When visiting relatives during the Chinese New Year, what should you pay attention to when speaking?

Every new year and festival, men, women and children cannot avoid visiting relatives. Communicating with people is a skill, so when visiting relatives during the Chinese New Year, what should you pay attention to when speaking at other people's homes?

First of all, be polite. ?Happy New Year?, ?Happy New Year?, ?Wish you all the best in the new year? and other blessings. In addition, be sure to speak politely. Pay attention to how you address your elders, but how you address your juniors is equally important. If you speak politely, you will leave a very good impression on the elders, and then the new year's money will be indispensable.

Secondly, pay attention to the propriety of your speech. For example, some children hate being asked about their grades, so they must avoid asking about their grades and avoid leaving a bad impression on the children. Secondly, if there are elderly people, don’t ask about their age. Elderly people are most taboo about people asking their age, because it is disrespectful to them, and they will naturally hate you.

Also, pay attention to your intonation when speaking. When elders ask questions, be careful to reply in a cheerful tone and don't show impatience. When juniors ask questions, be careful to speak in a gentle tone. At the same time, even if you are happy, don’t laugh out of proportion, and don’t show it on your face if you are unhappy. After all, visiting relatives only happens once a year during the New Year.

Finally, pay attention to avoiding the important and taking the easy when speaking. When you encounter a question that you don't want to answer, don't just remain silent. Instead, choose not to answer in another way, such as changing the topic, or taking the initiative to find something to do. And if you talk about a topic that others don't want to hear, just smile to show that you heard it, and don't continue to talk, which is annoying.

Speaking is a science, and learning the ability to speak well will benefit you throughout your life. Therefore, you must pay attention to the propriety of your speech and learn more. You can do this by watching some videos, books or articles. Being able to speak is a sign of high emotional intelligence. I hope that all of you in front of the screen can learn the skill of speaking!