I used to be a very happy child ... now I feel that it is difficult to communicate with people in society. ...

After reading your question, I have something to say, from the bottom of my heart as an experienced person:

In fact, you are too pessimistic about yourself. Introversion and extroversion are like two sides of a coin. There is no difference between good and bad, only whether you have found a job that suits you.

What is introversion? In fact, it's just about your own experience, what you see, hear and feel, and whether you are willing to share it with others, not whether he talks much. Some people talk about their work, but they usually keep silent. In fact, he is an introverted person, but at the same time he is a very confident person-in his own professional field.

To be honest, I am a very introverted person. Because of my experience, I have many experiences of my own. I can't talk to you, but I like to hide them in my heart and bear them silently. People don't understand me and think I'm difficult to get along with. I also feel that others can't understand me, and I am becoming more and more withdrawn. I used to hate my personality and want to change it. So I read a lot of inspirational books and really did what I said above. I warmly greet everyone, sincerely care about others and face life positively. It was hard at first, but because of my perseverance, I persisted, and later found that my friends around me were really friendly to me. Everyone began to forgive me and care about each other. I can't tell everyone everything like he is my brother, but I can be the most competent listener when my friends need me most. I have more and more friends. However, it also made me make a mistake, thinking that I became extroverted until I went to a relative's house once:

Relatives said: I think your personality is different from your mother's. She is a very outgoing person.

I was very sad to hear that. I asked, am I an introvert? At that time, I felt that my long-term changes were completely ineffective and I really couldn't live.

Relatives replied: You are a quiet person, and I think our talk is very speculative! Nowadays, young people are impetuous, and there are few good children who are as considerate as you.

When I came back from my relatives' house, I thought a lot: in fact, there are more important things in life than caring about whether I am introverted or not. You need to devote unlimited energy to love the people you have, your family, your friends and your lover in a limited time, right? I also heard that most of the great salesmen and communication masters in the world are introverts, but they exude humility and they are the most attractive people. You don't have to put yourself in a template by other people's standards, you can try to do something more meaningful: live an active and loving life!