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"Crocodile principle" teaches women that sometimes accepting fate can make us live more freely. what do you think?
It means: suppose a crocodile bites your foot. If you try to get rid of your foot with your hand, the crocodile will bite your foot and hand at the same time. The more you struggle, the more you get bitten. So, in case a crocodile bites your foot, our only way is to sacrifice one foot, which is a bit like tiger anger.
In the stock market, there are wise investors who will act decisively when they find that buying and selling is against the market direction, so as not to form more serious results. In life, when we make a mistake, we should not dwell on the mistake itself, but try to make up for it quickly to prevent it from getting worse.
The wise man said, "The two evils are balanced to take the lighter, and the two benefits are weighted to take the heavier." Pursuing advantages and avoiding disadvantages is the essence of giving up, and it is also the law we should learn. Therefore, "Crocodile Law" applies to economy, life and women, especially married women.
The core of this law is actually to teach us to give up what we should and must give up. "Resign" means "accept", because only in this way can we work more freely and consciously!
Light dance resigned himself. Just a year ago, she was the housewife who struggled with her fate. She denied that her unfortunate experience was a pearl. Oh, that's for sure. She has been fighting against fate.
But when she refused to accept my fate and refused to let me move on, which made her very uneasy, she realized that some things could not be decided simply by personal initiative.
Sometimes resignation is not negative, but we understand that our life is related to many things besides ourselves, such as origin, choice, period, environment and so on. This wisdom of knowing what can and can't be done has given light dance a new life.
This matter should start with the light dance marriage. Among the people I love and those who love me, Qingwu chose the one I love. Although she knows that the other person can bear most of me because she is moved, she still hopes that she will change the status quo and change the relationship between husband and wife.
However, it is difficult to change yourself, let alone change others. After marriage, Qingwu began to ask her husband to care for and protect her severely, from pulling a chair while eating to greeting her parents every day. Light dancing requires her husband to be elegant.
A person who loves you can't do this, let alone a person who doesn't love you so much. This tug-of-war between husband and wife didn't make light dance have the joy of victory. From the beginning, he was full of confidence. In recent years, Qingwu lost his friends around him, and then lost his proud job.
Because she spent all her time on the so-called "education" of her husband, she often complained to people around her about the unfair fate and how miserable she was, and "worked" everyone around her like Sister Xianglin.
Occasionally, one day, she listened to my father's "crocodile law". It suddenly occurred to her that I was the one who was bitten by the crocodile. She struggled from time to time, unwilling to give up, and even more unwilling to give up her husband and life, so she was constantly suffering. The light dance that thought of this suddenly let go.
She seems to be cruel enough to cut off my demands on her husband, no longer want to have so much, resigned to fate, let nature take its course, shifted her mind and began to think about my future life. After half a year, she found that my life had changed greatly. She has her own job and her own circle of friends, and the relationship between husband and wife that once made her panic has also been balanced.
I didn't take a chair for dinner, I didn't take money after the project was completed, and I didn't rub my stomach during my period. All these light dances don't care. I didn't care after that, as if it didn't matter.
Don't get into trouble when we can't change one thing with all our strength. Sometimes it is more comfortable to change your mind than to fight against fate.
After Xin Wei realized this problem, his life changed greatly. Xin Wei is a woman who pays great attention to her family. Her inherent ideas kept spinning in her mind. Once she gets married, she can't divorce. Therefore, when she feels that she has suffered from the misfortune of marriage, the first thing that comes to mind is how to mediate.
To tell the truth, this idea is actually very correct. When we encounter a problem or a thing, our first reaction is definitely to deal with it. For her husband, who will never grow up, Xin Wei has adopted the practice of infinite preaching and tolerance. She never bothers her husband as long as she can do it herself.
In the face of her mother-in-law's unreasonable encouragement, Xin Wei is also obedient and does not reason with this family. However, Xin Wei didn't get the treatment she deserved because of this accommodation and dedication, until something happened, when her husband cheated. Like most women, in the face of her husband's infidelity, Xin Wei should not only be indignant, but also consider whether to forgive.
If you forgive, it means that you will continue to tolerate your husband's mistakes and the misfortune of your marriage, but it also has the advantage that your marriage can continue to be intact.
If you don't forgive, it means that Xin Wei will be stronger from now on, and she will try to integrate into her new job and shoulder the burden of raising children! She doesn't want to accept her fate and wants to struggle in her marriage again. She doesn't believe that I can only meet this love rat, and she hopes or expects her husband to change because of my forgiveness. But when she tried to fight against the status quo, she found that this subgrade was not feasible.
So, she resolutely gave up her fearless struggle! She really bowed to fate, leaving this home is her greatest frustration to fate!
Fortunately, after giving up with fate, her life did not get worse, but developed in a good direction.
I have read a sentence: "No matter what we are experiencing now, no matter what we will encounter in the future, we must admit the existence of bad situations and bear it." As long as you endure it, you can talk about how to face it next! "
"Roll with the punches" is not to admit defeat, but to face it in another way. Of course, resigning properly is actually my greatest responsibility! So those who compete with me, try to accept their fate and give me an exit!
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