How annoying are the seven aunts and eight aunts in the countryside?

Sometimes seven aunts and eight aunts don't necessarily refer to relatives, but also to neighbors, especially the kind of aunts who come to your house to tell you what to do when they have nothing to do. In fact, as far as I am concerned, distant relatives rarely ask personal questions, and close relatives are not that big-mouthed. Their problems are really concerned. But when someone really asks some questions that they don't want to answer, they can choose to smile awkwardly or perfunctory, which is generally more interesting.

When discussing this problem, my first thought is my childhood. It may be difficult for you to feel the kind of grovelling that your parents scold you, and your aunt is there to help you. But there is no resistance at all, and you can't even talk back, otherwise your parents may fight harder. I was a risk-averse, and my mouth often hit the nail on the head. My mother beat me with a whip. . . Most rural people think that sticks make filial sons. It doesn't really exist. I only believe in the exemplary role of parents.

As adults, aunts generally show due respect, and the topic of discussion has changed from embarrassing things to various problems in life. As the saying goes, this is called "which pot does not open." Whether the university failed, single dog's troubles, the unbearable burden of the RV, the high salary, the smooth work, and none of the troubles in life can escape their eyes-these are the problems they encountered in the past year. It's hard to determine the psychological reason for thinking of making things difficult for us with these questions. Perhaps it is because people's life is not smooth, so they have more confidence in their own life. The way to deal with it is still very simple. Fight poison with poison. A rhetorical question is really a good answer. But I think, if you manage your own life well, can't you borrow your aunt's mouth to pretend?

Therefore, whether they are annoying or not depends on your living conditions. Every family has a hard time, try to be considerate of each other.