I hate my dad

From this point of view, your dad’s behavior is definitely wrong, but remember, he is your dad no matter what. Even if you are reluctant, please take a little time and try to understand him. It seems like your dad is having trouble with his career, but he is actually quite similar to my dad. You and I are about the same age. Because my dad was not going well in his career, he would go crazy every time he got drunk. At first I was disgusted and kept arguing with him, and in the end I refused to let anyone go, but then I tried to understand him. I wrote a letter telling him my true feelings for him, my understanding of him, my love for him, and encouraged him to rebuild his confidence. Later, my dad became much more normal.

Parents are always the ones who love us the most

Try another approach, you may have unexpected results

Also, let me add that my dad He also always said that I am not as cute as before. He said that when I was a child, I was very obedient and would do whatever I was told. However, he did not expect that I have grown up and have my own independent thoughts. Adults may not be able to face reality sometimes~