Marry material things. Tell me yourself.

In life, everyone will face many choices, from daily necessities to career, dream and future. Some of these choices are irrelevant, while others are related to our future destiny.

For most women, it seems to have become one of the important choices to decide their future life.

Then, there was a discussion about whether to marry love or material things.

@ Beibei, 2 1 year-old, college student.

Choose love, of course! Marriage is considered as the last appearance of love, which means that love is a positive result. Only a marriage that marries love is a real marriage.

I believe that a period of time when two people come together because of love will be full of warmth and happiness even if life is a little harder. Besides, in today's society, doing something is not impossible to survive, and survival is definitely not a problem.

If there is no love in marriage, what is the difference between it and sharing? This kind of life is not as good as living with friends, chatting together, speaking the same language and playing together, and it is much more interesting than boring life with someone you don't love.

02.

Women are emotional animals, and long-term lack of love will definitely cause psychological pressure and trouble. Most women who cheat or even divorce are caused by not getting the love they want in marriage.

Besides, those who choose materials may not have it for a long time.

@ Xiao Xia, 26 years old, female white-collar worker.

I used to think that a marriage with love was enough, but the longer I stepped into society, the heavier the pressure and burden on my shoulders. Therefore, when faced with a choice, I prefer to choose materials.

I am an only child. Although my parents have income at present, they are not rich. If something unexpected happens, there is no way to deal with it. Married life, education of future children, etc. , all need a lot of investment, love alone is not enough.

Besides, choosing materials will make life a lot easier and give us time and energy to cultivate the feelings of husband and wife. This choice does not mean giving up feelings. In life, there are many examples of choosing material at first and then harvesting love.

What's more, the so-called "but not as people who have been poor together know", even if two people love each other deeply, if they are overwhelmed by the triviality and burden of life all day, then love will wither sooner or later, and then there is really nothing.

03.

Even if you choose material things, you won't get emotional satisfaction in the end, but at least you can have the capital to continue living.

@ Nannan, 27 years old, small boss

The choice between marrying love and marrying material is actually not that important. The important thing is that we have the ability to love and live.

If we don't have the ability to love, then even if we marry love, we will eventually be shattered; If we don't have the ability to live, then what we have will only depreciate, and even these will become the root cause of marital imbalance.

And when we have the ability to love, we can have the soil of love even if it is not for love at first. I believe that love can be managed and needs to be managed. Similarly, as long as we have the ability to live, we can create our own quality life in the future.

Happiness in marriage, we should not think about getting married, we should control our own happiness, instead of giving our future to the other hand.

For marriage, both love and material things are very important, but when choosing a marriage partner, I won't worry about marrying love or material things, because I believe I have the ability to make my marriage full of love and my life full of quality.

04.

For marriage, whether to marry love or material things, the above three women gave three choices.

Among them, the last Nannan, I think, is the cleverest, because she holds the future happiness in her own hands, not pretending.

In life, when faced with the choice of marriage, many women often expect the other party to give them love and material things. However, there is a hidden danger in this concept of mate selection, and happiness will change because of the change of the other party.

Although Nannan's attitude towards mate selection needs more time and energy to improve himself, it is not only to gain a happy marriage, but also to write a wonderful life.

Today's topic: Three women give three answers, which one do you support?

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