Should I confess my love history to my lover?

I don't think it's necessary. If the other person must ask, you can say it in an understatement. After all, everyone has a love experience, and it is not good not to say it.

1. I won't talk if the other party doesn't ask me.

Most people still tend to hold a reserved attitude of "don't ask, don't tell" because they don't feel the need to deliberately mention the past love history.

This includes two considerations. First of all, under the premise that you are not fully familiar with each other, this relationship is not conducive to the development of their relationship. As the saying goes, "the speaker has no intention of listening", and it is inevitable that the other half will have a taste when hearing that the other party has a rich love history.

That kind of stagnation is not only jealousy and dissatisfaction, but also a question about your partner's personality. Besides, since the two are not very close, there is really no need to trust each other too quickly and confess everything without reservation.

In case there is a rift in the relationship between the two later, the love story originally hidden in your heart will not be worth the loss as a handle, so if the other party doesn't ask, it means that Ta doesn't care about your past, or doesn't ask your past experience out of respect.

In this case, there is no need to worry about it, let go of the past freely and manage the present relationship with your heart. After all, no one has had several predecessors.

2. Take the initiative to confess, with reservations.

Love is the unique spiritual enjoyment of human beings, and the sense of appreciation, companionship and missing is an indispensable part of enhancing feelings.

Therefore, in order to maintain this pure love, although they don't have to be honest with each other at the beginning, their subsequent contact and get along with each other should be as open as possible. After all, if you grind your teeth and talk in your sleep at ordinary times and don't like washing your hair and socks, these will be seen by the other party sooner or later. Therefore, if the time is ripe, you may wish to confess your love story to the other party, but there is no need to completely reveal some parts that you don't want to mention.

Everyone has his own past that he wants to treasure alone, so in order not to let the person who hurts you the most return to memory, it is no harm to delete Ta when telling the current story. Taking the initiative to share your experience with your lover is a kind of courage to face it calmly, and it is a kind of sincerity to let it go completely in the eyes of the other party.

Perhaps taking the initiative to alleviate such a sensitive love topic on the basis of personal screening and reservation will make the relationship between the two sides last longer.

For love and marriage, there is nothing that should be done. Two people fall in love and get along. What is more important is to seek a kind of comfort and the best way to get along.