Before getting married, my mother asked for 200 thousand bride price, but my classmates said it would be less. Is the bride price important?

Although true love is invincible, fireworks life also needs milk and bread. But unlike those who know it, it was very difficult to be poor together and have no money. Times have changed, and marriage without bride price always feels a little regrettable. This mother wants a bride price of 200,000 yuan, which is understandable. Because this money is also for my daughter, it is just a good wish of a mother to think more or less. Regarding the bride price money, my opinion is that the bride price money should not hurt the harmony between the two families, let alone affect the feelings of the two young people. So the bride price should be more or less, depending on the economic situation of the man's family. ?

1, the bride price is neither too much nor too little, only care about the husband's family's heart?

China is a traditional big country, and everyone wants to see the bride price of her husband's family when they get married. The amount of bride price directly reflects whether the husband's family has strong financial resources. My mother-in-law has a mine, and the bride price is very generous, and my in-laws are also generous. I thank her parents for training such an excellent daughter-in-law. This is a token of gratitude from my in-laws, but I am grateful to her parents. ?

2, the number of bride price, we must do what we can, don't force others to do it?

Throughout the ages, marriage, three media, and six engagements are all meaningful. The amount of bride price is a matter of face for her husband's family and her family. As an elder, I care about this. However, although polite, we should do what we can. It is undoubtedly embarrassing for the woman to insist on how much bride price the man's family economic conditions do not allow. Forcing others to do what they can will only lay hidden dangers for the woman's future family life. Therefore, for the happiness of the young couple's future life, the bride price should also be settled through consultation. ?

I will be a mother-in-law in the future, and there are no hard and fast rules for my daughter's bride price. My wife agrees with me. As long as the daughter likes it, do it according to her idea. Because the bride price only represents superficial things, I pay more attention to long-term things. At that time, my lover and I were married naked and still lived happily. I met the right person, even if there is no bride price.