Ask for help. I live in my sister's house every holiday, but my sister always talks about me. She talked about me in trivial times. I want to get rid of her and scold me when I talk to him.

Ha. Little sister, I understand how you feel. I used to feel the same way. I don't know how to help you and make you happy. How's this? Let's discuss the principles of how to deal with the relationship with family. If you don't object to my principle, then we can reach an agreement, ok: 1 Think about it carefully, my family actually wants to be good for me, although the way is not acceptable, or the way is rough, or not very human. Then ask yourself in turn, are we careless and casual, and are we imperfect? If so, then we should love our families more, be more tolerant and understand them more. Family members are rude and unfriendly. We will learn from them in the future, and we will not be rude and careful in the future, so as not to let them be hurt by their loved ones like us. 2. Think it over. Who in this world has been giving us food, clothing, housing and transportation and selfless help? They are friends, classmates, no, family! If we keep asking our friends and classmates for food, clothes, help and so on. They certainly won't do it. Then, we both have to admit that relatives and family members are the best and most selfless people in the world, so we have to repay them, okay? People's thoughts, experiences, experiences and moods can't always be the same. Actually, it's just the opposite. Almost every moment is different, including family. Is this good? When we face our relatives, we should accept their advice and suggestions with an open mind, try our best to follow their requirements, and at the same time make appropriate reservations in our hearts, so as to respect them and ourselves.