I want to ask my husband's feeling that he is a little dissatisfied with his mother's family after marriage For example, if she has a relationship with her husband, she will feel that she is in troubl

I want to ask my husband's feeling that he is a little dissatisfied with his mother's family after marriage For example, if she has a relationship with her husband, she will feel that she is in trouble. From the attitude of your in-laws, you can fully understand why your husband is like this, which is the result of his parents' education. If you want to grow old with your husband, you'd better not take it too seriously. Sometimes you should put yourself in the position of your in-laws. They are too old to travel far. Maybe they think it's enough for you to give them a red envelope. Why travel by boat? It's not enough to go, is it? Even if they don't have a red envelope, you should learn to be a man and put in a good word for your in-laws in front of your parents. This is to give your husband face! Otherwise, your parents will be more and more dissatisfied with your uncle. Don't think that it's nothing to speak ill of your husband in front of your parents, which will only form a vicious circle and worsen the relationship between your husband and your parents. Finally, your parents will complain that you always go home and complain. No one is perfect. As long as your husband is nice to you, don't let him hate you in the future. No matter how bad his parents are, they don't want outsiders to say anything, not to mention that you are his favorite woman. In the final analysis, your in-laws may have been educated like this since childhood, and you can only blame their parents. After all, they brought up your husband. Learn to respect them. Even if you say something unpleasant, you should accept it with an open mind, but your attitude must be good. Don't forget to make them angry, but need your partner to serve them. Don't lose big because of small! I just read an article that if you want to be a good housewife, you must learn to act, that is, your mother-in-law scolds you and praises her mother-in-law with a smile in front of her husband. Her husband will certainly turn to her when he sees that her mother is unkind to her wife! On the other hand, I always say that my mother-in-law is not good, and my husband will feel bad for you. Who told you to always speak ill of others? Have you thought about it yourself?