My son is getting married in the countryside. Does my daughter need help buying a house and a car?

Not necessarily. A son's marriage is a matter for his son and his parents. Of course, a daughter can help buy a car and a house if she has money, but that's voluntary.

I really regard my daughter as a cash cow. She has a big family to live. If you can't help as a parent, stop it. If you are afraid of your precious son being single, sell the house, let your son get married smartly, and see if he can take care of you wholeheartedly in the future.

I really don't know what parents think. They have held a wedding for him and helped him take care of the children. They still have to take care of him for life.

My brother is doing business. My mother asked me to give my brother the property certificate for a loan. I didn't agree. My mother said I wouldn't go home until my brother got a property certificate. I used to go home at least once or twice a month, and my mother told me not to go home because I didn't give my brother a property certificate. I haven't been home for three or four months, and I haven't called my mother. Later, my brother picked me up at home after the Spring Festival, saying that my mother asked him to pick me up. It's over to borrow the title certificate.

Personally, I think I can't help, and I can't help myself. Even if you turn your face, you won't borrow money to help, let alone borrow money to help. After all, you have your own family. You always put your small family first and then help others.

You don't have to help, it depends on your living conditions.

No legal obligation.

Don't spoil your parents' mistakes. If your parents ask for it, they will never agree. This is a typical preference for boys over girls. By doing so, they are undoubtedly forcing their daughter to divorce. Girl, live your life. Parents can be filial, but not ignorant. This will affect the relationship between husband and wife and spoil your brother.

In fact, there are many such phenomena around us. There are more than two children at home, especially the eldest sister. Of course, their parents gave them the responsibility to take care of their younger brothers and sisters.

Helping younger brothers and sisters in rural areas has nothing to do with whether they are younger brothers or not. Even my sister should give financial help.

This sounds particularly unfair, but most sisters with younger brothers and sisters will provide financial assistance to their younger brothers and sisters to varying degrees. Although they know it's abnormal, they can't really ignore it.

Generally speaking, when parents are old and have no time and money to take care of their young children, it is natural to find an adult eldest daughter.

There is a saying on the Internet that women are most afraid of meeting Ma Baonan when looking for men, and men are most afraid of meeting helpers when marrying women. Such reappearance often appears in film and television dramas, from Fan in Ode to Joy to Fang in Anjia, which are typical representatives of helping my younger brother.

However, TV plays do contain exaggerated elements. When I was in college, I had two roommates. One was my sister at home. He had a younger brother 15 years younger than him, and the other was my sister. She had a older sister 10 years older than her.

When my sister's roommate went to college that year, she had already started to earn her own tuition and living expenses. It's not that her family has no money, but her father thinks she can make money by herself, so he hardly gave her any financial help during college.

I remember that she was very helpless and told us that she would take care of her brother's wife and children in the future. We all said she wouldn't care, but she said it was impossible. When my brother became an adult, his parents were too old to buy it for him. If she really has the financial strength, she will definitely help.

Another girl, she has a sister 10 years older than her. Her family conditions are very average. Her sister went out to work early, which is considered as a good income. During her college years, all expenses were paid by her sister, including tuition, mobile phone, computer, living expenses, and she would take her sister to travel during the winter and summer vacations.

We all envy her having such a sister, but in fact, from another angle, her sister also has her own small family and children. Why should my sister bear the cost of raising my sister to go to college?

1. Grasp the degree.

If you have the financial ability, help your younger brothers and sisters appropriately, but as for getting married and buying a house in the future, you should be cautious. If you have no ability, you must not be swollen. Even if you agree, let your brothers and sisters write an iou to make it clear that they have a degree to pay.

2. Give birth to a second child carefully.

In fact, the most fundamental reason for this phenomenon is that parents don't think clearly when they want a second or more children. Raising children is not only about life, but also about us. It takes time, energy and money to raise children.

There is no such custom in my village, so it is customary to let my daughter take care of it. Since I can have a son, that son must do his best to marry a wife.

My son is getting married in the countryside. Does my daughter need help buying a car and a house?

A: No. Filial piety is appropriate, but it is the most wrong way to subsidize parents and families in large quantities. .

This question is uncertain. If the daughter has the ability, she can help her brother if she can. The so-called rich, strong output.

If the daughter is not financially strong enough, she can't be forced to give money to help her brother, which is unfair to her. Children are her own flesh and blood, and parents have the obligation to support her when she is old. If you are too harsh on your daughter, you may be pushed farther and farther, leaving your son around. If she is not filial to you, your old age will be miserable.