In this era, how to understand a mother with a pension saying that she is lucky to have only one daughter?

In today's society, a daughter is indeed happier than a son.

There are two neighbors downstairs in my house. On the first floor, the son was born, and on the third floor, the daughter was born.

Our community is an apartment. My in-laws and these neighbors used to be colleagues and are familiar with each other.

Both neighbors retired from the same company, so their pensions are similar, but their lives are quite different.

First of all, let's talk about the neighbors who gave birth to their daughters on the third floor. The couple live a carefree life, and often organize a group of equally laid-back elderly people to hold concerts in the community.

A group of literary and artistic old people play erhu, flute and cucurbit flute.

If they don't see each other for a few days, the couple will either travel or go to their daughter's house.

Since their daughter gave birth to a baby, the neighbors and couples on the third floor go to their daughter's house for two or three months every year to help with the baby. One is to cultivate feelings with daughters and nieces, and the other is to give in-laws a rest.

In short, our neighbors on the third floor are rich and idle, so don't live too comfortably. Whenever we see them, their mental state is particularly good.

Let's talk about the neighbors who gave birth to sons on the first floor.

Neighbors on the first floor bought their son a house, a car and a bride price when he got married. They not only emptied all their savings, but also borrowed a lot of money.

Now the husband and wife, the man retired and continued to work outside to earn money and pay off debts, while the woman took care of her granddaughter at home.

Their son's daughter-in-law gave birth to a child, not only regardless, but also unwilling to pay. The children's food and clothing are all paid for by the neighbors.

I met a female neighbor on the first floor some time ago. She told me that her granddaughter was going to kindergarten. She asked her son and daughter-in-law for tuition, and the daughter-in-law said directly: No money, grandparents pay, and they owe first.

The female neighbor said: we owe it first and will not pay it back at all. Although we were uncomfortable, we couldn't help but let our granddaughter go to kindergarten, so the money was paid by the old couple.

And the house where her son and daughter-in-law live, and the property fee has not been paid. The property management company has been calling her husband's mobile phone for three years.

Her husband called her son, and her son said that whoever bought the house would pay the property fee.

Their son works in a company and their daughter-in-law works as a nurse in a hospital. Their monthly income is not low, and they even ask the elderly to pay property fees, which makes the couple on the first floor very popular.

The granddaughter of the neighbor on the first floor didn't go to kindergarten these days, and she didn't know she was ill until she asked.

Neighbors said that the daughter-in-law usually took her granddaughter back to her home for two days regardless of her granddaughter and occasionally did not have to go to work.

No, I didn't take good care of it, so the child ate ice and barbecue, slept at night and caught cold and got sick. A good granddaughter took it and got sick and threw it to the old man.

Neighbors on the first floor shook their heads and sighed when talking about their sons and daughters-in-law. Life can't compare with neighbors with daughters on the third floor. Leisure, freedom, travel and comfort have nothing to do with them. If only my son and daughter-in-law were not angry with them.

Therefore, the mother who has a pension said, fortunately, if she only gave birth to a daughter in that year, she should have seen too many sons living worse than her before saying such a thing.