What if my mother always likes to scold me?

There is a cold in the world that makes your mother think you will be cold. If this question were an expert, he would definitely say that he should sit down and have a good communication with his mother and then reflect on why he was scolded by his mother. Personally, I think the experts are right, but the object of communication is not necessarily the mother herself. You should pay attention to who your mother listens to most at home or at home, and you can find him to deal with it. But the most important thing is to have a correct attitude. Parents will not always take it out on their children. Unless it's a stepmother, it's hard to say

I grew up without a mother, and I think you are very happy! Many parents call it love! Because you made a mistake, they may be too grumpy at that time, but they hope you won't make a mistake again and don't do that again! When I was a child, I didn't understand. The older I get now, the more I feel it's good to have a mother. If I get married and have grievances, I can still go to my mother for fun, but it's impossible! Cherish your mother and love your mother! Even if their methods are wrong sometimes, their initial intentions will not be bad!

Mom always scolds you!

You will always remember the way your mother scolded you. Do you ever remember:

When I was hungry, my mother didn't bother to feed you first;

The way your mother covers you at night;

The way my mother cried with you outside the kindergarten;

If you don't do well in the exam, you won't worry about your mother;

The score has improved, and mom is still happy to love you;

When the little girl came home from school, it was dark and her mother stood under the street lamp. ...

Cherish the days when you have a mother, and one day you will understand.

I remember watching a child, but I forgot whether it was a video or something. His mother was confused and kept hitting him, but he wouldn't leave. Asked why he did not leave, he said that if he left, he would lose his mother. Beat him and scold him. At least he has a mother.

Cherish, someone answers when calling mom. I don't know how many people envy this.

Mom scolded you, don't take it to heart, go up and hug her, she lied to you in the last life, please coax your mother in the next life!

Many brothers and sisters in my family are married. My mother didn't care about me at that time, because my family had many brothers and sisters. When I divorced, my mother thought I was a baby because I had no woman. My mother talked to me warmly. My brothers all have wives, so my mother seldom talks to them. My mother often scolds me and hurts me very much. My mother washed my clothes, and now my mother is gone. I can argue with her about my daily life. My wife walked away from my mother, and no one scolded me anymore. It's wrong to go home for the New Year, and it's wrong not to go back. I can only see a few brick houses when I go home. In fact, my mother was really happy when she scolded me.

Everything happens for a reason. What do you mean by scolding you? This is just a joke. Scold it seriously and find out why. I was scolded by my mother from an early age until I became a parent and my child grew up. Unconsciously, I began to scold the children, [covering my face], which is estimated to be even worse when I am older. As children, we are smarter than experienced. As parents, we have experience but ignore children's intelligence. More parents have broken their hearts for their children. When they are young, they are worried about getting hurt. When you get older, you worry about marriage, middle-aged career and health of the elderly. As young people who have just entered the society, they should share their worries for their parents and make these so-called worries more reassuring. Some people really want their parents to abuse and nag for a lifetime, but unfortunately there is no chance! ! Really, the tree wants to be quiet and the wind will not stop, and the son wants to raise and the relatives are not there. Cherish it.

I don't think it's a nuisance yet. It's normal to be criticized!

I am always criticized by my mother. She said, "I'm just a child. Who am I going to scold if I don't scold you? " ! "Although we hate being treated as a trash can for parents' emotions, having such parents is also a kind of life, and we have to suffer!

Being scolded may be that you did something wrong, but more often it is the abuse of family rights. Be a good person. I'm talking about reason You talk back, you are the villain. This has nothing to do with their external performance. They may be polite, modest and easy-going in front of outsiders, and they will be down a peg or two at home! You can also look like a strongman outside because of your straightforward personality and tough means, and naturally follow the consistent style for children.

"Menopause" is even worse, with poor health and a bad mood. If it's a little annoying to them, wait for a fierce criticism! Find out the cause of your mother's explosion and try to avoid accident-prone places.

Many people want to improve the parent-child relationship. When they read teacher Wu Zhihong's article, the tiger nodded with tears and forwarded it to his parents, hoping that they would realize that they were "wrong" and be gentle with themselves, and the result was another scolding.

"What are you trying to say?"

Parents may realize that they are wrong, but they just bite their faces, or think that such a small problem will be magnified, but they don't know how much psychological harm they have caused their children.

I have tried many times to communicate in a reasonable way.

Failure.

There is a saying "Don't reason with a woman in love". Let me change it. Don't reason with an angry mother.

The circle of elders has their values. Even if you break up with them a little now, you will eventually get back to where you were. You don't have to argue with her about right and wrong. All you have to do is make yourself happy, live a good life, let her watch you live a good life, can't pick out big problems, and then go your own way ~

Since mom's criticism is always inevitable, there are some skills to accept such criticism.

This topic is very interesting. I really want to answer you from my mother's point of view. Unfortunately, I have to switch places. Generally speaking, fathers are more tolerant of their children. Being a mother is another matter. As the saying goes, cats hurt people and dogs hurt people. Who lives and loves. To put it bluntly, it is affectionate. A mother's most feared child goes astray, especially her daughter, and is often taught a lesson by her mother. After a long time, my daughter didn't understand, and she felt annoyed and talkative. Most of them felt disgusted. My mother can't accept it when she opens her mouth. She thought she was scolding herself, and over time she rebelled. I don't know if it's right. As a young girl, grandpa's mouth is very cold, and you may not like it. My mother's nagging is from the heart for your own good. My mother knows more things than you. She has experienced ups and downs in the world. Therefore, children should not be indifferent to their mother's love, let alone avoid her love. Children should remember the old saying,' If you are poor, you will change your mind' and' If you don't take care of yourself, you don't know how expensive rice is, and if you don't raise children, you don't know your parents'. Grandpa can only say so much. I'm afraid you won't really understand until you become parents.

My parents divorced when I was only a few months old. I told my mother that when I was over one year old, my mother remarried. A few years ago, my mother went out to work My father always suspected that my mother was outside, and my mother also suspected that my father was outside. The key is to have evidence! Now I'm studying at my grandmother's house, and my cousin is naughty. She either stole from you or hit you when she passed by and ran away. She also said that she would come to me if she could. When you hit him, she complained to my aunt, and then she was scolded and reasoned with her. She said you were a cousin, so you let her, H, Doby? And then she continued to bully you? Impossible, but there is no way. The point is that my aunt always talks about me in front of my uncle. Just now, the teacher asked our students before class 10 to make up lessons and try to get into key classes. Do you know what they said? If you want money, what are you going to do? You have so much money, but you don't spend it on me. Then play with my mobile phone and scold me for not studying. I play with my mobile phone all day to see if I don't break your mobile phone. Going home to play after school, they said why I came back and didn't stay at school. I said I didn't want to go. Then they said what's fun at home, and they know that playing with your mobile phone is not studying. I don't think you are studying. If you hate me, say it. I do the most housework and suffer the most. I can't wait to leave this house. Whew, it's a little long, but I've been complaining for a long time. It may be a rebellious period, but I always think too much and am sensitive.

Asking questions does not bind the mind. Why did your mother scold you for not being sensible? Mother is great. Generally, they will scold you or even hit you out of desperation. The purpose is for the growth of children. If you tell them in a simple sentence, it is not easy to answer, but please firmly believe that parents are good for their children. Methods are sometimes inevitable, but they should be clearly understood and demonstrated. In particular, mothers will pay more attention to caring for their children in every growth period. If it is not appropriate, it should be understood and explained in another way. They must not remember.