What is the law of pushing more slowly?

The more you push it, the slower it is, which is called "overrun effect" in psychology. It means that when a stimulus lasts too long or too many times, it will have the opposite effect.

For example, children are curious about everything, and the hippocampus responsible for memory in the brain frequently sends out "remember" instructions, thus feeling that time passes slowly. Unlike adults, children only feel "now" about time. This can also explain why you said you would be late in half an hour, but the children were unmoved and were still slow to do things.

Improve children's skills of pushing more slowly;

1, help the baby know the time.

For children, time is a very abstract and difficult concept to understand. This requires parents to help their children know and understand time. We can spend more time talking with Eva. For example: "it's 8 o'clock, it's time for the baby to go to bed!" " You can also make a small clock that belongs to your baby, mark the content of daily activities, and help your child see the time intuitively.

2. Let the baby arrange his own time.

When children have established a preliminary understanding of time, parents can help their babies to make their own schedules in the form of pie charts and block charts or lists, and arrange their own games and study time. Of course, at the beginning, children need our help to decide the priorities and priorities.

3. Teach children to break down tasks.

In procrastination psychology, the author provides an improved method. Break down your goals into short and specific goals. In my opinion, this method is also suitable for children. Breaking down big tasks into small goals is not only easy for children to understand, but also easier to achieve. And a small success will become the motivation for children to continue to complete the timetable.