It's none of your business. Hang it high and talk about it.

Mr. Lu Xun said such a sentence in "Just the Right Collection"

People's joys and sorrows are not connected. I just think they are too noisy. People are always like this, which is none of their business.

So, I hope you will be strong in the days to come ~

Hi, everyone ~ Welcome to Xiao Ran Shudong House. In the future, I will be your tree hole, willing to listen to your story!

Tell me about me. Since when do I want to help people around me in this way? Yesterday? Last week? Last month or last year? I am a young artist, young, but I have a lot of inner drama ~

I wanted to share the growth of my design before, but later I found that I might prefer to record my life, not so much a diary as an essay.

I have many friends around me, but most of them have the same characteristics, confused about the future and hopeless about life.

Rhonda byrne described the "secret" in a book called "Secret" and mentioned the "law of attraction". The more you pay attention to something, the more it will enter your life.

I really care about this aspect, or maybe I used to be such a person. So, I know what you are thinking, and I am willing to listen to you.

So I began to decide to do such a thing.

I am a person who is very concerned about this aspect of psychology. When it comes to reading, my first choice must be psychology books. I really like them. I don't like to guess what others think, but I like their truth.

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I read an article in the newspaper today, and its name particularly attracted me. "I am depressed, and I don't know what to do."

I read a lot, and there are many comments and messages below. You may think of words of comfort and encouragement like me, but most of them are actually scolding her.

She is a girl in her twenties, near the threshold of thirty, and married.

She and her husband are in Shanghai. Her salary is 3600, her husband is 8000, her monthly car loan is 5000, and her rent is 2000.

I glanced at the content. As for why so many people scold her, I understand very well, because I don't have enough ability to spend in advance, and I spend in advance by a large margin. As a quiet netizen, I will not express my views at will. Everyone has different views on consumption, so she is depressed because of money anxiety.

I also clicked on her homepage at random, and the title of each article was very negative. I really like this girl. At least she didn't escape from the present situation. She recorded everything about herself very strongly. Maybe no one in life will listen to her gossip at all! After all, people are busy and can't accept too much negative energy!

I just want to say to this girl, dear girl, you have to refuel!

When you feel stressed, you can't see the hope of getting better, and you feel that you can't persist any longer. I hope you can accept that feeling of helplessness, don't resist, write more, as long as you can detect it and don't need to change, you will heal yourself.