Parents in China, it's hard to understand this matter of dropping out of college?

I think so, too. Parents in China want their children to graduate from college and find a good job. This is their greatest expectation for their children. There are three possibilities for college students to drop out of school: one is to start a business, the other is to increase their knowledge, and the third is to get married and have children. In any case, China's parents can't understand the fact that they have dropped out of college.

Drop out of school and start a business. Most parents think that it is not worthwhile for their children to leave school to start a business after three years of hard study in high school. What should they do if they fail? Although we already have examples of Bill Gates and Zuckerberg's successful entrepreneurship in universities, these successful entrepreneurs are in the minority for China's parents. Even if you want to start a business, it should be after graduating from college. It seems that giving up school to start a business is putting the cart before the horse.

Employers in China value a college degree more. No matter how good your ability is, many units will not recruit you without a college diploma. China's parents think that if they go back to school after failing to start a business, they will be much later at work than their peers. So China's parents can't understand this matter of dropping out of college.

Get knowledge and drop out of school. For some college students, dropping out of school is to increase their knowledge and find their own value in tourism. For this purpose, I think most parents in China will not understand. They will think it's a waste of time. Universities should study hard and acquire more knowledge, which is something they will have time after graduation.

Although college students in many countries now choose to take a break from school before graduation to travel and gain knowledge, this kind of thing is rare in our country after all. Many parents in China think that doing so is doing nothing. In the eyes of China's parents, traveling is a matter of money and time. If they give up college studies and travel, they certainly don't understand.

Another situation is to get married and have children and drop out of school. Some students continue to go to school after dropping out of school, getting married and having children. Although this situation is rare, it does exist. For these groups, parents in China can accept them, but not much. They are young and immature and have no financial resources. What should I do if there are emotional problems after I get married and have children?

Now we can see from the Internet that many students attend the graduation ceremony with their children in their arms when they graduate, which shows that our parents in China can't understand this, but they won't stop it by force. In their traditional cognition, getting married and having children is a very big thing. Now that you are in love, it is ok to have children. After all, grandparents account for a large part of the parenting team in China.

Regardless of whether parents understand or not, they should respect their choices. I believe that they dropped out of school after careful consideration.