Cold violence, patient chat

First of all, it needs to be clear that it is not an easy task to solve the problem of boyfriend's cold violence, which requires patience and skill. Here are some words and skills for your reference:

Express your feelings: When you feel your boyfriend's cold violence, you can directly tell him your feelings, such as "I think you are indifferent to me, and I feel very sad and uneasy", so that he can realize that his behavior has hurt you.

Don't blame or attack: when expressing your feelings, don't use offensive words or accuse him of his behavior, which will make him resistant and defensive. On the contrary, it should be expressed in mild and rational language.

Try to listen: After expressing your feelings, you can try to listen to his thoughts and feelings, understand why he did it, and try to understand his point of view.

Propose solutions: after understanding each other's thoughts and feelings, we can discuss and find solutions to problems together.

Keep communication: Good communication is needed both when cold violence is discovered and in the process of solving problems. Communicate in time to avoid the problem from getting worse.

Last but not least, if the boyfriend's cold violence is too serious or can't be improved, you should seek professional help and support in time to protect your physical and mental health.