What if I don't like my sister-in-law

Find out why you don't like sister-in-law, because you are not used to living together at first, or what you don't like about sister-in-law. If you love your brother, you must love your sister-in-law, because your sister-in-law is also your relative.

1, learn to respect and understand your sister-in-law slowly. Sister-in-law's previous life should be very different from your present life, especially since you are from two different places, and the customs, language styles and ways of doing things in different places will be very different.

Therefore, once there are contradictions in some things, remember to run in well and try to learn to put yourself in each other's shoes, so as to better understand the sister-in-law and respect each other instead of hurting each other.

2. Treat your nephew as a relative. Although your sister-in-law's personality may be very different from yours, and sometimes her style of doing things is also very different from yours, this does not prevent you from treating her as family.

Don't always look at her with speculative eyes when you meet something. Instead, you should change your heart, treat her as your own relative, and be kind to her, so that your relationship will be more harmonious.

3. Be moved by kindness and sincerity. Since your sister-in-law has entered your home and become a member of your family, you should treat your sister-in-law as a brother and a family. In daily life, learn to impress and influence your sister-in-law with your kindness and softness.

If your sister-in-law complains to your brother occasionally, you should try to pretend you don't know, and then continue to be nice to her. I believe that you have seen people for a long time, and she will understand your kindness and be deeply moved by you.

4. Tell your sister-in-law more sweet words. If you think there is a certain distance between you and your sister-in-law, it may be that there is less interaction between you. At this time, you might as well praise your sister-in-law according to her good performance at home and often say something sweet to her. Of course, your sister-in-law is a spiritual fruit and likes to get along with you.

5. Buy gifts for my sister-in-law occasionally. If you want to get along well with your sister-in-law, you should pay attention to regulating your behavior in daily life, and you should not offend your sister-in-law or speak ill of her. In fact, I can buy some small gifts for my sister-in-law occasionally.

For example, if you are on a business trip and see some small gifts suitable for your sister-in-law, you can buy them and give them to each other. I believe that such a good interaction will let your sister-in-law know that you have her in your heart and are willing to be good to you.

I believe that if you follow the above five points, your mind will gradually understand your sister-in-law and change your attitude towards her. Everything goes well at home. You like your sister-in-law, and your sister-in-law will like you. In life, your accommodation and care for each other are always a hundred times stronger than contradictions.