Which do you think is more terrible, marrying the wrong person or not marrying?

First of all, marry the wrong person. A woman only comes once in her life. If she marries the wrong person, she has two choices, one is divorce, and the other is muddling along.

First, the final result is divorce. This is the result of my uncle and aunt. My uncle was lazy when he was a child, but now he doesn't go to work in his 40 s and 50 s, and he has to ask his parents for money.

My uncle is a lazy man and has many excuses for everything. My aunt usually sells pork and makes minced meat to earn some money, but she often quarrels every few days, so that both sides take knives. My aunt wants to divide the property, but my uncle has no property. At that time, my aunt knew that the house was going to be demolished, and there would definitely be room allocation and money sharing, so she wanted to insist, and finally she was taken to court by her uncle and sentenced to divorce. After the divorce, my aunt encouraged my brother and grandparents to write the name of the house together so that my aunt could move in.

Second, muddle along. Because my brother grew up in an unhappy family, he will be grumpy. As the saying goes, there are only zero and countless domestic violence. Every time my brother gets drunk, he will beat his wife, and even several times he is hospitalized. My family has advised me many times, but if I can't do it, I will get a divorce. My sister-in-law wants a divorce, and my brother always apologizes. In the face of several children, my sister-in-law also endured. Every time my sister-in-law runs out, my brother will look everywhere and get her back. My brother once said that nothing works without your sister-in-law. We said you should treat your wife well and change your temper. Your wife must work and support the whole family. What would you do without the help of your mother-in-law and grandma? You should also be more considerate of your wife's difficulties.

Second, don't get married. Not married, at least not mother-in-law relationship. At best, there is a lot of nagging at home and gossip outside, but it is easy to be alone. Live a good life, only your own troubles.