Ex-boyfriends are always obsessed with ex-girlfriends. What should I do?

? First of all, you should make it clear that since the other person is already an ex-boyfriend, it means that you have dissolved the relationship between lovers and you have no right to interfere in other people's choices. Just because you've been in love doesn't mean you can control the rest of his life. What you don't want to hear after a breakup is that it's none of your business who your ex-boyfriend is infatuated with. What you need to do now is:

First, adjust the mentality.

? Although it is a past tense, you may have been obsessed with your ex-boyfriend. You may want to make the other person pay more attention to you by breaking up, but it's hard to say that after you broke up, the other person not only didn't care too much, but also ignored your feelings and missed his girlfriend so much. This is enough to show that the other party doesn't value you at all. Since your relationship has broken down to the present situation. I suggest you adjust your mentality and get out of this nightmare relationship as soon as possible.

Second, strive to be excellent.

? During your love, your dedication to him did not touch him, but touched yourself. You lost yourself in this humble relationship. After breaking up, the other party not only failed to recover, but also missed his ex-girlfriend all the time. Breaking up like this is not necessarily a bad thing for you. You can turn his injury into motivation and make yourself shine. One day you will meet someone who is more worthy of your life than your ex-boyfriend.

Third, stay away from ex-boyfriends

You have ended the relationship between lovers, and maybe now you still can't bear to part with him and don't want to let go of this relationship. But since we broke up, we should be hard on ourselves, try not to have any contact with our ex-boyfriend, and don't take the initiative to understand each other's living conditions, so that you can get out of this relationship as soon as possible.

There is no one on earth who can't live without anyone. I hope you don't live in such a reluctant relationship. Adjust your mentality as soon as possible and get out of this shadow as soon as possible. You deserve a better lover.