It is difficult to balance family and career. Balancing oneself and the outside world is the key to success.

A few days ago, Mi Meng’s article about the impossibility of balancing family and career hit the screen. I admit this.

But Mi Meng said that you must choose the role you most want to be, or the role you most want to be at this stage, which means you have to give up and be able to afford it.

I don’t quite agree. In other words, this is the status quo, but it is not a good solution.

If you only choose family, can you really be happy? How many mothers can successfully return to the workplace after working full-time? Or, like the classic message from a netizen, you finally found a balance between the two, and finally you found out that your husband had cheated on you!

Perhaps, a better solution is not to struggle to balance family and career, nor to reluctantly part ways with family and career, but to achieve a balance between oneself and the outside world. Don't consider the difference between family and career, but seek the harmony between the inside and the outside.

Yes, I have seen happy stay-at-home mothers and calm workplace superwomen (of course there are fewer of them). Their most common characteristic is not balancing family and career, but balancing between self and the outside world.

A woman’s heart is between family and the world. Too much weight on either end is an imbalance. How to balance oneself and the outside world? Both full-time and part-time jobs are possible, but they are very difficult, and most mothers accidentally gravitate towards one end of the spectrum.

I met a beautiful stay-at-home mother. She was the legendary mother who ironed every shirt of her husband and made her children’s breakfast a different one every day. She used to enjoy this state of being at home very much. , but one day, the child suddenly asked her, Mom, why don't you work? She was heartbroken and determined to start doing something of her own, selling her favorite flavor as a child. I found a part-time job that I love very much, and found that I live a more fulfilling and confident life!

More and more mothers around us find that working part-time is the best way to achieve a balance between themselves and the outside world. In a recent survey we conducted, more than 90% of stay-at-home mothers hope to achieve part-time status.

What exactly is part-time work? I think there are three criteria.

With flexible working hours, parents don’t have to worry about picking up and dropping off their children from kindergarten every day. When the baby is sick, they don’t have to ask for leave from the boss with a smile on their face. They don’t have to choose between going on a business trip and spending time with their children. The time for doing things is not necessarily the same. Less work than working, but more flexible.

With a certain financial income, you can do a small but beautiful thing based on your own expertise, hobbies, and experience. You can not only obtain financial resources, but you don’t have to worry about one day. I don’t dare to dump my cheating husband because of money. The most important thing is to find a way to realize my own values ??and dreams.

High-quality companionship, no other education, love and example, being with the child every minute and taking care of his food, drink, and toilet are not the best companionship. Maybe one day, the child Will ask you, mom, why don't you work? We need to be better versions of ourselves and be role models for our children.

If the balance between family and career is the biggest lie, then the balance between self and the outside world is the best chicken soup. Every mom, especially stay-at-home moms, need this cup of chicken soup.

After two months of trial operation, the Light Her World platform has finally found the best way to light up the world of mothers, providing companionship and support for mothers to achieve half-time work.

The most basic thing about part-time work is to never stop learning, so we will launch "One step per month", where everyone in the community solves one problem every month;

The most important thing about part-time work is to find the path that suits you, so we will launch "Lighting Up Required Courses" so that you can truly see the direction of part-time work that suits you;

Note: We are not Give you a path, and then brainwash you to rely on it to achieve half-time job. What we do is give you the tools and you choose a path. And we won’t just deliver the tools and leave them alone, we’ll be with you until you reach half-time.

The most important thing about part-time work is to get the opportunity to work part-time. Therefore, we have joined forces with many platforms and organizations to try our best to provide mothers with part-time opportunities and provide everyone with the resources needed to achieve part-time work. ;

The most sustainable thing about part-time work is to have the power of peers. Therefore, we will use offline growth groups, mothers’ private board meetings, etc. to help mothers be independent and not go alone;

Part time, the most fundamental thing is to accompany your children with high quality and take care of your family. Therefore, we will provide parent-child courses from time to time and organize super fun offline parent-child activities.

This is what we will do in the future. Are you a part-time mother? Do you want to be a part-time stay-at-home mom? Are you a working mother who wants to work part-time? Welcome to follow and join us!