In love, would you choose an avoidant boyfriend?

Falling in love with avoidant attachment usually doesn't have a good result. After meeting their own needs, they will dump you mercilessly. Compared with safe attachment personality and anxious attachment personality, avoidant attachment personality is characterized by indifference to feelings. This is what they are born with. To put it mildly, they are rational and will not be indecisive about their feelings. But if you fall in love with this kind of person, you should basically be prepared in your heart. See if you can accept the advantages and disadvantages of such a person.

Avoidant attachment personality is two kinds of love personality I created. Specifically, people who show avoidant attachment in love feelings are called: merchant love personality and wine-meat love personality. I will post this character in detail at the back of the article. If you are interested, you can have a detailed look at the series of eight personality types I have summarized. Here I mainly talk about the ending of falling in love with these two personalities. Of course, these two love personalities are grounded in names. You can think about what they are like. First of all, talk about love rat's love personality: the love personality of a fair-weather lover. If you fall in love with such a person, it usually ends badly. Such people will dump you mercilessly after meeting their own needs, or treat you as a spare tire without any feelings. But the experience of falling in love with them is very good, and they are good at playing.

People often say that green tea, Neptune and love rat are basically such love personalities. They are naturally indifferent to feelings, so they will not be bound by any feelings when they break up, and they will not be sad at all, and will soon enter the next love. This momo is the momo that gives you the creeps. After breaking up, you became a stranger in an instant. Even they will hang you on purpose and drain your surplus value. For example, I consulted a boy who was hung by green tea for a year and a half. Girls have a famous saying: give him a chance to save her, and then keep asking boys to pay for her. In more than a year, I sent nearly 300,000 gifts. Then there are hundreds of thousands of money. Finally, when the boy was overwhelmed and returned home with a full load, the girls treated him very badly. It was not until the boy found me and I put the evidence in front of him that he questioned the girl.

Girls are also very simple, knowing that he is of no use value, and directly adding ugly words to him. Call him a toad who wants to eat swan meat, and say with a smile that I still have a few if you are so poor. For another example, I consulted a girl who was hanged by love rat. I saved it for a year, and every time I have sexual needs, I give her some hope to let this woman vent her sexual desire. Causing the woman to miscarry, the girl begged me to save him. The man also forced her to work in a nightclub to subsidize him. Later, after she finished the abortion, the man saw that she was weak and wanted to sleep with her and asked her to help him. This is when girls really wake up. It took me two whole months to heal her psychological trauma.