Chickens talk about themselves first.

Nowadays, the society attaches importance to education, which seems to have reached an alarming level, so a lot of nouns have appeared.

"Niu Wa": Excellent in one respect, superior to ordinary people. If English is particularly good, it is called "English cow"; If an ordinary child does not attend a special class, it is called a "green baby"; If you are forced to learn a lot by your parents every day, it is "chicken baby".

There is a treasure mother Xiaoping (Hua Ming). Her son is seven years old and lives in a third-tier city. In order to give her children a better education, she takes her seven-year-old son from the city where she lives every Friday and takes the 12-hour train to the first-tier cities to learn guzheng.

Xiaoping shared the itinerary of his mother and son on social software. At 7 o'clock in the morning, her son had breakfast on the train. When they choose to stay up late, they can save one night's accommodation and catch up with the teacher's class time in time.

After class in the morning, mother and son began to drive back again. Because I want to take the bullet train, I choose to take the high-speed train. Compared with the express train, the high-speed train is fast enough and comfortable enough. Because on Saturday afternoon, the children have English tutoring classes in the local area.

Is it really necessary to rush? Maybe everyone's understanding is different, but can a chick with such a full schedule understand her parents' pains?

For this mother, I also invested a lot of financial and human resources. The round-trip transportation fee may cost one or two thousand yuan a week, and with the cost of class, she has to travel four times a month. It is conceivable how much financial pressure this has on parents.

Not only this mother, but also the parents in Haidian District, is also known as the "chicken baby model". Once, a Bao Da in Haidian District shared the schedule of the second-child family, which shocked many parents. As a group of elite parents, most of the parents here graduated from prestigious schools. Obviously, they can't agree that children are "willing to be mediocre."

Therefore, children automatically enter the chicken baby mode as soon as they learn to speak. These parents are well-educated and have a wide network of contacts. Not as long as you pass the college entrance examination. For the investment in education, it is to spare no effort, not to study abroad, not to study in world famous schools, as if I am sorry for my parents' efforts.

Some people think that parents do their best to give their children the best education, which may bring some pressure to their children and greatly damage their financial and human resources. Such a desperate education model may not be able to accept failure. If the child makes mistakes in the exam or further studies, how should the family face it?

It is also said that children's growth is the process of learning, and parents have time and energy to urge learning, which is good for their children's future. Enlighten children more at ordinary times, which does not mean that there is no other life except study. Successful people are not achieved through hard work. Even if he eventually becomes an ordinary person, his self-discipline and enthusiasm for learning will not make him live too badly.

Others think that education should be done according to one's ability, and the way of serving children wholeheartedly is still not worth advocating. Children will have their own development, and parents should also have their own lives, support each other and understand each other. This is a normal family. Everything is up to parents, and sometimes it's not a good thing.

Parents should also focus on the present when considering their children's future. Children's childhood happiness also needs to exist. Finding children's interests and paying attention to training will have long-term effects.

There are not many talents, and people's energy is limited. It is a child's learning attitude to bring one or two talents to the extreme. It's windy today and rainy tomorrow, so it's a waste of time to learn anything from fire.

The company of parents is also the most effective study. Jackson Yee's mother, even the "chicken baby" parents, took Jackson Yee to study everywhere since childhood. In order to keep the children learning dance, the mother became the oldest student in the training class, accompanying the children to study together.

"If you want to be a chicken, be a chicken first" roughly means to cultivate children's character. It will be better for parents to come up with corresponding skills and accompany their children.

Do you think it is worthwhile for a mother to take her children to class by train overnight?