Love to show off. What is the psychology of people who love to show off?

In reality, there must be people who love to show off around us. Whether in the workplace or in life, this kind of person seems to be pervasive and exists everywhere. He always likes to "pretend to be a ghost" in front of everyone.

But the fact is that the more people like to show off, the less focus they can show off. If he shows off his wealth, there are many people who are richer than him; if he is more powerful, there are many people who are in a higher position than him. The saying "There are mountains outside the mountains, and there are people outside the people" is absolutely true. No one can claim to be "the best in the world".

The more people are shown off, the more mediocre their abilities are. People who try their best to show off their two skills in front of everyone will often end up "playing tricks", which makes people laugh. "Half a bucket of water" is like that, it's a shame to kill someone, and they still don't close the stall.

Like to show off is a psychological defect. It is nothing more than trying to attract other people's attention, make everyone praise a few times, and seek some kind of comfort in the heart. However, in fact, it often backfires. It is often embarrassing and rarely successful. More often, it attracts ridicule or disdain from others. His eyes always make him very passive and embarrassed.

Like to show off, it is actually a sign of lack of self-confidence. Because of lack of self-confidence, fear of not being recognized by others, not being the center of attention, and fear of being left out by everyone, they have no choice but to show off their "difference" and a certain sense of "superiority" to win everyone's admiration.

People who like to show off often don’t end well. Either being teased by others, or being attacked by others, the "advantages" that you still have are exposed and become the target and stronghold for others to attack. As a result, even this only advantage was bombed. What's more, people who like to show off are either being targeted by thieves or being watched by bad guys. For example, money and power are often destroyed quietly by cold-hearted and thoughtful people, but they don't know the reason.

This is why people often remind everyone: be low-key! This is absolutely true. Because "people are afraid of being famous and pigs are afraid of being strong", the result of a big tree attracting the wind is that it bends even if it doesn't break, straining the muscles and bones and not getting any benefits. But if you keep a low profile, you can "make a fortune quietly". No thieves will know, no bad guys will care about you, and no one will be jealous. The safety factor is extremely high, and you can live calmly.

Everyone knows the truth, but why do so many people still like to show off in a high-profile way? This problem is very simple. On the one hand, this kind of person lacks self-confidence, and on the other hand, because this kind of person loves face and vanity.

Saving face and loving vanity can make many people lose their reason and self-control. His inner urge to show off far outweighed his self-control. He feels uncomfortable when he doesn't show off, and feels extremely happy when he shows off. This is actually a release of inner depression. From this perspective, it is still good for his health.

However, people who love to show off usually lose more than they gain. After he has finished showing off, only God knows how many dangers await him in the unknown ahead. In other words, there is a price to pay for anything you do, and showing off in a high-profile manner is no exception!