What is the experience of girls shaving their heads?

Monks shave their heads and convert to Buddhism, which is called "six clean, divorced from the secular."

Some female stars also shave their heads for work or personality reasons, which is quite understandable, but what are ordinary girls thinking about shaving their heads?

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Not long ago, my friend suddenly sent me a message, "What kind of experience do you have when a girl shaves her head?"

I'm thinking: what kind of experience is it? There are only four words in my mind: "Smile with tears".

It took me less than a week from the idea of "wanting to shave my head" to becoming bald. There may be impulsive factors in it, but before I went to shave my head, I learned that several boys had shaved their heads, and their experiences didn't look so difficult. Well, as a girl, so can I.

To tell the truth, I really haven't calculated how long it will take to shave my head once and grow it into a refreshing short hair. Will it catch up with next summer and be regarded as an alternative by people around me? My mind is full of "cutting my hair." I didn't even buy a wig in advance. I just went to the jewelry store and bought two hats.

When I took the hat, I reconsidered. Do I really want to shave it off? I think, shave it. I bought all the hats.

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At that time, I had just finished my sophomore year and was not in a hurry to find a job. After the fourth grade exam, my academic workload decreased slightly. Anyway, I don't have a boyfriend. Beauty and ugliness don't matter.

I didn't tell anyone about this idea beforehand. At that time, I was sorting out teaching AIDS, and the summer camp had just started to register. Before going to the barber shop, I secretly told other teaching assistants that I was going to get a haircut. I stood at the intersection of Dujiangyan Farm. In the heartbreaking summer afternoon sunshine, I didn't even take the last selfie for my long hair.

That day, it was the seventh day of the seventh lunar month, Tanabata Valentine's Day, 20 16.

Randomly choose a barber shop along the town.

After entering the door, my aunt asked me whether to cut my hair or dye it. I whispered: shave it.

Aunt asked, "What?"

I raised the decibel slightly and said, "Just shave all my hair."

Aunt said: "girls should be cheerful, and it's no big deal to be lovelorn." Don't do this to yourself, girl. "

I smiled, and now I feel that smile seems to be to resolve my nervousness and embarrassment. I said I just wanted to shave myself. I wasn't sick or in love.

Menstruation asked me again with a grain of salt: "Have you thought it over? Do you keep the shaved hair or throw it away? "

I said, "Just leave a small wisp."

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I don't know if it is because the mirror in the consumer place itself has a demagogic effect. I think I look good with long hair in front of me. When the hair pusher buzzed, my aunt said, "Start shaving. If you don't want to shave, just let me know and I'll stop right away. "

Suddenly, I felt a burst of sadness, and I almost cried. I almost said the word "stop" … but I didn't.

Aunt blows very slowly. After five to ten minutes, she shaved half from bottom to top. "It's not too late to go back on our word. The hair above blocked the hair below ... "Aunt paused for a few seconds. "Are you sure you want to continue? It's too late to regret it, girl ... "

"I said aunt, you continue to shave, don't ask." In fact, the idea of giving up in my heart is getting stronger and stronger, and I can only urge menstruation to speed up.

I kept my eyes open during shaving and watched my hair fall to the ground one by one. I thought sadly, this is my long hair for three or four years.

Then my aunt helped me pick up a strand of hair and tie it into a ponytail and put it in my hand and said, "It's a good thing your head looks good." Shaving your head will look good. "

Later, when I returned to the farm, my friends and teachers said the same thing, touching and talking. I looked down and let the palms of men and women rub my bald head. At that moment, I didn't know whether to be happy or sad.

04

Now many friends know that I shaved my head and sent me a WeChat, saying that I admire me, have personality and courage.

Actually, there's nothing wrong with me. I just had the idea of "I want to shave my head" and then I did it. Can't there be a girl in the world who wants to shave her head? But people just want to believe what they want to believe, or this kind of "girl" is an alternative.

05

Of course, apart from the unhappiness caused by misunderstanding, the space and circle of friends I posted at that time made me famous in the high school class circle of the whole class and my roommates. Later, I went to the market, and my friend took some photos for me, which were one of the few precious photos during my baldness. I wanted to take a photo of my bald head in the past, but I was poor and lazy, and finally I had to give up.

Later, because I didn't want to be questioned, I often wore a hat to class, but when I went downstairs to the dormitory or went downstairs to fetch water, my classmates would still look askance.

In fact, I think I look really good when I am bald, but the process from baldness to short hair being dyed purple is extremely painful.

At first, I grew some stubble, and then I grew into a stubble. That's my favorite stage. I am very happy to wash my hair and touch my hair roots back and forth every morning. After an inch, the hair becomes like a small animal that has just been cut; After that, he grew into a normal boy and was a little beautiful for a while; Later, he became a non-mainstream male student who didn't want to get a haircut and had long sideburns in junior and senior high schools. For a whole year, bangs have finally grown and can be combed again.

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How much influence does shaving your head have on people around you? In Friends, Ross's new girlfriend shaved her head at Rachel's instigation, and everyone thought it was ugly, which directly led her boyfriend to break up with Ross.

For the first time in more than 20 years, shaving my head made my parents who had never been worried about me so angry that they didn't want to talk to me. Grandma told me directly, "She wants to die for me." Knowing that I had five pierced ears, their reaction was very dull, but I didn't expect shaving my head to be more lethal to my parents than having five pierced ears.

My friends generally have two attitudes. Most girls think I am handsome and brave, while boys usually just smile at me without much malice.

Looking back on the days when I waited for my hair to grow, it was probably the ugliest and most difficult day of my adult life. If I have learned anything from shaving my head, I should really understand that there is nothing in this world that looks chic and does chic.

The so-called "whatever you want" or "cool" has a price. If you decide to do something, or you do it without thinking, you have to bear the foreseeable or unforeseeable consequences. I don't usually tell others how cool it is to shave my head, because for myself, the long process of storing hair is impossible every day.

When people ask me about it, I never feel that I deserve their envy or admiration. I shared many experiences, including being responsible for my own decisions. You should have the courage to be yourself, but you should also consider the feelings of people around you.

More importantly, we must endure the pain of breaking a cocoon into a butterfly in order to bear the beauty of soaring.

[Huai Zuo's third writing training camp]