it is best to be present, or to buy gifts for children and express greetings, which can play a positive role in building feelings with children. Please remember, don't slander your ex-husband or ex-wife in front of your children, and don't alienate your children from each other. This kind of thing is not conducive to the development of children's healthy psychology, and it is also not conducive to the long-term establishment of your feelings with your children. Finally, I hope all divorced people can solve these three problems about divorce. However, it is more hopeful that no one will encounter these problems. How to face your ex-husband after divorce 3 How to get along with your ex-husband after divorce 1. After the divorce, the two people are already different individuals. At this time, you must keep your distance. There is nothing to do. Don't meet each other to avoid unnecessary misunderstanding. When you divorce, you need to handle everything well to avoid meeting each other after marriage and adding trouble to yourself. 2. Both of them are divorced. At this time, they will definitely face new feelings. If you find that the other party has remarried, you must not disturb each other at this time and keep your distance. Some people say that two people should be separated when they get divorced, but sometimes it is. Because two people have lived together after all, and there are many people involved, including children and the elderly. Therefore, the best way to get along after divorce is not to disturb each other and not to cause trouble to each other. Two people can communicate normally, but they must keep their distance. In fact, marriage is fair to everyone, and he will repay you as you treat him. Since I didn't cherish it when I was in love, there is no need to regret it after divorce. Just try to be yourself. Many couples will still live together after divorce because they don't want the elderly and children to know. This time is actually a good recovery period. If you still have feelings for each other, you can change yourself, let the other person see your goodness, and maybe you can save the other person's heart. If the other person is very determined, you need to keep a good distance at this time and try not to disturb the other person. What do you think of your ex-husband after divorce 1? Peace, we are still friends. This is probably the most comfortable way to get along with your ex-husband after divorce. The affection between people will fade with the passage of time, especially the lack of communication after marriage, so it is easy to lose the original passion and lead to the end of divorce. But a peaceful breakup is essentially a reunion. Without love and friendship, we can still meet in our spare time and talk about the past. After being together for a long time, living habits, hobbies and friends circle will inevitably cross. If you really want to die of old age, it is impossible. If you break up with your ex-husband peacefully, you might as well treat him as an old friend who knows you very well. 2. Parting because of resentment and not seeing each other for a short time. But there are so many people looking for marriage in the world. If everyone can get along well, there won't be so many examples of relatives becoming enemies. Apart from personality differences, most people's marriages are destroyed by the intervention of a third party. This kind of divorce is often accompanied by resentment and resentment. Even if they finally separated, they still hated each other. So in this case, how to face the ex-husband? In short, out of sight is clean. You can pick up your hobby and continue your work. If you have no children, you can take a long vacation and rekindle your love for life in beautiful food. Time can dilute hatred. If your separation is unpleasant, then the best way is to stay away for a short time. If you can't let go of this tone, cry with your friends all day and accuse this sad person. Then in addition to making yourself miserable, it will also give people the illusion that your ex-husband is right to divorce you. It's easy to avoid not having children, and it's even harder not to meet them. Children are the blood of husband and wife, and no one is qualified to deprive him of the right to meet and get along with his parents. If the entanglement of adults has cast a shadow on children's psychology, so that there is a serious lack of fatherly love or maternal love, that is not good. If the child is yours after the divorce, then you should let the child meet her ex-husband. Even if there is any dissatisfaction when meeting, you should suppress it and don't let the child be afraid. If the child belongs to your ex-husband, you can also go to see the child generously. Remember, your purpose is just to have a happy day with your children, not to settle old scores with your ex-husband. Of course, it's best not to slander your ex-husband often in front of your children, which is not good either. Since we can get married, it is also a kind of fate. Even if we have to be separated for many reasons, we should still care about our thoughtfulness and warmth, or face it calmly, or avoid it, and never tear our faces and cause a lose-lose outcome.