Have your own umbrella. Tell me about it.

No matter how big the roof of someone else's house is, it is better to have an umbrella. When I first saw this sentence, a scene appeared in my mind.

A person is walking on the road in a hurry. On the way, it suddenly began to rain. It's raining harder and harder, and passers-by look around blankly. Finally, he saw a family not far away. The eaves of this family are spacious and suitable for him to shelter from the wind and rain, so he rushed over. However, half an hour has passed, and the raindrops in the sky are still falling, with no intention of stopping.

The traveler can't help feeling anxious because he has something important to do. He must regret not having prepared an umbrella earlier. If he had an umbrella in his hand, he would be on his way now, and he wouldn't have to worry there.

Although the eaves of other people's homes can block out the temporary wind and rain, the charm of owning an umbrella lies in the trip when you say go.

What others give is only temporary, and only when they have it can it last for a long time. Most people in China have a house complex, and they all dream of owning their own house.

Because renting a house outside, I always feel that I have no sense of belonging. Other people's houses, they can always find an excuse to let you go and not rent them to you. So, you have to find a house and run around tired, just like duckweed in the rain.

And if you have your own house, even if it is small, just like a snail with a shell, you feel safe anytime and anywhere. The house here is not an umbrella in our life.

In real life, many people are working for others, doing what anyone who is not a fool can do. Every day, besides going to work and working overtime, I seem to be busy hanging out, chasing plays, playing games and brushing videos when I am free.

As a result, winter goes and summer comes, year after year, wasting time and years. But there are also very few people who have different attitudes towards life.

While others are killing time, they are immersed in learning various professional skills. Three or five years have passed, and I have distanced myself from most people. With professional skills, these few people can find better job opportunities, get higher salaries and live a superior life. And most people are still poor and relatively stable. So these people have long realized the importance of having an umbrella.

In marriage, it is best for women to have their own stable income so as not to rely on others. Even if my marriage is in crisis, I have the ability to support myself. China's old-fashioned marriage is to marry a chicken with a chicken, a dog with a dog, and a monkey with a mountain. A husband is a woman's support and an umbrella.

But now, this old-fashioned marriage is an fable. No one can rely on anyone in marriage. Both men and women should share the wind and rain for their families, which is their own umbrella. There's nothing wrong with that. Society is always progressing, and the role played by husband and wife should be constantly improved in every family. Only in this way can we adapt to the changes in this environment.

So when we lie in bed at night, think about it. Who can be trusted and relied on in this life? Along the way, our bags are full of ups and downs. We have learned to be silent, used to loneliness and used to self-healing.

When one day you have tasted the ruthlessness of society, the pressure of money, unbearable love and sinister heart, you will finally understand that no matter how big the roof of others is, it is not as important as having an umbrella.