How to deal with difficult people

How to deal with difficult people

1. What kind of person is difficult

* Old-fashioned and stubborn, refusing to accept any different opinions

* Selfish, even if he knows that his actions will cause harm to others, he is still strong, rude and cruel.

* Ask for attention and keep asking for help. Stealing other people's time and attention, focusing only on your own problems, forgetting that others also have their own lives. (There are too many people like this)

* People who are spoilers always discourage the efforts of others to laugh at them.

* Pessimistic people

* Lack of self-confidence and always self-righteously guessing the needs of others.

2. Why are some people so difficult to deal with?

* Because many times, their actions can help them get what they want.

* Difficult behavior can make others more cautious when dealing with them, so that others will not point out their problems and reject them less often.

3. How to get along with difficult people?

* Don’t pay too much attention to the occasional small friction.

* If you just dislike the other person, but the other person does not affect you, this is your problem, not his.

* When someone seeking attention and love tries to dump on you, draw a clear line with them to avoid being brainwashed.

* Tell the other person how you feel when the time is right. When you choose to face a problem, don't run away and face the consequences of your choices.

* Appropriate compromise

* Take care of yourself and stay calm before any potential conflict breaks out.

* When you feel that you cannot cope alone, seek help from others.

4. When you encounter a pessimist who keeps chattering and you can't get away

* After listening to what they say, just say: "I already understand what you mean." Other than that, don't make any comments, don't comment, don't comment, don't comment.

* Don’t be a “problem solver” as this will make the other person enjoy talking about negative topics with you and indulge in self-pitying victim role-playing. Help from others will only be useful if the pessimist himself is willing to really step out.

* If the pessimist has a close relationship with you, you can try to ask them under what circumstances they will feel satisfied, and guide them to understand that they also have the right to choose. ----The prerequisite is that the pessimist is willing to accept help and change, otherwise no amount of persuasion will be of any use.